As I mentioned in the Morning News, last night's Hardball featured a gay-marriage discussion between Maggie Gallagher of the National Organization for Marriage (the group behind the shamelessly fear-mongering "Gathering Storm" ad) and Joe Solmonese of the Human Rights Campaign, and here it is:

First impressions: Maggie Gallagher is more eloquent than I imagined, and Joe Solmonese was less eloquent than I wanted.

A key point left unaddressed is brought up by Gallagher's repetition of the idea that "redefining marriage will change marriage forever." This is true, and pretending it isn't is unwise. The question is whether this disruption to the existing idea of marriage is threatening enough to deny equal rights to an entire class of citizens, and the answer is unequivocally no.

Yes, granting marriage rights to same-sex couples will "change marriage forever," just like the civil rights movement changed public transportation forever, and the suffrage movement changed democracy forever. This is called progress, and protecting the (unfair) world that the marriage-is-only-between-a-man-and-a-woman folks have grown accustomed is in no way so pressing a concern it mandates denying equal rights to an entire group of Americans. (In other words: wrapping her brain around the new realities of 21st-century life is Ms. Gallagher's job; it is not the government's job to perpetuate injustice just to keep her and her ilk comfortable.)