Savage Love Savage Love Letter of the Day
posted by August 21 at 14:59 PMon
A response to something in last week’s column:
A writer asked you about her boyfriend and his interest in seeing her with other men, calling in cuckolding.
I share a similar fantasy about my wife of 10 years. We role play it all the time; it makes for great sex. I’ve chatted with a lot of guys about this fantasy, and it seems to fall into three general categories, label them how you want. 1) Men that want to be humiliated by a cheating wife, 2) Men that want to see their wives used, and 3) Men that just get turned on by watching their wife enjoy themselves with another guy.
I fall into that last category. I don’t want to be humiliated, I don’t want her used; I just get off on the fantasy of seeing her have a good time with another dude while I watch. The letter writer should probably see what about the fantasy turns on her BF, as she may not like the response. She should also have him point out men he would like to see her with. I have yet to see one, which tells me mine is best left a fantasy.
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