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2012 / Religion / LGBTQITSLFA Head of Seattle Prep—"Seattle's Jesuit High School Since 1891"—Endorses Marriage Equality, Urges Voters to Approve R-74
Posted by Dan Savage on Fri, Oct 5, 2012 at 11:02 AM
From a post that went up today on the President's Blog at Seattle Prep's website:
I am committed to conservatism: I am more conservative on social issues than is the norm in the Pacific Northwest. I believe interpretations of our Constitution should preserve the original intent of our Founding Fathers. And my worldview is grounded in Catholic faith tradition. It is for these reasons that I support Washington’s gay marriage law....
The crux of the issue is a fundamentally different understanding between the Church hierarchy and most lay Catholics regarding the basic purpose of marriage. The bishops clearly and repeatedly state that the primary purpose of marriage is reproduction. And, if this basic premise is accepted, it does logically follow that there is no place for gay marriage for obvious biological reasons. But reproduction is not the primary purpose of marriage. It perhaps was during the time of ancient Israel when high infant mortality rates and threats to tribal existence demanded multiple births. We, however, do not live in that time. The primary purpose of marriage today is found in the Genesis creation stories, especially the second one: “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body.” (Gn. 2:24)
For those more inclined to divining truth from modern day mythology than Scripture, I suggest watching the first 10 minutes of the Pixar film, Up. A couple that desires children experiences deep loss and sadness when they find out that they cannot conceive. But does that make their marriage any less of a marriage? When a couple practices birth control (natural of course) while having sex, are they less married at those times than when sperm is free to encounter egg? And are married couples who choose to not have children really not married couples after all?
The answer to these questions is, of course, a resounding “no.” That’s because the primary purpose of marriage is unitive, not procreative. It is the union that makes the marriage sacramental. Marriage, in and of itself and regardless of the presence of children, is a path to God.
Kent Hickey is the president of Seattle Prep. You can—and should—read his entire letter here. (Via Slog commenter Mr. Barky.)
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I always felt that first 10 minutes of Up was some of the most poignant on film. And yes, it does illustrate what marriage is about.
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h/t to Christophers80 on reddit as that's where I found out about this.
http://www.reddit.com/user/christophers8…
http://www.reddit.com/user/christophers8…
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That's lovely, and brilliant. I would go to a Catholic church that thought and taught as this man does.
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I like that in the full letter, he addresses the separation of church and state. A lot of theological opinions get bounced around regarding whether homosexuality is against the bible. That, however, is irrelevant with regards to the law. If you are religious, you should support the separation of church and state for the freedom it affords you and observe that same freedom for everyone else.
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The Jesuit's know whatsup.. now if only the Brother's at SeattleU would step up and say the same (I'm look at you Sundborg!)
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Well said, sir.
And well referenced. You could argue that it's formulaic and unoriginal, but the beginning of Up is about as good a capsule of a simple life well-lived as you could ask for.
Fuck, I'm crying all over my lab notebook. I must be getting senile.
And well referenced. You could argue that it's formulaic and unoriginal, but the beginning of Up is about as good a capsule of a simple life well-lived as you could ask for.
Fuck, I'm crying all over my lab notebook. I must be getting senile.
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He's right. The penis and the vagina (in combination) are the primary reasons for reproduction (if the opposite sex couple are fertile), not marriage.
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Finally, some sense in the debate from the religious side!
Yeah, Jesuits really are more intellectually rigorous than other Catholics/Xtians.
Yeah, Jesuits really are more intellectually rigorous than other Catholics/Xtians.
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Wonderful statement, and logically consistent, which one would hope from the head of a Jesuit school.
I take issue with his "founding fathers" statement. To be true to that belief, one has to encompass the incredible amount of disagreement and compromise the drafters of the constitution had, their desire for it to be a living document, and the lack of consistent (or any) religious faith across them.
I take issue with his "founding fathers" statement. To be true to that belief, one has to encompass the incredible amount of disagreement and compromise the drafters of the constitution had, their desire for it to be a living document, and the lack of consistent (or any) religious faith across them.
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THIS IS WHAT BISHOPS WILL BE SAYING IN 100 YEARS (hopefully minus the natural-only BC requirement)!
They will catch up eventually. They WILL catch up!
They will catch up eventually. They WILL catch up!
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so
pretty ironic that he cites a scripture
that unambiguously defines marriage
as a 'man-woman' institution.....
and
"the two of them become one body”,
literally,
when they make a child together....
pretty ironic that he cites a scripture
that unambiguously defines marriage
as a 'man-woman' institution.....
and
"the two of them become one body”,
literally,
when they make a child together....
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@15 - One could quibble about his exegesis, but it's still more clever than your rebuttal. Literalism in interpreting scripture is unique and endemic to anthropomorphic monotheism; one of the many ways in which Jesuits are a bit like the Buddhists of Christianity is that they recognize that "revealed" text can be, at best, a filtering through the fallible human mind of obscure metaphysical insights, invariably colored by the context--social, cultural, linguistic--in which they arose.
This does not speak, of course, to the question of whether it's even relevant, so far as we're discussing civil marriage, what texts founded on subjective metaphysical views (and moral systems derived therefrom) have to say on the matter.
Of course, you avoid offering any insight (I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you just might have some on hand) by not really addressing the question he poses. Do you maintain that infertile couples do not "become one body"--that, in essence, childless marriages are not valid marriages? What of elderly couples or couples known before marriage to be unable to conceive--should they not be allowed to marry (or, more precisely, should whatever commitment rituals they undergo anyway not be recognized as marriages)?
This does not speak, of course, to the question of whether it's even relevant, so far as we're discussing civil marriage, what texts founded on subjective metaphysical views (and moral systems derived therefrom) have to say on the matter.
Of course, you avoid offering any insight (I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you just might have some on hand) by not really addressing the question he poses. Do you maintain that infertile couples do not "become one body"--that, in essence, childless marriages are not valid marriages? What of elderly couples or couples known before marriage to be unable to conceive--should they not be allowed to marry (or, more precisely, should whatever commitment rituals they undergo anyway not be recognized as marriages)?
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"That’s because the primary purpose of marriage is unitive, not procreative. It is the union that makes the marriage sacramental. Marriage, in and of itself and regardless of the presence of children, is a path to God."
Yeah!
I'm actually surprised he went there, though. While that's a tenet of my Quaker faith, I was thinking that he was going to make a secular argument. Awesome!
Yeah!
I'm actually surprised he went there, though. While that's a tenet of my Quaker faith, I was thinking that he was going to make a secular argument. Awesome!
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We noted that the scripture he cites does not support homosexual 'marriage' in any way and poetically alludes to the reproductive potential of marriage; totally opposite of the argument he was attempting to make.
Perhaps a way in which Jesuits are a bit like the Special Ed kids of Christianity?
We noted that the scripture he cites does not support homosexual 'marriage' in any way and poetically alludes to the reproductive potential of marriage; totally opposite of the argument he was attempting to make.
Perhaps a way in which Jesuits are a bit like the Special Ed kids of Christianity?
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@15: It's pretty clear that the phrase is an example rather than a rule. A man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife. It could just have easily said that a woman leaves her father and mother and clings to her husband; in fact, that would be more accurate in light of the patriarchal tribal customs of the time (the wife became part of the husband's family rather than the opposite).
The bit about becoming as one body is explicitly NOT about bearing children together, but instead refers to Eve being created from Adam's rib.
The bit about becoming as one body is explicitly NOT about bearing children together, but instead refers to Eve being created from Adam's rib.
And the man said: 'This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.' Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh.The imagery is of two split halves returning to each other in perfect complementation and unity. (In fact, it's reminiscent of the story put forward by Aristophanes in the Symposium, in which humans were originally bound in pairs as two-sided beings, and were divinely split and set to wander the earth waiting for their other half.)
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@19: Um, it has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with reproduction. Stop trying to make Scripture say what you want it to and start reading it for what it is.
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And the insight that marriage is Unitive is not an argument for homosexual 'marriage'.
Any more than arguing that it is a means for man and dog to become 'one body'.
Any more than arguing that it is a means for man and dog to become 'one body'.
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It could have.
But it didn't.
But,
yeah,
we see your point that is has NOTHING to do with homosexual 'marriage'.
It could have.
But it didn't.
But,
yeah,
we see your point that is has NOTHING to do with homosexual 'marriage'.
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And a Catholic pointing how how Fucked Up Catholic Dogma is bears ZERO relevance to the American debate about marriage.
Most folks already get that Catholicism is Fucked Up.
What took Kent so long?
Most folks already get that Catholicism is Fucked Up.
What took Kent so long?
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We noted that the scripture he cites does not support homosexual 'marriage' in any way and poetically alludes to the reproductive potential of marriage; totally opposite of the argument he was attempting to make.From where do you extrapolate that it poetically alludes to reproductive potential, and not to unity? Is it, or is it not, your contention that all childless marriages--or even just those marriages where future childlessness was a known quantity--are in violation of this definition of marriage?
Aside from the quickly diminishing fun of actually trying to get you to express an idea (the capacity for which is all that separates us significantly from the cockroach), it's all rather beside the point, for all the reasons I mentioned. There are passages in the Lotus Sutra that say bodhisattvas should not associate with practitioners of combat sports--a matter which many orders that follow said sutra violate by practicing such sports themselves. Scholars and followers of religion and religious texts spend considerable time trying to separate the necessary and absolute at the heart of what they study from the conditional, from that which arose as a function of the time and place in which these texts were written.
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@22: Marriage is unitive. Therefore, marriage is driven by the desire of people to be together. Homosexuals differ only from heterosexuals in that they desire people of the same gender as themselves. Legally, people of both genders are equal. Therefore, there is no legal difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals. Therefore, marriage between homosexuals and between heterosexuals has no substantial difference. Q.E.D.
Please try to keep up.
@23: You said it was about reproduction. I showed you how it WASN'T about reproduction. You said, in effect, "HA! It's not about gay marriage!"
Huh? Numbers 15:37-41 isn't about gay marriage either. So fucking what?
Please try to keep up.
@23: You said it was about reproduction. I showed you how it WASN'T about reproduction. You said, in effect, "HA! It's not about gay marriage!"
Huh? Numbers 15:37-41 isn't about gay marriage either. So fucking what?
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And the insight that marriage is Unitive is not an argument for homosexual 'marriage'.Not by itself, no (at least not a factual or empirical argument; more on that in a second). It's simply a rebuttal against the notion that marriage is, in essence, reproductive, which is one of the major arguments advanced against same-sex marriage. It kicks the ball back to the other side to either refute the notion that marriage is unitive or come up with an argument that doesn't rely on the notion that marriage is for baby-making.
One can step back from the factual, and say that from a unitive standpoint, there is no difference between a homosexual relationship and a heterosexual one. I'm not sure that's any more (or less) relevant than anyone's beliefs to the contrary, since such things cannot be empirically measured.
Any more than arguing that it is a means for man and dog to become 'one body'.Animals other than humans cannot vote, own property, change careers of their own volition, or enter into any kinds of human contracts. Since marriage was first recognized by any kind of tribe, the nature of marriage has been contractual. At the risk of adding zoological confusion to your list of intellectual maladies, your dog is a red herring.
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"Literalism in interpreting scripture is unique and endemic to anthropomorphic monotheism;"
I don't think that's correct. It's endemic to monotheistic fundamentalism - like evangelical Christianism, Islamism, and some strands of Jewish Orthodoxy.
The major strands in Christianity - Catholicism, mainstream Lutheranism - and Judaism - Conservative, Reform, Reconciliation - don't believe in literalism. In Islam literalism is unfortunately more widespread, I don't know much about that, though, beyond the fact that I guess it's connected to the story of how the Q'ran was dictated to Mohamed.
I don't think that's correct. It's endemic to monotheistic fundamentalism - like evangelical Christianism, Islamism, and some strands of Jewish Orthodoxy.
The major strands in Christianity - Catholicism, mainstream Lutheranism - and Judaism - Conservative, Reform, Reconciliation - don't believe in literalism. In Islam literalism is unfortunately more widespread, I don't know much about that, though, beyond the fact that I guess it's connected to the story of how the Q'ran was dictated to Mohamed.
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@29 - That's probably fair. I tend to look at Judaism through a different lens, because so many of the Jewish thinkers with whom I have contact are panentheists, if not pantheists, in approach, so the notion that deity is possessed of will, moral interest, and is immutable in such doesn't really apply. Catholics may be less literal than, say, Calvinists or Pentacostals, but it seems to me that once you use the Bible as an argument for (rather than merely an expression of) principles for social organization, you're granting it a very "literal" authority.
In any case, your point is well taken. I'll chew on it for a while.
In any case, your point is well taken. I'll chew on it for a while.
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@27;22
A string of assumptions.
False assumptions.
Confused Wishful BullShit raised to the sixth power......
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We pointed out that the passage is literally fulfilled when a man and woman create a child.
You regurgitated one of your tired formulaic interpretations that were stale and meaningless 2000 years ago.
And,
yes,
you agree that it has nothing to do with homosexual 'marriage'.....
A string of assumptions.
False assumptions.
Confused Wishful BullShit raised to the sixth power......
:23
We pointed out that the passage is literally fulfilled when a man and woman create a child.
You regurgitated one of your tired formulaic interpretations that were stale and meaningless 2000 years ago.
And,
yes,
you agree that it has nothing to do with homosexual 'marriage'.....
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@32: You claim that I have made false assumptions. Please, tell me which statement in my argument you consider to be incorrect. It's called a "counter-argument", and it's what adults do instead of just saying "I'M RIGHT YOU'RE WRONG LALALALALA".
Also, your use of the word "literally" needs a bit of help. Do a man and a woman LITERALLY become one piece of flesh when they have a kid? And what does reproduction have to do with those verses? It's not mentioned ANYWHERE in Genesis 2. (And for the record, I've before never heard the interpretation I delivered to you. I took the theme of unification vs. reproduction that Mr. Hickey brought up and looked for Scriptural support on my own. Judaism has a strong tradition of encouraging critical and independent thinking, which is more than Christianity can say.)
Also, your use of the word "literally" needs a bit of help. Do a man and a woman LITERALLY become one piece of flesh when they have a kid? And what does reproduction have to do with those verses? It's not mentioned ANYWHERE in Genesis 2. (And for the record, I've before never heard the interpretation I delivered to you. I took the theme of unification vs. reproduction that Mr. Hickey brought up and looked for Scriptural support on my own. Judaism has a strong tradition of encouraging critical and independent thinking, which is more than Christianity can say.)
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@33,
I respectfully disagree, venomlash. While there are a fair number of loud absolutists calling themselves Christian. The practice of literalism and infallibility became popular in the nineteenth century. There are a fair, number of Christians who consider the practice of Christianity to be a "wisdom tradition". And, as you know, wisdom and knowledge are not identical. Hence, there is a strong tradition of encouraging critical thinking and questioning in many denominations. Unfortunately it does not seem that you happen to be engaged in conversation with one.
Kind regards.
I respectfully disagree, venomlash. While there are a fair number of loud absolutists calling themselves Christian. The practice of literalism and infallibility became popular in the nineteenth century. There are a fair, number of Christians who consider the practice of Christianity to be a "wisdom tradition". And, as you know, wisdom and knowledge are not identical. Hence, there is a strong tradition of encouraging critical thinking and questioning in many denominations. Unfortunately it does not seem that you happen to be engaged in conversation with one.
Kind regards.
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I think our pseudo xtian troll doesn't actually study the Bible, but instead reads the Cliff Notes thereof. Context counts.
Thank you to the posters who actually KNOW that verse and where it comes from.
Thank you to the posters who actually KNOW that verse and where it comes from.
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yes junior.
literally.
a 'piece' of a man joins with a 'piece' of a woman and create a new unique 'body'.
the two of them become one body.
it is quite a miracle.
but don't worry.
for $300 you can pay a noble healer to rip it out and throw it in the trash.......
yes junior.
literally.
a 'piece' of a man joins with a 'piece' of a woman and create a new unique 'body'.
the two of them become one body.
it is quite a miracle.
but don't worry.
for $300 you can pay a noble healer to rip it out and throw it in the trash.......
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Wisdom is knowing who/what to question and who/what to obey.
Momma told three year old Sally not to touch the pretty blue flame on the gas stove because it would burn her.
But Sally is a questioning little dear.
The doctors think the skin grafts have a good chance of sticking.
If there was an all knowing benevolent god who shared with mankind the secret of happiness it would be unwise to doubt and question.
but that would require one to have a knowledge of and relationship with that all knowing benevolent god.
of course another option is to wander in the wilderness of vain ignorance and worship the process of questioning for its own sake and to wonder in awe of our own wisdom.
when a golden calf is unavailable one's navel can do in a pinch.
Wisdom is knowing who/what to question and who/what to obey.
Momma told three year old Sally not to touch the pretty blue flame on the gas stove because it would burn her.
But Sally is a questioning little dear.
The doctors think the skin grafts have a good chance of sticking.
If there was an all knowing benevolent god who shared with mankind the secret of happiness it would be unwise to doubt and question.
but that would require one to have a knowledge of and relationship with that all knowing benevolent god.
of course another option is to wander in the wilderness of vain ignorance and worship the process of questioning for its own sake and to wonder in awe of our own wisdom.
when a golden calf is unavailable one's navel can do in a pinch.
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Heterosexual relationships frequently and consistently result in children.
And result in handy little social structures that teach little humans how to grow up to be productive contributing (reproducing) grownup humans.
Marriage is a means to regulate that social structure.
Were there no children marriage would never have been invented.
True.
Not every heterosexual marriage produces children(! the homosexuals wail....)
But historically the overwhelming majority did.
Homosexual relationships will NEVER produce children.
The best they can do is a pale shallow imitation of heterosexual marriage.
A poodle,
dressed in a skirt,
walking on its hind legs,
pushing a baby pram.....
Maintaining the species is serious business.
Best left to the adults.
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Heterosexual relationships frequently and consistently result in children.
And result in handy little social structures that teach little humans how to grow up to be productive contributing (reproducing) grownup humans.
Marriage is a means to regulate that social structure.
Were there no children marriage would never have been invented.
True.
Not every heterosexual marriage produces children(! the homosexuals wail....)
But historically the overwhelming majority did.
Homosexual relationships will NEVER produce children.
The best they can do is a pale shallow imitation of heterosexual marriage.
A poodle,
dressed in a skirt,
walking on its hind legs,
pushing a baby pram.....
Maintaining the species is serious business.
Best left to the adults.
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Reproduction may not be the primary purpose of marriage for some people but it is the primary reason society has an interest in fostering, nurturing and subsidizing heterosexual marriage.
If the envious and bitter want to adjust social marriage policy to reduce or eliminate the subsidies given married people who do not have children they could advance that proposal.
But trying to pretend their barren pairings are Just As Good as heterosexual marriage is false and poor social policy.
If the envious and bitter want to adjust social marriage policy to reduce or eliminate the subsidies given married people who do not have children they could advance that proposal.
But trying to pretend their barren pairings are Just As Good as heterosexual marriage is false and poor social policy.
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Wow, it's going to be really nice when we win this.
I don't care what the Bible says, that's not the law. And I don't care how children are produced, since I'm not having any. All I care about is that my relationship (and so many others) will be legally recognized, as they should be.
And yes, we WILL win this.
I don't care what the Bible says, that's not the law. And I don't care how children are produced, since I'm not having any. All I care about is that my relationship (and so many others) will be legally recognized, as they should be.
And yes, we WILL win this.
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which is why it is as useless to claim the bible supports homosexual marriage as to claim it opposes it.....
which is why it is as useless to claim the bible supports homosexual marriage as to claim it opposes it.....
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@41 The claim is that marriage is about unity, rather than about raising children. If your reading comprehension is that low, I don't think any of us can help you to understand. Now go pray to your made up deity or something, Daddy's got laundry to finish.
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Using The Bible to prove that marriage is about unity is just the other side of the coin of using The Bible to prove that homosexual marriage is Wrong.
Luckily, this is America and
We are free from Kent forcing HIS interpretation of what The Bible teaches about marriage, whatever the fuck he decides that is, into OUR laws.
Using The Bible to prove that marriage is about unity is just the other side of the coin of using The Bible to prove that homosexual marriage is Wrong.
Luckily, this is America and
We are free from Kent forcing HIS interpretation of what The Bible teaches about marriage, whatever the fuck he decides that is, into OUR laws.
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@34: Fair enough. My apologies.
@36: You're jumping through all these rhetorical hoops to try and make it about reproduction, when it's right there in the previous verse. Eve was taken from Adam's side, therefore they are missing part of themselves. By finding his/her "other half", a person can achieve unity. It's right there, simple as anyone could wish for. The rationale for Eve's creation is even laid out as Adam needing a partner or helper, not because there needed to be more of him.
And in case you care, reproduction doesn't exist at this point in the creation narrative. It's only after humanity is expelled from Eden that women are cursed with childbirth and men with hard work.
@39: Society's interest in supporting marriage is not reproduction, but rather parenting. Single people can have kids just as well as married people; where marriage helps is in raising those kids to be thoughtful and productive members of society. And two gay men or two gay women can parent JUST AS WELL as a straight couple.
@36: You're jumping through all these rhetorical hoops to try and make it about reproduction, when it's right there in the previous verse. Eve was taken from Adam's side, therefore they are missing part of themselves. By finding his/her "other half", a person can achieve unity. It's right there, simple as anyone could wish for. The rationale for Eve's creation is even laid out as Adam needing a partner or helper, not because there needed to be more of him.
And in case you care, reproduction doesn't exist at this point in the creation narrative. It's only after humanity is expelled from Eden that women are cursed with childbirth and men with hard work.
@39: Society's interest in supporting marriage is not reproduction, but rather parenting. Single people can have kids just as well as married people; where marriage helps is in raising those kids to be thoughtful and productive members of society. And two gay men or two gay women can parent JUST AS WELL as a straight couple.
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It's always nice to see the more socially progressive interpretations of Christianity (or, for that matter, any religion) stepping forward to remind us all that the literalists and fundamentalists don't actually have the monopoly on religious thought that they claim to posses.
It would be even nicer to see them stepping forward to a greater extent and kicking the extremists out to the fringes where they belong. Perhaps then the perpetual "Christians vs Atheists" slap-fight could finally wind down.
It would be even nicer to see them stepping forward to a greater extent and kicking the extremists out to the fringes where they belong. Perhaps then the perpetual "Christians vs Atheists" slap-fight could finally wind down.
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@35 The vast majority of the "Jesus says no!!1" brigade have barely read the bible, they've simply cherrypicked the parts they know they can interpret to support their personal dislikes. Hell, I probably know it better than them, and I stopped attending church when I was 14. People who actually know their stuff biblewise, like my Methodist reverend father, tend to be more on the supportive side of gay rights.
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Dr. Kent Hickey was my high school prinicpal ten years back. He was one of the best things about going to school. I just love him.
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"And two gay men or two gay women can parent JUST AS WELL as a straight couple."!
OMG!
This is NEWS!
please cite your sources.
Because so far the studies show that kids raised by their married mom and dad do WAY better than kids raised under any other circumstances.
So cite your sources....
(wait a minute. you're not one of Mitt's 5 rat bastard sons who just repeat lies and shit over and over hoping someone will eventually believe it just because you vomited it out your piehole, are you?....)
But before you post any links or studies go back and read the "John Corvino: "Debunking the Regnerus Study"" post, especially the comments.
And any study you cite needs to meet the standards of sample size and selection etc laid down there.
K?
"And two gay men or two gay women can parent JUST AS WELL as a straight couple."!
OMG!
This is NEWS!
please cite your sources.
Because so far the studies show that kids raised by their married mom and dad do WAY better than kids raised under any other circumstances.
So cite your sources....
(wait a minute. you're not one of Mitt's 5 rat bastard sons who just repeat lies and shit over and over hoping someone will eventually believe it just because you vomited it out your piehole, are you?....)
But before you post any links or studies go back and read the "John Corvino: "Debunking the Regnerus Study"" post, especially the comments.
And any study you cite needs to meet the standards of sample size and selection etc laid down there.
K?
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darn junior if you are going to bore folks with your stone age myths at least get them right.
do you recall the first commandment given to Adam and Steve?
hint...."said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply"
true, they didn't get busy until they were evicted
(you know, when your monotheistic deity said:
"Behold, the man is become as one of US....")
but every parent knows you have to kick the little moochers out of the basement before they'll make anything out of themselves.
like children.....
darn junior if you are going to bore folks with your stone age myths at least get them right.
do you recall the first commandment given to Adam and Steve?
hint...."said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply"
true, they didn't get busy until they were evicted
(you know, when your monotheistic deity said:
"Behold, the man is become as one of US....")
but every parent knows you have to kick the little moochers out of the basement before they'll make anything out of themselves.
like children.....
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And when folks go searching for this
Mystical Magical Missing Piece (of Themselves)
(his/her "other half")
so they can achieve unity
what happens when two faggots hook up?
All they find is another poor slob missing a rib.
Not much Unity in that.......
And when folks go searching for this
Mystical Magical Missing Piece (of Themselves)
(his/her "other half")
so they can achieve unity
what happens when two faggots hook up?
All they find is another poor slob missing a rib.
Not much Unity in that.......
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@50: "Because so far the studies show that kids raised by their married mom and dad do WAY better than kids raised under any other circumstances."
WRONG! Children raised by married parents do way better than those raised by a single parent. The evidence so far indicates that there is no significant difference between gay parenting and straight parenting (sources here, here, here, here, and here). No matter how much evidence stacks up against your viewpoint, you seem determined to ignore it. (And you advocating for statistical rigor is pretty rich, considering that you don't know how to properly infer causality or construct a reasonable null hypothesis.)
@51: There are TWO creation stories at the beginning of Genesis. The quote I've been explaining comes from the second one. The commandment you quoted comes from the first one.
More importantly, though, it's not connected to the issue of unification. We are commanded to be fruitful and multiply, yes. But the FUNDAMENTAL REASON for marriage is given elsewhere, and is very clearly not for the purposes of reproduction. Enough mental gymnastics, Alleged; I know that book a lot better than you do.
@52: ...you know that men aren't actually missing ribs, right? The ancient Israelites knew that too. Have you ever heard of an allegory?
WRONG! Children raised by married parents do way better than those raised by a single parent. The evidence so far indicates that there is no significant difference between gay parenting and straight parenting (sources here, here, here, here, and here). No matter how much evidence stacks up against your viewpoint, you seem determined to ignore it. (And you advocating for statistical rigor is pretty rich, considering that you don't know how to properly infer causality or construct a reasonable null hypothesis.)
@51: There are TWO creation stories at the beginning of Genesis. The quote I've been explaining comes from the second one. The commandment you quoted comes from the first one.
More importantly, though, it's not connected to the issue of unification. We are commanded to be fruitful and multiply, yes. But the FUNDAMENTAL REASON for marriage is given elsewhere, and is very clearly not for the purposes of reproduction. Enough mental gymnastics, Alleged; I know that book a lot better than you do.
@52: ...you know that men aren't actually missing ribs, right? The ancient Israelites knew that too. Have you ever heard of an allegory?
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If there was an all knowing benevolent god who shared with mankind the secret of happiness it would be unwise to doubt and question.Please cite any testable evidence that such a thing has occurred. Don't have any? Then it isn't really relevant. The book in question is nothing more than a philosophical guide. What's interesting about Kent Hickey's argument is its philosophical fruit; the rest is pseudo-history--a better argument for an attitude of tolerance among believers than for legal recognition of a contract between consenting adults.
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Heterosexual relationships frequently and consistently result in children.But we don't reward heterosexual marriage only in those cases where it does. Could it be because society benefits from marriage in other ways--say, because married people commit fewer crimes, rely less on social services, tend to give more to charity, be more productive, and so on?
But historically the overwhelming majority did.Currently, less than half of all marriages have progeny at any one time. You can account for some of that by factoring in new marriages that don't have children yet and marriages where infertility is discovered later, but then you also have to account for declining rates of marriage overall.
Maintaining the species is serious business.What is the empirically demonstrable value or state interest in "maintaining the species?"
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Reproduction may not be the primary purpose of marriage for some people but it is the primary reason society has an interest in fostering, nurturing and subsidizing heterosexual marriage.Perhaps historically, but it has rarely been the only reason; there are all the reasons I cite above.
If the envious and bitter want to adjust social marriage policy to reduce or eliminate the subsidies given married people who do not have children they could advance that proposal.I've been married over 16 years; you have nothing I envy but a perplexing lack of rational self-doubt (and ultimately, while I'm sure it would feel good, I'm probably better off with what I've got).
But trying to pretend their barren pairings are Just As Good as heterosexual marriage is false and poor social policy.You have not demonstrated that it anything but "just as good" as the marital contracts offered to childless, elderly, and/or infertile couples.
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but every parent knows you have to kick the little moochers out of the basement before they'll make anything out of themselves.We really can't wait 'til your mom gets the memo.
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wow.
You're not very bright at all, are you.
Maintaining the species IS serious business.
Societies that do not maintain a sufficient birth rate
see their pension and social security systems implode.
Additionally,
over time the population shrinks and gets older,
creating a succession of social and economic crises.
Japan is in that process, Europe verging on it.
Another aspect of the problem
is that the rate of babies born may be high enough to sustain the population
but the quality of people produced deteriorates
and the rising generations do not take their place in the economy
and contribute
but instead add to the burden of society
by taking more social services than they contribute in economic activity.
Your typical hipster moocher over-educated under-skilled Slog fanboy, in other words....
wow.
You're not very bright at all, are you.
Maintaining the species IS serious business.
Societies that do not maintain a sufficient birth rate
see their pension and social security systems implode.
Additionally,
over time the population shrinks and gets older,
creating a succession of social and economic crises.
Japan is in that process, Europe verging on it.
Another aspect of the problem
is that the rate of babies born may be high enough to sustain the population
but the quality of people produced deteriorates
and the rising generations do not take their place in the economy
and contribute
but instead add to the burden of society
by taking more social services than they contribute in economic activity.
Your typical hipster moocher over-educated under-skilled Slog fanboy, in other words....
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Perhaps you have a point.
Perhaps homosexual pairings ARE Just As Good,
as long as we only compare them to the infirm, the lame, the halt, the feeble.....
Perhaps you have a point.
Perhaps homosexual pairings ARE Just As Good,
as long as we only compare them to the infirm, the lame, the halt, the feeble.....
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There is as much evidence that god exists as there is that humans are attracted to people of their own gender.
Did Moses talk to god in a burning bush?
Seems we just have to take his word for it. Or not....
Is Danny attracted to boys?
Who knows.
He has had sex with icky girls, after all.
Seems we just have to take his word for it.
Is Meredith Baxter a lesbian?
She says so.
Who are we to question a woman who was married three times. To Men.
"Homosexuality"
As an innate biological condition?
Please cite any testable evidence that such a thing exists.....
There is as much evidence that god exists as there is that humans are attracted to people of their own gender.
Did Moses talk to god in a burning bush?
Seems we just have to take his word for it. Or not....
Is Danny attracted to boys?
Who knows.
He has had sex with icky girls, after all.
Seems we just have to take his word for it.
Is Meredith Baxter a lesbian?
She says so.
Who are we to question a woman who was married three times. To Men.
"Homosexuality"
As an innate biological condition?
Please cite any testable evidence that such a thing exists.....
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So why is Danny posting some Bozo quoting from The Bible?
It seems Danny doesn't care for The Bible
except when someone tells him it agrees with him...
So why is Danny posting some Bozo quoting from The Bible?
It seems Danny doesn't care for The Bible
except when someone tells him it agrees with him...
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@60: We CAN tell, scientifically, whether people are attracted to individuals of a certain gender or not. A penile plethysmograph can tell if something gets a guy hard, and a vaginal photoplethysmograph can identify whether a woman gets turned on by a given image. By conducting electroencephalograms of people engaged in sexual behaviors, we have recorded patterns of brain activity indicative of sexual arousal, and can identify them in test subjects. In short, we have a nice array of methods for finding out what people actually find sexually arousing. Case. Fucking. Closed.
Don't like the science? Okay, facts have a well-known liberal bias anyway. Consider the following. ASSUMING that all individuals are actually heterosexual, and CONSIDERING the extensive social bias against homosexual behavior, WHY would people actively choose to act gay? Even where being gay is a capital offense, some people still are gay. What possible reason can you propose to explain this choice if the analysis is so heavily stacked against it? Is there any possible explanation other than that some people are just neurologically wired to be gay?
@59: So okay, gays are just as good as infertile people, and gay marriage is just as good as straight marriage between infertile people. I'll take that.
Don't like the science? Okay, facts have a well-known liberal bias anyway. Consider the following. ASSUMING that all individuals are actually heterosexual, and CONSIDERING the extensive social bias against homosexual behavior, WHY would people actively choose to act gay? Even where being gay is a capital offense, some people still are gay. What possible reason can you propose to explain this choice if the analysis is so heavily stacked against it? Is there any possible explanation other than that some people are just neurologically wired to be gay?
@59: So okay, gays are just as good as infertile people, and gay marriage is just as good as straight marriage between infertile people. I'll take that.
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Societies that do not maintain a sufficient birth rateThat says more about the efficacy of those systems than of the need to make more womb rats. If the likes of you are what we can expect of future generations, I'd say we're far, far better off going the way of the dodo.
see their pension and social security systems implode.
Another aspect of the problemI agree. The last thing we need is more reactionary miscreants typing missives in their mothers' basements. I, on the other hand, work three jobs, have never relied on social services, pay my taxes, donate to charities, and take responsibility for the physical, spiritual, and artistic health of my various communities. What have you done today that's worthy of my attention?
is that the rate of babies born may be high enough to sustain the population
but the quality of people produced deteriorates
and the rising generations do not take their place in the economy
and contribute
but instead add to the burden of society
by taking more social services than they contribute in economic activity.
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There is as much evidence that god exists as there is that humans are attracted to people of their own gender.Sorry, but no. And to be fair, my own pantheistic beliefs are no more testable, in the empirical sense, than either theistic or atheistic premises. That humans are attracted to people of their own gender can be easily established by way of blood flow and erectile function (as @62 points out rather succinctly).
Is Danny attracted to boys? Who knows.You've got me there. I cannot prove that Danny is attracted to boys. There's evidence that some men are, but there's a certain intuitive leap--a modicum of faith, one may even say--in my believing that he's one of them.
He has had sex with icky girls, after all.As has my wife (occasionally even in my presence), just as I had sex with icky boys before we married. There's a limitation to what you can extrapolate from such data.
"Homosexuality" As an innate biological condition? Please cite any testable evidence that such a thing exists...You mistake me for someone who thinks it is. I think there are all kinds of factors that determine whether an individual is solely or primarily attracted to members of his or her own sex--genetics and innate biology being only pieces of the puzzle. The other pieces strike me as being scientifically and philosophically interesting, but morally, socially, and legally irrelevant. That it is or is not "innate" is less interesting to me than whether or not it is immutable (in my purely anecdotal observation, it is); whether or not it is immutable is, in turn, less interesting to me (morally, socially, and legally, at least) than whether it is harmful (in my purely anecdotal observation, it is not).
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@49 Indeed he is, thank you for asking. Is yours proud he raised someone who spends all day making easily disproved claims anonymously on a message board, as opposed to doing something productive?
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Those devices measure sexual arousal, not sexual orientation.
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Everything you assert about homosexuality applies much more so to religious belief.
Lets apply it to the assertion in @54 and see:
ASSUMING that there is no 'god', and CONSIDERING the extensive social bias against religion in many modern 'enlightened' humanist societies, WHY would people actively choose to practice religion? Even where belonging to some religions is a capital offense, people still practice religion. What possible reason can you propose to explain this choice if the analysis is so heavily stacked against it? Is there any possible explanation other than that some people have encountered 'god'? (and we haven't even broached the thousands of years of religious persecution and the millions of people who have willingly died for their religious convictions...)
Those devices measure sexual arousal, not sexual orientation.
.
Everything you assert about homosexuality applies much more so to religious belief.
Lets apply it to the assertion in @54 and see:
ASSUMING that there is no 'god', and CONSIDERING the extensive social bias against religion in many modern 'enlightened' humanist societies, WHY would people actively choose to practice religion? Even where belonging to some religions is a capital offense, people still practice religion. What possible reason can you propose to explain this choice if the analysis is so heavily stacked against it? Is there any possible explanation other than that some people have encountered 'god'? (and we haven't even broached the thousands of years of religious persecution and the millions of people who have willingly died for their religious convictions...)
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@66: Yes, those devices measure sexual arousal. What do you call someone who gets aroused by dirty pictures of people of their own gender? You call them gay, duh. (Unless pictures of opposite-gender folks get them hot too, in which case they're bischmexual.)
And as for your religion distraction, I've got an explanation right here. Many religions promise a reward in the afterlife to the faithful, and punishment to the wicked. Therefore, their adherents are willing to let themselves be martyred because eternity in paradise is worth it. Duh.
I'm not trying to prove that God doesn't exist, Alleged. (In fact, it's impossible to prove God's existence or non-existence.) You're attempting to deny the reality that some people are gay. What's your evidence? I've given you mine.
And as for your religion distraction, I've got an explanation right here. Many religions promise a reward in the afterlife to the faithful, and punishment to the wicked. Therefore, their adherents are willing to let themselves be martyred because eternity in paradise is worth it. Duh.
I'm not trying to prove that God doesn't exist, Alleged. (In fact, it's impossible to prove God's existence or non-existence.) You're attempting to deny the reality that some people are gay. What's your evidence? I've given you mine.
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Sexual arousal is not the same as sexual orientation.
And is susceptible to cultural and environmental conditioning.
Perhaps you could read up on it.....
We are pointing out that sexual 'orientation' is just as fleeting and subjective and unverifiable as religious feeling.
Sexual arousal is not the same as sexual orientation.
And is susceptible to cultural and environmental conditioning.
Perhaps you could read up on it.....
We are pointing out that sexual 'orientation' is just as fleeting and subjective and unverifiable as religious feeling.
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@69: Sexual orientation is a pattern of sexual arousal and romantic attraction. If some dude CONSISTENTLY only gets hard from looking at guys, whereas most dudes CONSISTENTLY only get hard from looking at girls, wouldn't you say there's some substantial difference? (Note also that it's caused by other factors than environmental conditioning. People who are brought up believing that gay is bad, or even not knowing about gay, still sometimes turn out gay.)
Not to mention the collection of physiological differences in the brain that have been recorded and studied, and demonstrated to actually determine sexual orientation.
If it seems subjective and unverifiable to you, that's only because you selectively ignore all evidence that doesn't support your opinions. And that's your problem, not mine.
Not to mention the collection of physiological differences in the brain that have been recorded and studied, and demonstrated to actually determine sexual orientation.
If it seems subjective and unverifiable to you, that's only because you selectively ignore all evidence that doesn't support your opinions. And that's your problem, not mine.
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US is a superstitious country.
Solution: bitch/butch only relationships. The holy union of Ish and Isha are there. And anti-gay discrimination is shown for what it is, gender discrimination.
Solution: bitch/butch only relationships. The holy union of Ish and Isha are there. And anti-gay discrimination is shown for what it is, gender discrimination.
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Do you know what percentage of women yield a positive vaginal photoplethysmograph response to seeing animals copulating?
Are they some bestial sexual orientation?
Do you know what percentage of women yield a positive vaginal photoplethysmograph response to seeing animals copulating?
Are they some bestial sexual orientation?
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@72: Are you referring to this study? The one where there were no significant differences between men's or women's responses to seeing animal copulation and the control treatment? I certainly hope that's not what you're talking about, because you're talking about plethysmograph results as if they were boolean rather than continuous.
Don't change the subject, now. Admit that some people just happen to be wired for gayness, or show me your evidence against it. You don't win debates by asking questions instead of answering them.
Don't change the subject, now. Admit that some people just happen to be wired for gayness, or show me your evidence against it. You don't win debates by asking questions instead of answering them.
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Yes.
That study.
That found that "women responded genitally to bonobo copulation".
Did you even read the abstract you linked?
At any rate, you should read the actual study.
It duplicates findings by Chivers and Bailey in 2005; "heterosexual female participants showed a significant increase in vaginal responses to depictions of bonobo chimpanzee copulation compared with responses to control films".
And what of men who become aroused viewing lesbians having sex?
Are they lesbians also?
Yes.
That study.
That found that "women responded genitally to bonobo copulation".
Did you even read the abstract you linked?
At any rate, you should read the actual study.
It duplicates findings by Chivers and Bailey in 2005; "heterosexual female participants showed a significant increase in vaginal responses to depictions of bonobo chimpanzee copulation compared with responses to control films".
And what of men who become aroused viewing lesbians having sex?
Are they lesbians also?
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@74: You read the abstract of the STUDY that I linked. I actually read the full text and looked at the data and methodology. Women, gay and straight alike, differed in their vaginal responses to control treatment and images of bonobo sex, while men did not. HOWEVER, there is not a statistically significant difference between women's responses to the two treatment. Even an ignorant moron like you can see that the error bars overlap. (This is also seen in the study you mentioned.) Oh, and your "quote" from Chivers and Bailey 2005 doesn't actually appear in that study. It's actually a quote from Chivers, Seto, and Blanchard 2007.)
Of course, you're not going to care about the science, so let me lay out for you what the evidence supports. Women demonstrate genital arousal based on the acts they see performed. Men demonstrate genital arousal based on the gender(s) of the actor(s). Therefore, straight men become aroused when looking at naked women. Are you mentally defective?
Clearly, you don't know how to science or statistic. You cherry-pick data, interpret absence of evidence as evidence of absence, and improperly infer causality. Do you even lift?
Of course, you're not going to care about the science, so let me lay out for you what the evidence supports. Women demonstrate genital arousal based on the acts they see performed. Men demonstrate genital arousal based on the gender(s) of the actor(s). Therefore, straight men become aroused when looking at naked women. Are you mentally defective?
Clearly, you don't know how to science or statistic. You cherry-pick data, interpret absence of evidence as evidence of absence, and improperly infer causality. Do you even lift?
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Now Junior.
Don't go thrashing at us just because you can't read....
You linked the ABSTRACT of the study.
The Abstract that said "women responded genitally to bonobo copulation".
Our quotation was from the 2007 study.
The authors of which asserted that their results duplicated those of the 2005 study; finding that "heterosexual female participants showed a SIGNIFICANT increase in vaginal responses to depictions of bonobo chimpanzee copulation compared with responses to control films".
Of course, we realize you are uncommonly precocious.
And know more about AIDS that the CDC.
So perhaps you should explain to Chivers, Seto, and Blanchard (and the editors of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology) the little thingy about the overlapping bars and explain to them that they got their conclusions wrong.
But then, this could explain why your GF spends so much time at Brookfield Zoo.....
Now Junior.
Don't go thrashing at us just because you can't read....
You linked the ABSTRACT of the study.
The Abstract that said "women responded genitally to bonobo copulation".
Our quotation was from the 2007 study.
The authors of which asserted that their results duplicated those of the 2005 study; finding that "heterosexual female participants showed a SIGNIFICANT increase in vaginal responses to depictions of bonobo chimpanzee copulation compared with responses to control films".
Of course, we realize you are uncommonly precocious.
And know more about AIDS that the CDC.
So perhaps you should explain to Chivers, Seto, and Blanchard (and the editors of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology) the little thingy about the overlapping bars and explain to them that they got their conclusions wrong.
But then, this could explain why your GF spends so much time at Brookfield Zoo.....
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Those devices measure sexual arousal, not sexual orientation.Since your question was about whether Dan is "attracted" to boys (yes, understood to mean males, not necessarily minors), "arousal" is all we need to objectively establish. We cannot "prove" Dan loves males, the way one might describe as being "in love," because we can't prove such a thing in just about any context. That my wife loves me is something of an article of faith for me; that I love her is no doubt similarly an article of faith for her.
Everything you assert about homosexuality applies much more so to religious belief.I'll buy that. What I believe, in religious terms, is certainly not chosen by me. The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy describes belief as the holding of a posit to be true. While what we hold to be true isn't entirely rooted in perception, it cannot be wholly counter-perceptual; thus, if someone perceives an ordered universe, one will be drawn to the notion of design, whereas one who perceives chaos will tend to be drawn to a notion of the random. There are, of course, many degrees between one pole and the other, but we can still say that belief, tied to perception (which is in turn tied to temperament, aptitude, experience, possibly even genetics), is not volitional. Religious practice, on the other hand--the observance of rituals and moral mandates, the fulfillment of community obligation--certainly is.
ASSUMING that there is no 'god', and CONSIDERING the extensive social bias against religion in many modern 'enlightened' humanist societies, WHY would people actively choose to practice religion?I would say that some of that practice arises from belief. Because the homosexual cannot choose not to be attracted to members of his or her own sex--or, perhaps more importantly, he/she cannot choose to be positively attracted to members of the opposite sex--the choices with regards to practice are celibacy, loveless heterosexual marriage, or homosexual lifestyle. Similarly, to one who believes in [G/g]od(s), choices with regards to practice are either to observe/practice a theistic religion or to live a lie, in a sense, by observing or practicing a non-theistic value system.
Is there any possible explanation other than that some people have encountered 'god'?We can adjust that ever so slightly to make an accurate statement: The only reasonable explanation is that some people have had experiences that, according to their various epistemic presuppositions (and we all function according to those), constitute either direct experience or reliable anecdotal evidence of the existence of [G/g]od(s).
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@76: I linked the study. The abstract is written at the top of the study. Are you illiterate?
Read the second-to-last paragraph in my previous post.
Read the second-to-last paragraph in my previous post.
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We appreciate your comments.
and one more clarification; we use 'Dan' as a hypothetical representative of individuals who identify as homosexual but have a history of heterosexual behavior and relationships.
We appreciate your comments.
and one more clarification; we use 'Dan' as a hypothetical representative of individuals who identify as homosexual but have a history of heterosexual behavior and relationships.
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@80 Trying something once when you're young is not the same as having a history. Especially when one grew up in a time when homosexuality wasn't readily accepted or even discussed.
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@80 - Given that heterosexuality is (and will, I suspect, always be) presented as the norm (even if and when homosexuality is largely "accepted" as an equally socially valid variation), pretty nearly ANYONE who identifies as homosexual has some history--however short and fraught with mishaps--of heterosexual behavior and relationships.
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@79: Hm. The University of Chicago must have a subscription to that journal; I'm accessing the interwebs from the UChicago network, so it seems I can access the whole thing. If you really want to read the whole thing, this copy probably isn't protected.
So let's sum things up. I read the study. You read the abstract. I have formal training in statistical analysis and biology. You do not. My argument (that sexual orientation is real and innate) is supported by the APA. Yours is not. And you still think you're winning this argument?
You're not making any points. You're just making me explain mine in minute detail so you're capable of understanding them.
So let's sum things up. I read the study. You read the abstract. I have formal training in statistical analysis and biology. You do not. My argument (that sexual orientation is real and innate) is supported by the APA. Yours is not. And you still think you're winning this argument?
You're not making any points. You're just making me explain mine in minute detail so you're capable of understanding them.
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No doubt.
Innate biological traits are not something one slips into and out of, or experiments with.
Behaviors, on the other hand.....
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No doubt.
Innate biological traits are not something one slips into and out of, or experiments with.
Behaviors, on the other hand.....
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@85 - Thus we may distinguish between homosexuality and homosexual behavior. Just as we may distinguish between my being left-handed and my writing or using utensils with my left hand.
One may slip into and out of, or experiment with, any of a number of behaviors in order to determine what one's inclinations are. I would never have known that I loved Sleepytime Gorilla Museum or hated the Eagles had I not listened to both; I would never know that I can effectively box and use scissors as if right-handed had I not attempted such, just as I would never know that I can write and use chopsticks more effectively with my left hand had significant effort not been made to use each for the sake of comparison. My wife and I each had homosexual experiences before we married, and, indeed, experience enough interest in our own respective sexes that one may call us bisexual, or at least bisexually responsive; that said, we were able to determine that our primary interests were in the opposite sex, broadly speaking, and in each other, narrowly speaking, and this determination was made because we "experimented" first with others and then with one another.
Proclivities differ from behavior, but they're not unrelated.
One may slip into and out of, or experiment with, any of a number of behaviors in order to determine what one's inclinations are. I would never have known that I loved Sleepytime Gorilla Museum or hated the Eagles had I not listened to both; I would never know that I can effectively box and use scissors as if right-handed had I not attempted such, just as I would never know that I can write and use chopsticks more effectively with my left hand had significant effort not been made to use each for the sake of comparison. My wife and I each had homosexual experiences before we married, and, indeed, experience enough interest in our own respective sexes that one may call us bisexual, or at least bisexually responsive; that said, we were able to determine that our primary interests were in the opposite sex, broadly speaking, and in each other, narrowly speaking, and this determination was made because we "experimented" first with others and then with one another.
Proclivities differ from behavior, but they're not unrelated.
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@84: If you'd actually read it, you wouldn't be touting it in support of your position that gay isn't real. I see you continue to make condescending, pithy dismissals rather than actually presenting a counterargument.
Do you have any explanation of the consistent differences observed in the brains of heterosexuals and homosexuals?
Do you have any explanation of the consistent differences observed in the brains of heterosexuals and homosexuals?
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We cited it to demonstrate arousal is not orientation;
that women may be aroused by seeing animals copulate
and yet not have an affinity for fucking apes.
(your GF excluded....)
And we never said the gay isn't real.
We said it is real in the same way that religious conviction is real.
We certainly are open to the concept that a neurological defect could confer deviant sexual desire.
If that is what you are suggesting.
We just don't think society is compelled to subsidize or promote the condition.
Do you have any explanation of the consistent differences observed in the brains of psychopaths?
We cited it to demonstrate arousal is not orientation;
that women may be aroused by seeing animals copulate
and yet not have an affinity for fucking apes.
(your GF excluded....)
And we never said the gay isn't real.
We said it is real in the same way that religious conviction is real.
We certainly are open to the concept that a neurological defect could confer deviant sexual desire.
If that is what you are suggesting.
We just don't think society is compelled to subsidize or promote the condition.
Do you have any explanation of the consistent differences observed in the brains of psychopaths?
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@88:Let me quote you. "There is as much evidence that god exists as there is that humans are attracted to people of their own gender."
Until you admit that you lied here, there's really no point in trying to convince you of anything further. (Protip: there is no scientific evidence for or against the existence of supernatural forces. There is a great body of scientific evidence suggesting that some people are exclusively attracted to persons of their own gender.)
I'm not contesting that there is a neurological basis to psychopathy. I will, however, correct "neurological defect" and "deviant sexual desire" to "neurological variation" and "atypical sexual desire".
You also err in comparing homosexuality to psychopathy. They are NOTHING alike. A more accurate comparison would be to left-handedness. Do you have any compelling reason why left-handed people shouldn't have the same rights and opportunities as right-handed people? Or homosexuals the same as heterosexuals? (Careful how you answer, I'm dating an ambidextrous bisexual.)
And again: do you concede that you lied by claiming a lack of evidence that homosexuality is real?
Until you admit that you lied here, there's really no point in trying to convince you of anything further. (Protip: there is no scientific evidence for or against the existence of supernatural forces. There is a great body of scientific evidence suggesting that some people are exclusively attracted to persons of their own gender.)
I'm not contesting that there is a neurological basis to psychopathy. I will, however, correct "neurological defect" and "deviant sexual desire" to "neurological variation" and "atypical sexual desire".
You also err in comparing homosexuality to psychopathy. They are NOTHING alike. A more accurate comparison would be to left-handedness. Do you have any compelling reason why left-handed people shouldn't have the same rights and opportunities as right-handed people? Or homosexuals the same as heterosexuals? (Careful how you answer, I'm dating an ambidextrous bisexual.)
And again: do you concede that you lied by claiming a lack of evidence that homosexuality is real?
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We cited it to demonstrate arousal is not orientation; that women may be aroused by seeing animals copulate and yet not have an affinity for fucking apes.I don't even think that amounts to being on topic unless we could illustrate that a woman was turned on, not by copulation between animals, but the animal in its natural state, or, if copulation were involved, if it were between a human and an animal. That is, being aroused by witnessing a "natural" sex act between two animals of the same species not only says little about orientation, but little of interest about arousal.
That said, as venomlash points out, your statement was about attraction. Arousal does have a pretty explicit relationship with attraction, which in turn is an important component of orientation.
And we never said the gay isn't real. We said it is real in the same way that religious conviction is real.Happy to grant that arguendo . . . But then, we do recognize, protect, and even subsidize (through various tax exemptions) religious practice in the U.S. We even license ministers of various churches to confer certain civic contracts--marriage, for instance. Indeed, we could suggest that the inability of those pastors who would want to bless same-sex unions (or plural marriages, for that matter) are inhibited in their free exercise by current marital law.
We certainly are open to the concept that a neurological defect could confer deviant sexual desire.Venomlash already corrected this very nicely, but it bears repeating: variation is not defect; that which is atypical is not deviant.
We just don't think society is compelled to subsidize or promote the condition.It isn't even necessarily compelled to subsidize or promote the norm--in this case, the heterosexual family unit. Breeding within that context is preferable to breeding outside of it--that is, children of two parents fare statistically better than children within it--but the objective value of more humans is no more and no less than the objective value of more termites. Societal valuation of life is borne of the need to protect life once it exists. Rights do not exist in nature; they can only be yielded by individual or group. Thus no right to life exists until that right is enumerated; life, in turn, is a foundational right without which no other rights can exist. That's a formula for protecting life, though, not a mandate for manufacturing it.
Thus the "condition" of heterosexuality, or of heterosexual union, isn't really worth promoting for what differentiates it from homosexual unions. What's worth promoting is the social stability it provides even in the absence of children--the lower crime rates, higher levels of productivity, and lesser reliance on social services among committed, co-habitating family units.
Do you have any explanation of the consistent differences observed in the brains of psychopaths?
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We concede nothing.
We did not compare homosexuality to psychopathy.
Did you?
How would you compare pedophilia to psychopathy?
Homosexuals currently have the same rights and opportunities as heterosexuals.
They can marry someone of the opposite sex. Or not.
Why are you afraid of words?
A 'variation' that renders those afflicted with it incapable of reproducing is a defect.
'Atypical' desires deviate from the typical.
If you do not couch your language in PC approved jargon
do you fear the reaction of your UberLiberal peers in academia?
An education should send you fearlessly in search of The Truth,
not leave you guarding your words and cowering in fear
of sanction from the Forces of NarrowMinded Bigotry and Intolerance....
An ambidextrous bisexual?
That sounds like the punch line for a good joke.
See what you can come up with.
We did not compare homosexuality to psychopathy.
Did you?
How would you compare pedophilia to psychopathy?
Homosexuals currently have the same rights and opportunities as heterosexuals.
They can marry someone of the opposite sex. Or not.
Why are you afraid of words?
A 'variation' that renders those afflicted with it incapable of reproducing is a defect.
'Atypical' desires deviate from the typical.
If you do not couch your language in PC approved jargon
do you fear the reaction of your UberLiberal peers in academia?
An education should send you fearlessly in search of The Truth,
not leave you guarding your words and cowering in fear
of sanction from the Forces of NarrowMinded Bigotry and Intolerance....
An ambidextrous bisexual?
That sounds like the punch line for a good joke.
See what you can come up with.
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91 was @89- we were typing away and did not see 90 before we posted.....
Society has a huge interest in seeing enough babies grow up to be contributing functional adults.
Unless you expect termites to pay SS and Medicare taxes and change your diapers when you are in the nursing home.
And childless 'marriages' have no need of subsidy or 'promotion' by society.
Childless couples will find pairing up to be in their financial and emotional best interest without the need of social subsidy.
But Society recognizes the high cost of raising children and has recognized its interest in seeing that that happens to the extent that it was willing to financially subsidize childrearing households.
As we have said before, when those policies were developed most marriages produced children.
That is much less so now, and an argument that family policy needs to be revised to take benefits from childless marriages has much merit.
Much more merit that granting 'marriage' status to homosexual pairings.
Society has a huge interest in seeing enough babies grow up to be contributing functional adults.
Unless you expect termites to pay SS and Medicare taxes and change your diapers when you are in the nursing home.
And childless 'marriages' have no need of subsidy or 'promotion' by society.
Childless couples will find pairing up to be in their financial and emotional best interest without the need of social subsidy.
But Society recognizes the high cost of raising children and has recognized its interest in seeing that that happens to the extent that it was willing to financially subsidize childrearing households.
As we have said before, when those policies were developed most marriages produced children.
That is much less so now, and an argument that family policy needs to be revised to take benefits from childless marriages has much merit.
Much more merit that granting 'marriage' status to homosexual pairings.
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Cut myself off. The last line there should be blockquoted:
Homosexuality is indeed more like left-handedness than like psychopathy, but let's take a step in your direction, just to keep things simple enough for you to follow along. All of these things--along with pedophilia, alcoholism, a sweet tooth, an interest in redheads, a taste for art-films, color-blindness, type-A vs. type-B personality variations--represent seemingly natural, arguably immutable conditions in which the individual may find him-/herself. Only the actions associated with are regulable (that is, even in the case of the pedophile, we do not regulate pedophilia--the attraction of the adult to minors--but the act of an adult having sex with a minor).
When looking at whether to tolerate homosexual or left-handed behavior, we measure the potential harm to any non-consenting participant, or any participant whose consent is compromised by age, drugs, or level of competence. In these cases, I just don't see any such harm.
Marriage goes further than that, of course, in that it's a contract with certain "perks," though, in most cases, a tax penalty that seems to more than make up for it, most years. That said, in comparing homosexual behavior with heterosexual behavior, BOTH are neutral in the terms outlined above (that is, they can be dangerous when practiced irresponsibly, less so when practiced responsibly). One may produce children, but that in itself is a moral and social neutral--it's just another organism that could come to offer good or ill, like any other organism.
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Do you have any explanation of the consistent differences observed in the brains of psychopaths?You make a common mistake. Explanations for why homosexuality is at least partially biological are arguments against it being thought of as volitional or unnatural; they are not arguments for why it should be tolerated or accepted, or why homosexuals should be allowed to form unions comparable to heterosexual unions and have those recognized via the same civic contract. Those arguments are separate. Whether homosexuality is natural or biological is only relevant when its allegedly volitional or unnatural status is used as an argument against such allowances or recognitions.
Homosexuality is indeed more like left-handedness than like psychopathy, but let's take a step in your direction, just to keep things simple enough for you to follow along. All of these things--along with pedophilia, alcoholism, a sweet tooth, an interest in redheads, a taste for art-films, color-blindness, type-A vs. type-B personality variations--represent seemingly natural, arguably immutable conditions in which the individual may find him-/herself. Only the actions associated with are regulable (that is, even in the case of the pedophile, we do not regulate pedophilia--the attraction of the adult to minors--but the act of an adult having sex with a minor).
When looking at whether to tolerate homosexual or left-handed behavior, we measure the potential harm to any non-consenting participant, or any participant whose consent is compromised by age, drugs, or level of competence. In these cases, I just don't see any such harm.
Marriage goes further than that, of course, in that it's a contract with certain "perks," though, in most cases, a tax penalty that seems to more than make up for it, most years. That said, in comparing homosexual behavior with heterosexual behavior, BOTH are neutral in the terms outlined above (that is, they can be dangerous when practiced irresponsibly, less so when practiced responsibly). One may produce children, but that in itself is a moral and social neutral--it's just another organism that could come to offer good or ill, like any other organism.
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A 'variation' that renders those afflicted with it incapable of reproducing is a defect.Assumes a specific value in procreation. An advanced society continues to make use of individuals who may be considered less value in a less sophisticated species.
'Atypical' desires deviate from the typical.So does atypical dexterity. Do you also call the left-handed "deviant?"
An education should send you fearlessly in search of The Truth, not leave you guarding your words and cowering in fearPrecisely why I reject and oppose quasi-literate ramblings from a miscreant typing missives in his mother's basement.
of sanction from the Forces of NarrowMinded Bigotry and Intolerance...
Society has a huge interest in seeing enough babies grow up to be contributing functional adults.That explains why we would prefer married parents raising children to single parenting. That doesn't really explain why we would prefer breeding to non-breeding.
Moreover, considering that homosexuality occurs at nigh identical rates in places like Iran as in places like the Netherlands, there's no indication whatsoever that greater acceptance of homosexuality, or recognition of homosexual unions via legal contracts, would increase its incidence or affect the breeding pool at all. Thus recognizing same-sex marriage would have no more effect on the birth rate than recognizing childless heterosexual unions.
Unless you expect termites to pay SS and Medicare taxes and change your diapers when you are in the nursing home.I expect to break into the basement apartments of aging, underemployed rednecks and shit on their carpets. I'm a fierce being; they're gonna have to put me down with an elephant gun.
And childless 'marriages' have no need of subsidy or 'promotion' by society. Childless couples will find pairing up to be in their financial and emotional best interest without the need of social subsidy.And yet they (we) receive it. You seem to think that's just an oversight. It seems far more likely to me that the myriad other socially stabilizing benefits of marriage are recognized by those who offer and oversee the contract.
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Darwin would be disappointed at your dismissive attitude toward reproduction.
He would tell you that creating enough functional mature contributing (breeding) members
is The Prime Directive of any species that plans to survive.
Traditional Heterosexual Marriage is the Ideal social unit for accomplishing that.
Homosexual pairings are just wastage.
And as long as that wastage is kept to a small percentage the species can overcome it.
But, alas, too many homosexuals would spell the end of the race.
That said, in comparing homosexual behavior with heterosexual behavior, both are emphatically NOT neutral.
Or equal.
Or Just As Good.....
Heterosexuality must be practiced in order for the species to continue,
and the race will thrive or suffer to the extent that it 'responsibly' practices Traditional Heterosexual Marriage.
Homosexuality,
as practiced in the Real Word,
exacts a cruel toll in emotional and physical disease.
Practiced in a hypothetical ideal 'responsible' manner it is at best a waste of those involved.
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'Sinister' is derived from 'left handed', so, maybe you are on to something....
.
Rates of homosexuality are difficult to measure and you do not know what you claim is true.
(We concede,
however,
that genetic defects often occur at fixed percentages across racial and especially cultural boundaries.)
Furthermore no culture has any multigenerational experience with promoting homosexuality and homosexual pairings as Just As Good as heterosexuality and Traditional Heterosexual Marriage.
Younglings are very susceptible to cultural influences and pressures.
After all, Hitler was able to create a generation of loyal Nazis from one of the most educated and enlightened societies on earth in a mere decade.
So, there's that.....
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Darwin would be disappointed at your dismissive attitude toward reproduction.
He would tell you that creating enough functional mature contributing (breeding) members
is The Prime Directive of any species that plans to survive.
Traditional Heterosexual Marriage is the Ideal social unit for accomplishing that.
Homosexual pairings are just wastage.
And as long as that wastage is kept to a small percentage the species can overcome it.
But, alas, too many homosexuals would spell the end of the race.
That said, in comparing homosexual behavior with heterosexual behavior, both are emphatically NOT neutral.
Or equal.
Or Just As Good.....
Heterosexuality must be practiced in order for the species to continue,
and the race will thrive or suffer to the extent that it 'responsibly' practices Traditional Heterosexual Marriage.
Homosexuality,
as practiced in the Real Word,
exacts a cruel toll in emotional and physical disease.
Practiced in a hypothetical ideal 'responsible' manner it is at best a waste of those involved.
.
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'Sinister' is derived from 'left handed', so, maybe you are on to something....
.
Rates of homosexuality are difficult to measure and you do not know what you claim is true.
(We concede,
however,
that genetic defects often occur at fixed percentages across racial and especially cultural boundaries.)
Furthermore no culture has any multigenerational experience with promoting homosexuality and homosexual pairings as Just As Good as heterosexuality and Traditional Heterosexual Marriage.
Younglings are very susceptible to cultural influences and pressures.
After all, Hitler was able to create a generation of loyal Nazis from one of the most educated and enlightened societies on earth in a mere decade.
So, there's that.....
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@91: There is a difference between being politically correct and simply being accurate. The neurological variations that determine sexual orientation do not render people sterile; therefore, your reason for calling them defects is incorrect. Atypical simply means different from the typical; "deviate" denotes the leaving of a path, a departure from what is correct or accurate. A human tetrachromat is certainly atypical, but it would be wrong to call him deviant, as his vision would actually be BETTER than the norm. Do you understand my use of non-slanted language now? Unlike you, I fit my opinions to the evidence, not vice versa.
Blacks also had the same marriage rights as whites under miscegenation laws. And yet nobody would argue that such laws were not racist in intent and in action.
And if you were not comparing homosexuality to psychopathy, why did you even mention it? (In the above paragraph, I make no mention of the illegalization of same-sex marriage, and yet anyone with two cerebral hemispheres to rub together can tell that I'm comparing it to miscegenation laws. It's called connotation, Alleged.)
My girlfriend is indeed an ambidextrous bisexual. Not even joking.
@92: Our society DOES reward couples that have children over those that don't. It's called a child tax credit; people caring for children don't have to pay as much in taxes. Problem solved. Do you really expect people to stop having kids if gay marriage is legalized?
@95: As someone with a background in evolutionary biology, I can tell you you're more full of shit than a factory farm fecal lagoon.
One, the human race is no longer operating under natural selection. Two, NOT reproducing often leads to higher fitness under certain common conditions. Three, homosexuality's incidence shows no signs of changing, so your specter of "too many gays not enough straights" is laughable. Four, homosexuality does not cause any adverse effects.
And with regard to your comments about Nazism, I see you haven't studied any history either.
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Blacks also had the same marriage rights as whites under miscegenation laws. And yet nobody would argue that such laws were not racist in intent and in action.
And if you were not comparing homosexuality to psychopathy, why did you even mention it? (In the above paragraph, I make no mention of the illegalization of same-sex marriage, and yet anyone with two cerebral hemispheres to rub together can tell that I'm comparing it to miscegenation laws. It's called connotation, Alleged.)
My girlfriend is indeed an ambidextrous bisexual. Not even joking.
@92: Our society DOES reward couples that have children over those that don't. It's called a child tax credit; people caring for children don't have to pay as much in taxes. Problem solved. Do you really expect people to stop having kids if gay marriage is legalized?
@95: As someone with a background in evolutionary biology, I can tell you you're more full of shit than a factory farm fecal lagoon.
One, the human race is no longer operating under natural selection. Two, NOT reproducing often leads to higher fitness under certain common conditions. Three, homosexuality's incidence shows no signs of changing, so your specter of "too many gays not enough straights" is laughable. Four, homosexuality does not cause any adverse effects.
And with regard to your comments about Nazism, I see you haven't studied any history either.
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He would tell you that creating enough functional mature contributing (breeding) members is The Prime Directive of any species that plans to survive.But what is the value of the species surviving? What I value in any life--including my own--is the degree to which it fulfills its potential to amuse and edify. Thus I may strive to see that every life fulfills such potential, but I see no reason to elevate the making of more organisms to some sort of sacred or social duty.
And as long as that wastage is kept to a small percentage the species can overcome it. But, alas, too many homosexuals would spell the end of the race.Considering that the percentages remain consistent across both culture and species, it seems that nature has built in mechanisms for keeping it from making any real impact on the birth rate.
That said, in comparing homosexual behavior with heterosexual behavior, both are emphatically NOT neutral. Or equal. Or Just As Good...Yes, they are. Or, at least, you have failed ever so miserably to illustrate otherwise. In an advanced society, making more is no longer the paramount virtue; homosexuals have actually contributed disproportionately to such fields as art, medicine, and technology. What they "waste" in breeding potential, they often make up for in cultural contribution. You, on the other hand, are contributing . . . what, exactly?
Heterosexuality must be practiced in order for the species to continue,If the caliber of organisms by which are species survives is equivalent to you, there's more value in promoting the survival of the ebola virus.
and the race will thrive or suffer to the extent that it 'responsibly' practices Traditional Heterosexual Marriage.
Rates of homosexuality are difficult to measure and you do not know what you claim is true.Studies that show the numbers tend to be based on self-reporting, so you're right. If anything, they probably underestimate the numbers in places like Saudi Arabia. Which makes even the appearance of statistical equality frightfully compelling.
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well now you girls are just sputtering incoherently.....
Junior: How would you compare pedophilia to psychopathy?
other guy: so you think the gay is a self limiting genetic defect? a hopeful thought.
Junior: How would you compare pedophilia to psychopathy?
other guy: so you think the gay is a self limiting genetic defect? a hopeful thought.
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Of course not.
Inconvenient truths and all....
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You raise an interesting point.
"Homosexuals" are not sterile, or in any way at all incapable of reproducing just like everyone else.
Were there ACTUALLY a 'homosexual' state of being those creatures would/could not reproduce.
Because homo sapiens reproduces heterosexually.
Of course, we all know that "gay" is just a set of behavior and lifestyle choices.
The Defect lies not in DNA or anatomy.
Just in the choices......
"NOT reproducing often leads to higher fitness under certain common conditions."
Those conditions being the potential reproducers are defective goods whose genes are best kept out of the gene pool.
Darwin. And all that.
Of course not.
Inconvenient truths and all....
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You raise an interesting point.
"Homosexuals" are not sterile, or in any way at all incapable of reproducing just like everyone else.
Were there ACTUALLY a 'homosexual' state of being those creatures would/could not reproduce.
Because homo sapiens reproduces heterosexually.
Of course, we all know that "gay" is just a set of behavior and lifestyle choices.
The Defect lies not in DNA or anatomy.
Just in the choices......
"NOT reproducing often leads to higher fitness under certain common conditions."
Those conditions being the potential reproducers are defective goods whose genes are best kept out of the gene pool.
Darwin. And all that.
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@100: ...what's so inconvenient about pedophilia and psychopathy being nothing alike? Why did you even bring up pedophilia? It's not remotely relevant to the conversation at hand.
Homosexuals can reproduce, sure. Same way left-handed people can use their right hands for things. Clearly, if there was really a left-handed state of being, those creatures couldn't use their right hands for anything. So obviously anyone who's left-handed just chose to be that way. According to your logic, that is. I wonder if it's even possible to know less about biology than you do. And if gay is just a set of choices people make, why do gay people's brains differ anatomically from those of straight people?
You definitely don't understand natural selection either. Nice guess, but you're wrong here. I'm talking about INDIVIDUAL fitness, where it can be in an individual's OWN best interests not to reproduce. Guess away, worm.
Homosexuals can reproduce, sure. Same way left-handed people can use their right hands for things. Clearly, if there was really a left-handed state of being, those creatures couldn't use their right hands for anything. So obviously anyone who's left-handed just chose to be that way. According to your logic, that is. I wonder if it's even possible to know less about biology than you do. And if gay is just a set of choices people make, why do gay people's brains differ anatomically from those of straight people?
You definitely don't understand natural selection either. Nice guess, but you're wrong here. I'm talking about INDIVIDUAL fitness, where it can be in an individual's OWN best interests not to reproduce. Guess away, worm.
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Good point.
Left handed people CAN learn to be right handed.
And function perfectly well as Right handed people.
And never even remember the lefthandedness.
They can, if they are taught early, and guided, and supported.
So you think there is similar hope for 'homosexuals'. Right?
.
Why do you keep harping on homosexuals' defective brains?
it isn't very tactful. On a homosexual blog.
.
Biology doesn't recognize any circumstance where it is in an organism's best interest not to pass on it's DNA. Passing on one's DNA is what living organisms are all about. The Prime Directive, remember?
Back in the 1800s a guy named Darwin did groundbreaking work on the topic.
You should look into it sometime....
Good point.
Left handed people CAN learn to be right handed.
And function perfectly well as Right handed people.
And never even remember the lefthandedness.
They can, if they are taught early, and guided, and supported.
So you think there is similar hope for 'homosexuals'. Right?
.
Why do you keep harping on homosexuals' defective brains?
it isn't very tactful. On a homosexual blog.
.
Biology doesn't recognize any circumstance where it is in an organism's best interest not to pass on it's DNA. Passing on one's DNA is what living organisms are all about. The Prime Directive, remember?
Back in the 1800s a guy named Darwin did groundbreaking work on the topic.
You should look into it sometime....
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@102: Are you advocating that we teach our kids how to be straight from birth? Man, and the people at NOM say WE'RE the ones exposing young children to sexual propaganda. (Also, you can't actually turn southpaws into northpaws. The closest you can get is ambidexterity.)
Homosexuals' brains aren't defective. Just different. Same as lefties. There's nothing a straight person's brain can do that a gay person's can't.
And ah, you've finally touched upon the key issue at the heart of evolutionary biology. Fitness is defined as an organism's ability to propagate its genome. But it's possible, depending on the conditions, for an organism to propagate its genome more if it DOESN'T reproduce. It can be done! Can you guess how?
Oh, and by the way? "The Prime Directive" is from Star Trek. Don't get TOO mixed up, now...
...give up on the question yet? Dance, puppet, dance.
Homosexuals' brains aren't defective. Just different. Same as lefties. There's nothing a straight person's brain can do that a gay person's can't.
And ah, you've finally touched upon the key issue at the heart of evolutionary biology. Fitness is defined as an organism's ability to propagate its genome. But it's possible, depending on the conditions, for an organism to propagate its genome more if it DOESN'T reproduce. It can be done! Can you guess how?
Oh, and by the way? "The Prime Directive" is from Star Trek. Don't get TOO mixed up, now...
...give up on the question yet? Dance, puppet, dance.
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Children should be taught appropriate gender role models.
It is part of becoming productive whole functional contributing adults.
When BooBoo wants to dress as Daphne an enlightened loving parents gently says, "Oh BooBoo, you're a boy. Let's find a different character to dress up as...." And you don't sign 6 year old children up for hormone therapy. It's child abuse.
It is part of becoming productive whole functional contributing adults.
When BooBoo wants to dress as Daphne an enlightened loving parents gently says, "Oh BooBoo, you're a boy. Let's find a different character to dress up as...." And you don't sign 6 year old children up for hormone therapy. It's child abuse.
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Were there ACTUALLY a 'homosexual' state of being those creatures would/could not reproduce.Why? There is a left-handed state of being, but that doesn't mean the left-hander can't use his right hand; it means that his right hand will never achieve a capacity equal to what his left hand could achieve. This difference is crucial, and gives lie to your assertion that they can function "perfectly well as right-handed people."
In that sense, homosexuals can, of course, create loveless, erotically unsatisfying marriages with members of the opposite sex, if they so desire, and it would no more be my right to stop them than it is my right to stop anyone from entering what strikes me as an ill-fated marital arrangement. But there is a difference between being in a relationship with someone to whom you're capable of being attracted, or capable of forming romantic emotional attachment, and being in a relationship with someone to whom, or with whom, you are not capable of same.
Of course, we all know that "gay" is just a set of behavior and lifestyle choices.Homosexual behavior is as much a choice as any other behavior; homosexual responsiveness, particularly in the pointed absence of heterosexual responsiveness, is not.
"NOT reproducing often leads to higher fitness under certain common conditions."Not necessarily, though in some cases that may be true. On the other hand, many great scientists, artists, humanitarians, philosophers, and religious figures have been childless, for any of a number of reasons.
Those conditions being the potential reproducers are defective goods whose genes are best kept out of the gene pool.
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Homosexual activists like Danny assert that homosexuality is an innate biological trait,
like race,
and that for that reason society is compelled to sanction homosexual behaviors and pairings.
However innate biological traits can not be altered.
One does not experiment with a different race,
or dabble in a different gender (surgical mutilation notwithstanding....)
Our point is that there is no innate state of being 'homosexual'.
Humans reproduce heterosexually, and are heterosexual creatures.
One could not be both homosexual and heterosexual,
were 'homosexual' an innate trait (and not just a behavior)
In order to push his line of 'reasoning' Danny ignores the overwhelming reality;
that sexual desires and preferences are fluid and greatly influenced by environment and culture.
Danny tries to paint homosexuality as a rigid straitjacket from which there is no escape.
Danny once answered a college student
who asked if he could "un-out" himself after deciding he was not gay after all
"you can tell people but no one has to believe you".
The cynical cold rigid assertion that one can never renounce the gay
puts huge pressure on kids,
especially males,
who may think themselves gay at some point and later decide otherwise.
In Danny's World that kid has no out (except suicide....)
.
We're sorry,
we don't see how it benefits the species or them when the 'great' do not have children.
Could you elaborate?
like race,
and that for that reason society is compelled to sanction homosexual behaviors and pairings.
However innate biological traits can not be altered.
One does not experiment with a different race,
or dabble in a different gender (surgical mutilation notwithstanding....)
Our point is that there is no innate state of being 'homosexual'.
Humans reproduce heterosexually, and are heterosexual creatures.
One could not be both homosexual and heterosexual,
were 'homosexual' an innate trait (and not just a behavior)
In order to push his line of 'reasoning' Danny ignores the overwhelming reality;
that sexual desires and preferences are fluid and greatly influenced by environment and culture.
Danny tries to paint homosexuality as a rigid straitjacket from which there is no escape.
Danny once answered a college student
who asked if he could "un-out" himself after deciding he was not gay after all
"you can tell people but no one has to believe you".
The cynical cold rigid assertion that one can never renounce the gay
puts huge pressure on kids,
especially males,
who may think themselves gay at some point and later decide otherwise.
In Danny's World that kid has no out (except suicide....)
.
We're sorry,
we don't see how it benefits the species or them when the 'great' do not have children.
Could you elaborate?
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@106: Homosexuals sometimes have straight sex, generally because society pressures people to be straight. Left-handed people sometimes use their right hands for tasks, generally because society (still) pressures people to be right-handed.
So, apparently handedness isn't real either, according to you. If homosexuality wasn't innate, why would the brains of homosexuals have such consistent differences from the brains of heterosexuals? If it was all just a choice, why would certain loci (known to be involved in sexual desire) differ between gays and straights?
The answer to my little puzzler, Alleged is kin selection. Look it up.
So, apparently handedness isn't real either, according to you. If homosexuality wasn't innate, why would the brains of homosexuals have such consistent differences from the brains of heterosexuals? If it was all just a choice, why would certain loci (known to be involved in sexual desire) differ between gays and straights?
The answer to my little puzzler, Alleged is kin selection. Look it up.
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We don't have to junior.
We've read Danny gushing on about caveman homosexuals
who stayed home and tended to their nieces and nephews.....
Sorry to poop in your punchbowl but the theory is laughable.
For starters, human 'homosexuals' are not sterile.
And often reproduce.
Darwin doesn't make slipshod halfass mistakes like that....
And if you were going to have genetic "nursemaids" why not make them asexual?
Why give them a perverse sexual attraction (that has no corresponding anatomical component)?
'Uncles' with no sexual attraction would be much less problematic as caregivers that deviant dirty old men.
Which brings the next problem with your fantasy;
if homosexuality is nature's answer to finding a cheap babysitter
why are humans so disgusted by homosexuality?
Seems counter productive.
Aversion to homosexuality should have been bred out of the race eons ago
if homosexuality confers reproductive advantage.
And were your pipedream true one would expect 'homosexuals'
to be more nurturing than adults in general.
Doesn't happen....
You know,
polygamy is a much more workable solution to the
"whose going to watch these damn kids while I hunt" dilemma.....
Plenty of extra females in the family unit
who actually are nurturing mothers
who can easily watch other kids while they watch their own.
Why waste valuable tribal resources like food and clothes
on an effeminate drone whose only contribution will be babysitting
when you can keep plenty of spare females around
who are interchangable maternal units and sex partners?
We don't have to junior.
We've read Danny gushing on about caveman homosexuals
who stayed home and tended to their nieces and nephews.....
Sorry to poop in your punchbowl but the theory is laughable.
For starters, human 'homosexuals' are not sterile.
And often reproduce.
Darwin doesn't make slipshod halfass mistakes like that....
And if you were going to have genetic "nursemaids" why not make them asexual?
Why give them a perverse sexual attraction (that has no corresponding anatomical component)?
'Uncles' with no sexual attraction would be much less problematic as caregivers that deviant dirty old men.
Which brings the next problem with your fantasy;
if homosexuality is nature's answer to finding a cheap babysitter
why are humans so disgusted by homosexuality?
Seems counter productive.
Aversion to homosexuality should have been bred out of the race eons ago
if homosexuality confers reproductive advantage.
And were your pipedream true one would expect 'homosexuals'
to be more nurturing than adults in general.
Doesn't happen....
You know,
polygamy is a much more workable solution to the
"whose going to watch these damn kids while I hunt" dilemma.....
Plenty of extra females in the family unit
who actually are nurturing mothers
who can easily watch other kids while they watch their own.
Why waste valuable tribal resources like food and clothes
on an effeminate drone whose only contribution will be babysitting
when you can keep plenty of spare females around
who are interchangable maternal units and sex partners?
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Yeah.
Straight sex.
And straight marriages.
And kids.....
You know; Negroes NEVER are Caucasian.
And vice versa.
No matter how much society pressures them.
Innate traits are that way.......
Yeah.
Straight sex.
And straight marriages.
And kids.....
You know; Negroes NEVER are Caucasian.
And vice versa.
No matter how much society pressures them.
Innate traits are that way.......
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But your pet theory may be falling apart....
According to a recent article in the Boston Globe, one of the most (now-former) ardent proponents of ideas like "kin selection," E.O. Wilson, now says, "Kin selection is wrong... That's it. It's wrong."
According to a recent article in the Boston Globe, one of the most (now-former) ardent proponents of ideas like "kin selection," E.O. Wilson, now says, "Kin selection is wrong... That's it. It's wrong."
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Homosexual activists like Danny assert that homosexuality is an innate biological trait, like race, and that for that reason society is compelled to sanction homosexual behaviors and pairings.Stop talking to Dan. He isn't even paying attention to this conversation. I happen to believe that there is an innate component to homosexuality; I also happen to believe that homosexual acts should not be legally proscribed; I additionally believe that it is fair and socially equitable to offer the same recognition to homosexual unions that heterosexual unions, with or without children, currently enjoy. But all three of these conclusions, while part and parcel of a broader set of philosophical convictions, are not really all that related. That is, if I believed, despite massive evidence to the contrary, that homosexuality were entirely chose, I would still believe that behavior that arises from such proclivities should be allowed and that unions arising from such proclivities and behaviors should be able to enjoy the same civil contracts that my wife and I currently share.
Of course, my own marriage is my greatest piece of anecdotal evidence that sexual orientation isn't chosen--I didn't choose to love or be attracted to my wife; I only chose what I would do in light of that.
However innate biological traits can not be altered.That I can box right-handed, even though I can't use chopsticks right-handed, indicates that biological traits can be mitigated. Some presumably more that others.
One does not experiment with a different race, or dabble in a different gender (surgical mutilation notwithstanding....)I think you mean "sex," since gender is a web of social constructs that we build around the biological fact of sex. One can, indeed, experiment with gender without surgically altering one's sex characteristics. As for race, you're partially correct, because race is only partially biological; it, too, is largely a cultural construct. White kids for generations now have been experimenting with "black" social identity; this is admittedly harder in reverse because there ARE certain visual cues that (arbitrarily) keep some people from having a proper seat at the table because of the way others react to appearances.
A homosexual who engages in heteresexual activity is not necessarily changing his or her orientation any more than a white kid dancing to hip-hop is changing his race.
One could not be both homosexual and heterosexual,Nonsense. I'm bisexual (or at least bisexually responsive) because I remain erotically responsive to both males and females. I can choose what I do (or don't do) with that, of course, but I cannot choose to make it not so (nor could I choose to make it so were it not).
were 'homosexual' an innate trait (and not just a behavior)
In order to push his line of 'reasoning' Danny ignores the overwhelming reality;Influenced by environment and culture, but also rooted in certain biological predispositions, at least according to the available data.
that sexual desires and preferences are fluid and greatly influenced by environment and culture.
Danny once answered a college student who asked if he could "un-out" himself after deciding he was not gay after all "you can tell people but no one has to believe you".I don't have enough information to make a call on that case; even if I did, I'm not Dan, and it's not my job to make or defend his arguments. I would say that if the young man ever truly believed he was gay, he had at least enough attraction for and capacity for emotional intimacy with males that we could say he was probably bisexual or bisexually responsive; that said, if he had or has significant attraction for and capacity for emotional intimacy with females, he doesn't lose much by "rounding up," as Dan sometimes puts it.
The cynical cold rigid assertion that one can never renounce the gay puts huge pressure on kids, especially males, who may think themselves gay at some point and later decide otherwise.
We're sorry, we don't see how it benefits the species or them when the 'great' do not have children. Could you elaborate?Passing one's "genes" might seem pretty urgent to the chimpanzee (if the chimp can even contemplate such), but during our recorded history (admittedly not a very long stretch of time), it seems to me that those societies (in the macro or the micro--tribes, nation-states, cultural movements, clans) "win" that best succeed in passing down ideas, language, works of art, cultural memes, scientific or technological advancements.
We don't admire Socrates, Shakespeare, William Blake, Albert Einstein, Nichiren Daishonin, or Mother Theresa for their children; I'm not sure why we should chastise Alan Turing, Allen Ginsburg, or Jean Genet for failing to produce any.
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@108: This post is just a gem. Are you really this ignorant of simple evolutionary biology?
Human homosexuals are not generally sterile. Neither are subordinate turkeys in a lek display coalition, say, or young silverbacks helping their fathers maintain the group, or young adult scrub jays helping relatives raise their young. (And no, such non-breeding individuals aren't actually more nurturing than breeding individuals. Kin selection doesn't require that.) There's a difference between "can't breed" and "don't breed". I'm not talking about eusociality here, but rather altruistic behavior powered by kin selection.
Now, since you're so badly misinformed, it may interest you to know that natural selection doesn't result in the best designs: just better ones. And you're going out on a limb with your assertion that gays are bad parents, mainly because the evidence we DO have actually indicates the opposite.
Aversion to homosexuality has no genetic basis, but rather a cultural one. Homophobia isn't hereditary; it has to be taught.
Of course, I never said that homosexuality evolved by kin selection. In my educated appraisal of the available evidence, it has only a minor genetic component, and is mostly caused by intrauterine (environmental) factors.
So, what's that you said? You don't need to look up kin selection because you understand evolution so well. Really, you expect me to believe that? I couldn't misinterpret natural selection so badly as you did if I tried.
@109: Gay people are never straight, no matter how much society pressures them. That's how innate traits are.
@110: Um, no. Fat people and lean people don't actually have differences in their brain morphology. Do you even think about the shit you make up?
@111: Wilson is disavowing kin selection in favor of group selection. Big whoop. Did you know that Nature, one of the most prestigious biological journals, published FIVE letters criticizing Wilson's argument against kin selection? One of which was signed by 137 prominent scientists? The evidence is overwhelmingly in favor of kin selection as a mechanism for the evolution of altruism; all that remains is sorting out how much it is responsible for, and how much is the product of its kissing cousin group selection.
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Human homosexuals are not generally sterile. Neither are subordinate turkeys in a lek display coalition, say, or young silverbacks helping their fathers maintain the group, or young adult scrub jays helping relatives raise their young. (And no, such non-breeding individuals aren't actually more nurturing than breeding individuals. Kin selection doesn't require that.) There's a difference between "can't breed" and "don't breed". I'm not talking about eusociality here, but rather altruistic behavior powered by kin selection.
Now, since you're so badly misinformed, it may interest you to know that natural selection doesn't result in the best designs: just better ones. And you're going out on a limb with your assertion that gays are bad parents, mainly because the evidence we DO have actually indicates the opposite.
Aversion to homosexuality has no genetic basis, but rather a cultural one. Homophobia isn't hereditary; it has to be taught.
Of course, I never said that homosexuality evolved by kin selection. In my educated appraisal of the available evidence, it has only a minor genetic component, and is mostly caused by intrauterine (environmental) factors.
So, what's that you said? You don't need to look up kin selection because you understand evolution so well. Really, you expect me to believe that? I couldn't misinterpret natural selection so badly as you did if I tried.
@109: Gay people are never straight, no matter how much society pressures them. That's how innate traits are.
@110: Um, no. Fat people and lean people don't actually have differences in their brain morphology. Do you even think about the shit you make up?
@111: Wilson is disavowing kin selection in favor of group selection. Big whoop. Did you know that Nature, one of the most prestigious biological journals, published FIVE letters criticizing Wilson's argument against kin selection? One of which was signed by 137 prominent scientists? The evidence is overwhelmingly in favor of kin selection as a mechanism for the evolution of altruism; all that remains is sorting out how much it is responsible for, and how much is the product of its kissing cousin group selection.
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You confuse culture and race.
Rap music and tap dancing are culture.
Skin pigmentation is race.
Of course you can. Choose what you do. (or don't do)
So can Danny.
So can anyone and everyone else.
All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual.
What they choose to do, or not do, with that is their choice.
Predisposition is not Predetermination.
Some people are predisposed to diabetes or heart disease or depression.
However with prudent lifestyle choices they can avoid those impediments and lead healthy lives.
And people, with appropriate gender role models and family and cultural support, can overcome deviant sexual predispositions to lead normal lives.
If cultural pressures can force Dan to have sex with girls under 'duress' why can't the reverse be true?
Why can't children growing up in a culture that relentlessly promotes and propagandizes homosexuality (as ours does) succumb to peer pressures and experiment with homosexuality even if they are not in the least gay?
Why does Danny get to renounce his heterosexual past but you and Danny are smugly sure the college student questioner must really be at least partially homosexual even if he won't admit it.
Danny's attitude toward homosexuality is the same as the antebellum racists who contended that even one drop of negro blood contaminated the bearer; in Danny's world any homosexual exposure at any age forever condemns the participant to the gay ghetto.
Reproductive demographics are easy to take for granted, right up to the point that they fail a society.
Ask Japan.
The cultural etc advances you tout are luxuries that are only enjoyed by societies that master the humdrum basics of producing ongoing generations of competent citizens.
And, btw, cultural dalliances with normalizing homosexuality are a hallmark of civilizations in decline.
We would never chastise anyone who chose not to have children, they know best their fitness and in fact society owes them its gratitude.
However, when the non-reproductive segment of a society grows large enough that society will inevitably fail.
Successful enlightened societies relentlessly promote healthy family policy (Family Values were a recurring theme in Roman politics) but would never compel individual members to parent.
However they also would never present competing social structures as Just As Good.
At least they don't live to tell the tale if they do.....
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You confuse culture and race.
Rap music and tap dancing are culture.
Skin pigmentation is race.
Of course you can. Choose what you do. (or don't do)
So can Danny.
So can anyone and everyone else.
All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual.
What they choose to do, or not do, with that is their choice.
Predisposition is not Predetermination.
Some people are predisposed to diabetes or heart disease or depression.
However with prudent lifestyle choices they can avoid those impediments and lead healthy lives.
And people, with appropriate gender role models and family and cultural support, can overcome deviant sexual predispositions to lead normal lives.
If cultural pressures can force Dan to have sex with girls under 'duress' why can't the reverse be true?
Why can't children growing up in a culture that relentlessly promotes and propagandizes homosexuality (as ours does) succumb to peer pressures and experiment with homosexuality even if they are not in the least gay?
Why does Danny get to renounce his heterosexual past but you and Danny are smugly sure the college student questioner must really be at least partially homosexual even if he won't admit it.
Danny's attitude toward homosexuality is the same as the antebellum racists who contended that even one drop of negro blood contaminated the bearer; in Danny's world any homosexual exposure at any age forever condemns the participant to the gay ghetto.
Reproductive demographics are easy to take for granted, right up to the point that they fail a society.
Ask Japan.
The cultural etc advances you tout are luxuries that are only enjoyed by societies that master the humdrum basics of producing ongoing generations of competent citizens.
And, btw, cultural dalliances with normalizing homosexuality are a hallmark of civilizations in decline.
We would never chastise anyone who chose not to have children, they know best their fitness and in fact society owes them its gratitude.
However, when the non-reproductive segment of a society grows large enough that society will inevitably fail.
Successful enlightened societies relentlessly promote healthy family policy (Family Values were a recurring theme in Roman politics) but would never compel individual members to parent.
However they also would never present competing social structures as Just As Good.
At least they don't live to tell the tale if they do.....
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You confuse culture and race.No--I acknowledge that "race" is at least partially a societal construct made up of actions. Indeed, even skin pigmentation only equals race as a result of the way that pigmentation causes others to react.
So can Danny.Sure! The difference is, when I choose to sleep with a woman, I am choosing to sleep with someone to whom I am capable of being attracted and with whom I can experience romantic intimacy. If Dan chose to sleep with a woman, and if I take him as truthful in what he says about his proclivities, he is choosing to sleep with someone with whom he cannot experience those things.
Thus he is choosing an action that is contradictory to his innate proclivity.
All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual.All healthy whole heterosexual humans are biologically heterosexual.
What they choose to do, or not do, with that is their choice.A homosexual is not a heterosexual who happens to have relations with members of his or her own sex. Such a being would, by definition, not be having sex with someone to whom he or she is attracted. Maybe I'm luckier or better looking than the next guy, but I've never had sex with anyone to whom I wasn't at least nominally attracted.
Predisposition is not Predetermination.Perhaps not, but if the alternatives were celibacy or loveless marriage, I would consider homosexual activity an improvement over either if my primary sexual interest was in men.
And people, with appropriate gender role models and family and cultural support, can overcome deviant sexual predispositions to lead normal lives.An empty facsimile of so-called "normal lives," perhaps. I could also force myself to write with my right hand. But I will never write as clearly with my right as I would with my left, no matter how early you'd opted to "train" me to do so.
If cultural pressures can force Dan to have sex with girls under 'duress' why can't the reverse be true?Even if we said, arguendo and with no evidence whatsoever supporting the conclusion, that this was possible, we'd have to ask whether such sex under duress wouldn't be just as unsuccessful in reverse, and that nearly all heterosexuals would come to reject the homosexuality with which they experimented?
Seems like you haven't thought most of this through.
Why can't children growing up in a culture that relentlessly promotes and propagandizes homosexuality (as ours does) succumb to peer pressures and experiment with homosexuality even if they are not in the least gay?What you say about our culture simply isn't true. We still live in a heteronormative culture, and I don't imagine that will change anytime soon . . . or, in all likelihood, ever.
Why does Danny get to renounce his heterosexual past but you and Danny are smugly sure the college student questioner must really be at least partially homosexual even if he won't admit it.I never suggested the student was partially homosexual. I suggested that either you have the capacity for attraction to members of your own sex or you do not. Even given that you do, that attraction may be significant or not. I get hot and bothered for approximately 50 women for every one man that is of interest; that's enough, in my mind, to call myself "bisexual" or "bisexually responsive," but aside from a couple of fun play sessions, my "lifestyle" is primarily heterosexual because that's what suits me.
Danny's attitude toward homosexuality is the same as the antebellum racists who contended that even one drop of negro blood contaminated the bearer; in Danny's world any homosexual exposure at any age forever condemns the participant to the gay ghetto.Again--I will not answer for Dan. I will only say that one doesn't choose to whom one is attracted. If one is attracted to both men and women, and decides to "round up," more power.
Ask Japan.A rather sexually conservative society, in some ways. One might suggest that birth rates have little or nothing to do with whether a society accepts non-procreative sexual practices, or recognizes the unions of those who engage in them.
The cultural etc advances you tout are luxuries that are only enjoyed by societies that master the humdrum basics of producing ongoing generations of competent citizens.Luxuries without which the humdrum basics of producing ongoing generations of citizens--and such quaint, constructed notions as "competence"--are no more meaningful or valuable than the wriggling of a paramecium.
And, btw, cultural dalliances with normalizing homosexuality are a hallmark of civilizations in decline.An oft-cited, rarely illustrated, never proven maxim of sexually dissatisfied scolds and underemployed, basement-dwelling paranoiacs.
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@114: Let me pick out the clearest lies in your post.
"All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual."
Nope. Certain variations in morphology at certain loci in the brain cause homosexuality without any other known effects, and homosexuality is not a disease.
"relentlessly promotes and propagandizes homosexuality (as ours does)"
Our society actually propagandizes against homosexuality. If the tide of cultural influence was so in favor of being gay, why would gay people still be closeted?
"cultural dalliances with normalizing homosexuality are a hallmark of civilizations in decline"
Really? Were the Abbasids, Spaniards, Neo-Assyrians, Mongols, and countless other powers to rise and fall all that friendly towards gays?
Damn, you're delusional.
"All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual."
Nope. Certain variations in morphology at certain loci in the brain cause homosexuality without any other known effects, and homosexuality is not a disease.
"relentlessly promotes and propagandizes homosexuality (as ours does)"
Our society actually propagandizes against homosexuality. If the tide of cultural influence was so in favor of being gay, why would gay people still be closeted?
"cultural dalliances with normalizing homosexuality are a hallmark of civilizations in decline"
Really? Were the Abbasids, Spaniards, Neo-Assyrians, Mongols, and countless other powers to rise and fall all that friendly towards gays?
Damn, you're delusional.
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Lots of people have sex with people they are not in love with
and are not attracted to on any level except that that are a convenient hole.
Romance. *sigh!*.... whatever.
You saw stars! The Earth moved! God spoke to you from a burning bush. whatever....
Did Danny love Terri at some point?
Does he now need an outside release every now and then?
Has his love waned?
Will it last Forever?
no. body. cares.
It is not the job of government to GUARANTEE that anyone can marry/love/fuck the person they *Love!*
grow up.
We are going to make a statement about reproductive biology;
(again)
prepare your minds to be enlightened....
All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual.
All. healthy. whole. humans. are. biologically. heterosexual.
That is how our species reproduces.
Whatever "orientation(s)" someone may profess, it really doesn't matter.
In order to reproduce humans have heterosex.
And most humans, including the overwhelming majority of "homosexuals",
are capable of and frequently indulge in heterosex to make babies.
And those that do not are not by their choice.
Their heterosexual bodies are ready and willing.
You scoff.
But what is homosexual "marriage" except "an empty facsimile of so-called "normal lives""
Normal Heterosexual lives, that is.
Evidently you are not in touch with the popular culture that American children are immersed in.
Homosexuality is relentlessly projected and propagandized.
Music. TV. Movies.
Danny is Winning!, after all.
"we'd have to ask whether such sex under duress wouldn't be just as unsuccessful in reverse, and that nearly all heterosexuals would come to reject the homosexuality with which they experimented?"
That is the point. They would.
But when they try to un-out themselves Danny warns them that "no one has to believe them..."
Why does Danny scorn the idea that someone could identify as homosexual then recant and recognize their heterosexuality.
Has Danny ever acknowledged one case?
No.The road only goes one way.
You have a depressingly low appreciation for the specialness of human life.
People who have never heard of Socrates, Shakespeare, William Blake, Albert Einstein, Nichiren Daishonin, or Mother Theresa can have rich full lives doing no more than loving and providing for their families.
You may from your smug tower of cultural chauvinism disdainfully see them as no better that protozoa but that is your loss.
Perhaps it is a difference between conservatives and liberals.
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and are not attracted to on any level except that that are a convenient hole.
Romance. *sigh!*.... whatever.
You saw stars! The Earth moved! God spoke to you from a burning bush. whatever....
Did Danny love Terri at some point?
Does he now need an outside release every now and then?
Has his love waned?
Will it last Forever?
no. body. cares.
It is not the job of government to GUARANTEE that anyone can marry/love/fuck the person they *Love!*
grow up.
We are going to make a statement about reproductive biology;
(again)
prepare your minds to be enlightened....
All healthy whole humans are biologically heterosexual.
All. healthy. whole. humans. are. biologically. heterosexual.
That is how our species reproduces.
Whatever "orientation(s)" someone may profess, it really doesn't matter.
In order to reproduce humans have heterosex.
And most humans, including the overwhelming majority of "homosexuals",
are capable of and frequently indulge in heterosex to make babies.
And those that do not are not by their choice.
Their heterosexual bodies are ready and willing.
You scoff.
But what is homosexual "marriage" except "an empty facsimile of so-called "normal lives""
Normal Heterosexual lives, that is.
Evidently you are not in touch with the popular culture that American children are immersed in.
Homosexuality is relentlessly projected and propagandized.
Music. TV. Movies.
Danny is Winning!, after all.
"we'd have to ask whether such sex under duress wouldn't be just as unsuccessful in reverse, and that nearly all heterosexuals would come to reject the homosexuality with which they experimented?"
That is the point. They would.
But when they try to un-out themselves Danny warns them that "no one has to believe them..."
Why does Danny scorn the idea that someone could identify as homosexual then recant and recognize their heterosexuality.
Has Danny ever acknowledged one case?
No.The road only goes one way.
You have a depressingly low appreciation for the specialness of human life.
People who have never heard of Socrates, Shakespeare, William Blake, Albert Einstein, Nichiren Daishonin, or Mother Theresa can have rich full lives doing no more than loving and providing for their families.
You may from your smug tower of cultural chauvinism disdainfully see them as no better that protozoa but that is your loss.
Perhaps it is a difference between conservatives and liberals.
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@117: Actually, humans are reproductively bisexual, as are most chordates. You're really not in a position to make any statements about biology.
And as long as I'm lowering myself to speak to you, mind giving an example of mainstream culture telling people that you're better off gay than straight? (No, the Village People do not count as mainstream.)
And as long as I'm lowering myself to speak to you, mind giving an example of mainstream culture telling people that you're better off gay than straight? (No, the Village People do not count as mainstream.)
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Did Danny love Terri at some point? Does he now need an outside release every now and then? Has his love waned? Will it last Forever?Except, presumably, Danny and Terri. And that's all that really matters--that those who enter into contracts of lifetime commitment do so with someone with whom they can spend the rest of their lives.
no. body. cares.
It is not the job of government to GUARANTEE that anyone can marry/love/fuck the person they *Love!*Who's asking for a guarantee? I'm suggesting mere allowance.
Whatever "orientation(s)" someone may profess, it really doesn't matter.But not all sex is build around reproduction. For instance, fewer than 25% of women can experience orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation--which means that female sexual pleasure tends to rely on non-procreative practices like oral and digital stimulation. This suggests that, even on an evolutionary level (not that this is of any particular importance; survival is incidental, existence a mere accident; only by deriving satisfaction of life do we grant it any value, since value does not occur in nature), sex has as much to do with bonding and attentiveness as with fertility.
In order to reproduce humans have heterosex.
You scoff.You just make it so easy.
But what is homosexual "marriage" except "an empty facsimile of so-called "normal lives"I disagree. A marriage to someone with whom you wish to spend your life is certainly preferable to--and considerably less empty than--a marriage to someone with whom you do not.
Normal Heterosexual lives, that is.
Evidently you are not in touch with the popular culture that American children are immersed in.I'm actually part of that pop culture professionally; I also watch about 12-15 hours of television a week (not easy when I'm working three jobs and my wife works two, but what can we say? we like to watch TV at the end of a 10-12 hour day).
Homosexuality is relentlessly projected and propagandized.It is portrayed; it is even, thankfully, more often portrayed as non-harmful than in the past. It is also sanitized, compartmentalized, and in no way portrayed as preferable to or better than heterosexuality.
Music. TV. Movies.
But when they try to un-out themselves Danny warns them that "no one has to believe them..."And no one does. You don't have to believe that I'm married, left-handed, bisexual, bald, or smarter than you by such a ridiculous margin that I should be able to write this conversation off as a donation to the less fortunate. The people who know these things to be true will be those who matter.
Why does Danny scorn the idea that someone could identify as homosexual then recant and recognize their heterosexuality.What did I tell you about asking me to answer for Dan Savage?
Has Danny ever acknowledged one case?
You have a depressingly low appreciation for the specialness of human life.Specialness is assigned. It is not objective; it does not exist in nature. Quantities have value because we value them.
I hold a great many human lives special; I'd say I even grant human life a special deference because I can enter into contracts with any mentally competent human that I cannot enter into with a lion or a virus. But that deference is, make no mistake, contractual, that specialness assigned. The universe recognizes no phenomenon as special; all phenomena are one.
People who have never heard of Socrates, Shakespeare, William Blake, Albert Einstein, Nichiren Daishonin, or Mother Theresa can have rich full lives doing no more than loving and providing for their families.Wait . . . I thought that love was inconsequential, and I was immature for suggesting it had anything to do with marriage.
Shit, you're even too stupid to keep up with your own arguments.
You may from your smug tower of cultural chauvinism disdainfully see them as no better that protozoa but that is your loss.I imagine the protozoa would be offended that you so dismiss its experiences, if you'd any way of communicating your disdain. And perhaps that is your loss--that you think so little of phenomena in general that you hold the eating, sleeping, shitting, and breeding of upright-walking apes in greater esteem than all else.
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