Savage Love Savage Love Letter of the Day: An Email Exchange
posted by January 23 at 15:00 PMon
I’ve been dating this guy, a year older and supposedly way more experienced than I am, for about a month and a half. At first it seemed we had a lot in common but then everything started going down hill FAST. He is really sensitive about everything and has insisted on calling me 2-3 times and hour, and if I don’t pick up he has his friend call me to see whats up. He’s basically a cross between an uber-preppy rich girl and a puppy but over-weight, broke, male, and has no fashion sense. He’s clingy and likes to invite himself over A LOT.
The thing that REALLY pissed me off was when he had the audacity to call me spoiled. I work full time and go to college full time, along with having another job on the side. He’s 20, not going to school, has no job; in fact, he never has, lives with his parents rent free, doesn’t clean, doesn’t even have a license. I’m paying my own way through college on a very small government loan. I don’t think I’m the spoiled one here.
He pisses me off to a point where I’ve called his mom to pick him up. I haven’t talked to him at all in 2 weeks. Another problem is since I haven’t been talking to him I’ve been thinking a lot about this girl i liked in high school. We still talk and she’s made it clear she likes me. What the hell should I do???
You’re kidding, right? DTMFA.
I wish I were. I’m a nineteen year old girl, I work in theater, as a techie, I can’t deal with dating a guy who makes Elle Woods look like a lumberjack. I’m forced to deal with enough prima-donnas already. And this other girl, I’ve worked with her on and off for 4 years and we always have fun. So what do you think I should do, my Savage guru?
I think you should dump the motherfucker already. Why are you even wasting your time on this clingy piece of loser shit? And if you would rather date the girl, date the girl already. Sheesh.