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Monday, February 13, 2012

The 40-Year March to Today's Marriage Bill Signing

Posted by on Mon, Feb 13, 2012 at 11:22 AM

The desk, the bill, and the governors chair, waiting.
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  • The desk, the bill, and the governor's chair, waiting.

In about ten minutes, here in the state capitol building in Olympia, Governor Chris Gregoire will sign a bill granting gay and lesbian couples the right to marry in Washington State. With all the focus on the house and senate votes over the last two weeks, and with all the talk about the repeal referendum that's set to be filed as soon as the governor signs the bill into law, it's easy to lose sight of the historical weight of this moment.

So, a pause to consider just how long people in Washington State have been pushing to make this law a reality. It starts, at least in the courts, on Sept. 20, 1971:

On September 20, 1971, Paul Barwick, a Vietnam veteran and former state patrol dispatcher, showed up at the King County auditor's office requesting a marriage license. With him was the man he wanted to wed, John Singer, a staffer at the federal Equal Employment Opportunity Commission who favored dresses rather than pants at work, and who was soon to change his name to Faygele benMiriam.

The two lived together in a gay-activist commune on Capitol Hill, and had recently heard that their state's marriage law had become gender-neutral in language. Their request for a marriage license, quite unusual at the time, landed on the desk of then-auditor Lloyd Hara (now a Port Commissioner) who promptly refused to grant the license. The couple sued, and their case, known as Singer v. Hara, became, at least until [recently], the best-known gay marriage case in this state.

Singer v. Hara was tossed out by two courts (many gay activists now ruefully describe it as having been "laughed out" of two courts), and it ended, in 1974, at the state court of appeals level, with the couple broke and wary of filing yet another appeal, lest they further cement the dispiriting precedent.

I wrote that in August of 2006, just after another big Washington State court decision on gay marriage: The State Supreme Court's ruling that the Washington State Defense of Marriage Act—passed in 1998—was constitutional.

The majority in that case, Andersen v. King County, went out of its way to note that nothing in the 2006 ruling prohibited a future legislature from overturning our Defense of Marriage Act. As it turned out, it was this legislature that did so—after legislatures in 2007 and 2009 created, and then expanded to "everything but marriage," our state's domestic partnership rights. (And after voters upheld those rights at the polls in 2009.)

There are certainly other mileposts that could be marked here—including Cal Anderson, in 1987, becoming our state's first openly gay legislator, with Ed Murray and Jamie Pedersen following in his footsteps—but for the moment just consider how long it took to make the law Governor Gregoire is about to sign, in front of me, in a few minutes: 40 years.

 

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Fnarf 1
Why are our laws signed in a room that looks like five different people with radically different dietary habits have been sick all over it?
Posted by Fnarf http://www.facebook.com/fnarf on February 13, 2012 at 11:46 AM
2
I hope that water bottle hasn't been unattended for too long.

40 years! Thanks for demonstrating the gravity of this in such a crystal way.
Posted by no account on February 13, 2012 at 11:47 AM
3
And what fnarf said. If you kind of relax your eyes and stare "through" the image, after a few seconds you can see a panda.
Posted by No account on February 13, 2012 at 11:49 AM
stinkbug 4
"It is signed!" - where's a photo of her hands/arms in the air?
Posted by stinkbug on February 13, 2012 at 12:19 PM
5
Historic day with a wonderful history.

I remember reading materials with Faygele benMiriam's signature on it from the old days... historic documents for our community, in the basement of the old LGBT Center on Pike. Actual documents from the era, news article clippings, deeds, etc. Gay Community Social Services entrusted the Center to care for those precious documents. I wonder where those are now since the Center closed all those years ago.
Posted by CommonKnowledge on February 13, 2012 at 2:20 PM
6
Took fucking long enough.
Posted by PaulBarwick on February 13, 2012 at 2:30 PM
thatsnotright 7
@1 I know, the native marble used in the capitol building would be perfect for a second-rate resort or a Russian oligarch's mansion.
Posted by thatsnotright on February 13, 2012 at 2:37 PM
venomlash 8
Someone changed his name to Faygele? That's quite possibly the gayest thing I've ever heard.

@2: There was an eyewash bottle in my high-school chemistry classroom with an ancient label declaring it to be "Fresh Water". Someone had crossed out "Fresh" and written "stale" instead.
Posted by venomlash on February 13, 2012 at 2:42 PM
9
"Someone changed his name to Faygele? That's quite possibly the gayest thing I've ever heard."

That's exactly why he did it. Back in the 1970's straight America would do most anything to acknowledge that there were a sizable number of queer folks who lived among them. Faygele's father was one of those people, so he changed his name, in English it means "Faggot, son of Miriam". He, and I, wanted to make sure that everyone we met would know that at least once in their life they had interacted with a gay person.
Posted by PaulBarwick on February 13, 2012 at 3:12 PM
10
Thank you for the history lesson. I, too, am impressed and amazed, and 100% amused, that someone changed his name to Faygele. Fabulous.
Posted by Strangee on February 13, 2012 at 3:26 PM
11
@10 Glad to be of help, and I am sure that you and other readers know that I meant "do most anything not to acknowledge..." in comment #9.
Posted by PaulBarwick on February 13, 2012 at 3:39 PM
12
Lloyd and his wife were handing out stickers at the Pride Festival last year.
Posted by SM9 on February 13, 2012 at 9:23 PM
13
Holy shit that's an ugly room! The Governor needs to hire a gay decorator next time. Damn.
Posted by Mike Friedman on February 14, 2012 at 10:53 AM

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