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Nice self-awareness and a thoughtful classification. What a helpful letter. Thanks, letter writer.

Many years of happiness to you and your wife.

Posted by Megan | August 21, 2008 3:16 PM

I am still amazed by this fetish.

Posted by Non | August 21, 2008 3:25 PM

I think this is one way for men to fullfill their desire to see/be with another man in sexual play, without touching them (or maybe they do touch eachother). ..just as if their porn comes to life.

Posted by J | August 21, 2008 3:34 PM

do women have this desire too? somehow i doubt it...

Posted by max solomon | August 21, 2008 4:04 PM

@3 for the insightful point. Personally, I don't get it.

Posted by Will in Seattle | August 21, 2008 4:36 PM

There may not be a lot of women wanting to see their husbands with another woman (though there certainly are some) but I think you'd really be surprised at the number of women who get turned on by the idea of seeing their husband with another man.

And this letter was really well done. I can see why Dan would chose to repost it.

Posted by Ed | August 21, 2008 4:38 PM

@4 Yes.

With all these young ladies experimenting with 3-ways, there's a lot that are discovering how much they enjoy sitting back, relaxing, and watching their man and some lovely thing go completely nasty on one another. It's like really good porn, but with characters you like, and the music's better, and you can watch from any angle you like.

Posted by C | August 21, 2008 6:18 PM

@6/7 Bingo.

Posted by Darcy | August 21, 2008 6:40 PM

Absolutely, although in my case, we can create a fourth category from those above: I like the idea of seeing my guy use someone else.

Posted by Marla | August 22, 2008 7:23 AM

@6: Hell yes. Unfortunately, it seems men who are willing to do this are even fewer than the women who want to watch.

Posted by Gloria | August 22, 2008 7:58 AM

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