Slog - Comments on Savage Love Letter of the Day http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39 A response to something in last week's column: A writer asked you about her boyfriend and his interest in seeing her with other men, calling in cuckolding. I share a similar fantasy about my wife of 10 years. We role play it all the time; it makes for great sex. I've chatted with a lot of guys about this fantasy, and it seems to fall into three general categories, label them how you want. 1) Men that want to be humiliated by a cheating wife, 2) Men that want to see their wives used, and 3) Men that just get... Copyright 2008 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 14:59:19 -0800 Fri, 22 Aug 2008 07:58:52 -0800 http://www.movabletype.org/?v=3.34 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Comment by Megan Nice self-awareness and a thoughtful classification. What a helpful letter. Thanks, letter writer.

Many years of happiness to you and your wife.

]]> Megan http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110636 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110636 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:16:38 -0800 Comment by Non I am still amazed by this fetish.

]]> Non http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110646 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110646 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:25:09 -0800 Comment by J I think this is one way for men to fullfill their desire to see/be with another man in sexual play, without touching them (or maybe they do touch eachother). ..just as if their porn comes to life.

]]> J http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110653 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110653 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:34:24 -0800 Comment by max solomon do women have this desire too? somehow i doubt it...

]]> max solomon http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110686 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110686 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:04:31 -0800 Comment by Will in Seattle @3 for the insightful point. Personally, I don't get it.

]]> Will in Seattle http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110729 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110729 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:36:54 -0800 Comment by Ed There may not be a lot of women wanting to see their husbands with another woman (though there certainly are some) but I think you'd really be surprised at the number of women who get turned on by the idea of seeing their husband with another man.

And this letter was really well done. I can see why Dan would chose to repost it.

]]> Ed http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110730 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110730 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 16:38:12 -0800 Comment by C @4 Yes.

With all these young ladies experimenting with 3-ways, there's a lot that are discovering how much they enjoy sitting back, relaxing, and watching their man and some lovely thing go completely nasty on one another. It's like really good porn, but with characters you like, and the music's better, and you can watch from any angle you like.

]]> C http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110812 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110812 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:18:23 -0800 Comment by Darcy @6/7 Bingo.

]]> Darcy http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110829 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110829 Savage Love Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:40:26 -0800 Comment by Marla @4
Absolutely, although in my case, we can create a fourth category from those above: I like the idea of seeing my guy use someone else.

]]> Marla http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110951 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110951 Savage Love Fri, 22 Aug 2008 07:23:35 -0800 Comment by Gloria @6: Hell yes. Unfortunately, it seems men who are willing to do this are even fewer than the women who want to watch.

]]> Gloria http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110957 http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/08/savage_love_letter_of_the_day_39#c1110957 Savage Love Fri, 22 Aug 2008 07:58:52 -0800