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Friday, January 28, 2011

Required Reading: Johann Hari

Posted by on Fri, Jan 28, 2011 at 8:29 AM

Schools in Britain are being asked to address anti-gay bullying by simply acknowledging the existence of homosexuals—an approach that has been proven to reduce anti-gay bulling—and that country's increasingly marginalized, desperate, and unhinged rightwingers see a plot to "destroy the very concept of normal sexual behavior," and to persecute upstanding, faithful Christians who just want to discriminate against gays and lesbians in peace. Johann Hari takes on the haters in a moving column in the Independent. It's required reading:

Yet in one strange way, the current backlash is reassuring. When I was a kid in the 1980s, these sentiments were so widespread that a law — Section 28 — was passed to resolve them, and the cowed critics were derided as “the loony left.” Today, the opinion polls show 80 percent of the British people support gay marriage, and the people offering these views are regarded as the loons. It’s worth pausing and saying to all the people who have been open to persuasion and have changed their minds on this question: thank you. It’s incredibly moving to see how many heterosexual people have rallied to the defence of gay people, and it’s a reminder that we will never go back now.

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In order to justify their desire to discriminate against gay people, the few remaining homophobes have concocted a scenario where they are The Real Victims. They can say what they want, set up churches or mosques that preach what they want, and turn away gay people from their homes every day of the week if they so desire—and I would defend every one of those rights to the last ditch. There is only one thing they can’t do. They can’t choose to offer a service to the general public, and then turn people away on the basis of race or sexuality. They can’t put up de facto signs saying ‘No blacks, no Irish, no gays’ at their B&B.

This isn’t a form of prejudice—it is a way of preventing prejudice. Nobody will ever force you to work in a registry office or open a B&B, but if you choose to, you can’t reject the gay couples and expect to remain in post. (In one case where this happened, they offered her a job in the office instead, but she chose to be a bizarre cause célèbre of prejudice instead.) Services for the general public have to be available without contamination by bigotry. It’s a simple principle. Don’t demand the right to spit in the face of gay people, and claim you’re being picked on when you’re asked to stop.

Yes, I know your religious texts mandate bigotry against gay people. They also mandate slavery and stoning adulterers, and they laud a God who feeds small children to bears (see II Kings ii, 23-24). As secular morality has evolved, you have managed to overcome those beliefs. Here’s another that has to catch up.

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But there is an even lower point in the homophobes’ rhetorical arsenal. Being subjected to bullying and violence as children and teenagers makes gay people unusually vulnerable to depression and despair. The homophobes then use that depression and despair to claim that homosexuality is inherently a miserable state — and we shouldn’t do anything that might “encourage” it. They create misery, and then use it as a pretext to create even more misery.

RTWT.

 

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Ness 1
Meanwhile, on this side of the pond, we have to deal with bullshit like this... http://tinyurl.com/4z5lrv6

Hari has a ton of good points. I'll be grateful when that kind of logical thinking makes its way over here and becomes the majority.
Posted by Ness http://www.collegecandy.com/author/nessfraser on January 28, 2011 at 8:52 AM
Ness 2
(here's an actual news link to the Elton John story... http://tinyurl.com/4ls6xnu)
Posted by Ness http://www.collegecandy.com/author/nessfraser on January 28, 2011 at 8:56 AM
Lilliable 3
More feeding small children to the bears, please.
Posted by Lilliable on January 28, 2011 at 8:57 AM
gloomy gus 4
How wonderful. And reading this makes me realize how lucky we your regular readers are to have had you hammer this home for us so many times in so many ways.
Posted by gloomy gus on January 28, 2011 at 9:07 AM
AmyC 5
holy shit. excellently written. thanks for posting.
Posted by AmyC on January 28, 2011 at 9:22 AM
Canadian Nurse 6
@3: Children only get eaten by bears if they make fun of bald prophets. Patrick Stewart is the only one I can think of off the top of my head.
Posted by Canadian Nurse on January 28, 2011 at 9:23 AM
Urgutha Forka 7
"Destroy the very concept of normal sexual behavior"

Shit... the religious fundies already did that centuries ago.
Posted by Urgutha Forka on January 28, 2011 at 9:36 AM
Canadian Nurse 8
Oh! What a wonderful article. Moving, true, and full of hope. And what despicable a comments section. Full of right-wing bile and slander.
Posted by Canadian Nurse on January 28, 2011 at 9:36 AM
Lance Thrustwell 9
I of course approve of this article and anyone advancing, you know, sanity. However, one small quibble: advancing the biological-deterministic of homosexuality here, as Hari does, kind of glosses over the fact that someone can indeed 'choose' to engage in homosexual activity without actually being all-the-way gay, and that early teaching that gay is okay might actually make that number uptick a little. And that there's nothing wrong with that! But I suppose he'd be foolish to mention that in a public forum meant to convince homophobes.

Anyway, good article.
Posted by Lance Thrustwell on January 28, 2011 at 9:54 AM
this guy I know in Spokane 10
Wow, this has been up for 2 hours and still nothing from the Period Troll? Weird.
Posted by this guy I know in Spokane on January 28, 2011 at 10:37 AM
Lissa 11
@10: Well he gets those awful head aches you know..
Posted by Lissa on January 28, 2011 at 11:14 AM
12
Awesome piece, thanks for posting.
Posted by FLgirl on January 28, 2011 at 2:49 PM
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Love this line in the article "Don’t demand the right to spit in the face of gay people, and claim you’re being picked on when you’re asked to stop." What the right seems to not understand is that no one wants to take away their free speech. But they want more than that. They want the right to control the behaviour of other people. They want the right to deny civil rights to people they don't approve of. As a general rule, I don't approve of people who cite religion as a reason for what they do but I'm not actively trying to take away their right to do so. I know I'm preaching to the choir here but still had to say it.
Posted by capricorn44 on January 28, 2011 at 4:19 PM
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Indeed a wonderful article. It's so heart-warming to see such points being made in such an open way, and in a country in which a big change in the opinions of most citizens has already taken place!... And I say this as someone who was, during my childhood, quite homophobic. It's good to be able to say that one can indeed see the light, change opinions and realize that prejudice is simply that: prejudice, in the absence of any real reasons for fear.

It's coming. It may take some time; in some sense, it will take all the time (since there will always be some bigotted people, there will always be some assholes). But it's coming.
Posted by ankylosaur on January 29, 2011 at 10:19 AM
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@9 nails it pretty well....
Posted by Choose Wisely. on January 29, 2011 at 10:52 PM

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