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Monday, March 22, 2010

Constance McMillen Goes To Court

Posted by on Mon, Mar 22, 2010 at 12:40 PM

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Constance McMillen is in court today asking a judge to force the Itawamba County School Board to un-cancel Itawamba Agricultural High School's prom. Clarian Ledger:

Itawamba County school officials this morning defended in federal court their decision to cancel a high school prom after a lesbian student challenged the district’s policy against same-sex dates.

School board chairman Eddie Hood said the debate over 18-year-old Itawamba County Agricultural High School senior Constance McMillen's request to bring her girlfriend as her date and to wear a tuxedo to the April 2 dance was causing too much of a distraction.

"We want to have school. We are in the business of school and education our children," Hood said. "We want to move on."

Gee, it's almost like you can't discriminate against gay and lesbian students and use segregation-era tactics to violate a lesbian student's civil rights in peace and quiet anymore.

Um... anyone who would like to explain to Mr. Hood why we're not letting them "move on" is welcome to send him an at his work email address. (Mr. Hood conducts public business using his work email address—he's an Allstate insurance agent—so I'm not violating her privacy here. His email address was posted on Itawamba County School Board's website and the public was invited to contact Hood via his work email address with any concerns we might have. So write to Mr. Hood. Then write to Allstate and ask them how many of its agents are currently using Allstate's emails servers to advance bigotry and discrimination: directors@allstate.com.) Back to the CL:

McMillen's attorney repeatedly made the point that any distractions caused by McMillen's request were greatly amplified by the board's decision, which has focused national and international attention on Fulton, McMillen's hometown of about 4,000 people.

Like I wrote last week...

By coming down on the Itawamba County School system—and by coming down on them hard—we're not just sending a message to the bigots running a high school in a corner of Mississippi. We're sending a message to school boards and superintendents and principals all over the country: you will pay a price if you discriminate against or encourage other students to retaliate against LGBT youth.

So... suck on that distraction, Mr. Hood, and remember: the school board brought this distraction down on Fulton. Back to the CL:

Some parents of students at the school have scheduled a private dance at a furniture market in Tupelo, about 25 miles west of Fulton. Itawamba County schools Superintendent Teresa McNeece said she believed that dance would be open to any high school junior or senior, but she did not testify about whether same-sex dates would be allowed.

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According to Friday's report about the "invitation-only" prom, same-sex dates will not be allowed to attend Itawamba Agricultural's restricted prom. In fact, Constance and the ACLU only learned that a private, restricted prom was being planned when the Itawamba County School District's attorney mentioned it in a filing—a filing that Ms. McNeece, the Superintendent of Itawamba County Schools, had to have helped draft. Presumably Ms. McNeece knew the restricted prom was on, knew it was restricted, and knew Constance and other gay students would be excluded, and yet McNeece took the stand and said she "believed that dance would be open to any high school junior or senior." So McNeece may have lied. In court. To the judge. Under oath.

More on Ms. McNeece's testimony from the Washington Post:

But they also said they decided to call off the April 2 prom at Itawamba Agricultural High School because McMillen's challenge to the rules had caused disruptions. "We were being hounded every day. Our students were being hounded," McNeece said. "We were having a tough time of any bell-to-bell instruction."

No one in Fulton was being hounded—no one outside of Fulton had ever heard of Fulton (pop. 4,000)—until after the Itawamba County School Board cancelled prom in an attempt to retaliate against a student who wanted to go to her prom with her date. The Itawamba County School Board and Itawamba County's Agricultural's administration mistakenly believed that they could abuse Constance McMillen with impunity and discriminate against her in relative secrecy because who outside of Fulton would ever find out about any of this? (How's that working out for you, Ms. McNeece?) And canceling prom meant putting Constance McMillen—already isolated in Fulton—at risk of emotional and physical violence at the hands of her angry and disappointed peers, well, that kind of hounding Ms. McNeece can get behind.

Closing arguments will be heard this afternoon—they may be underway already—and the judge has indicated that his decision will be quick. In the meantime let's keep making sure that discrimination and bigotry are more distracting for the Itawamba County school system than tolerance and inclusion ever could've been:

Superintendent Teresa McNeece
tmcneece@itawamba.k12.ms.us
phone (662) 862-2159 Ext. 14
fax (662) 862-4713

Principal Trae Wiygul
twiygul@itawamba.k12.ms.us
(662) 862-3104

School Board Member Eddie Hood
a082315@allstate.com

School Board Member Jackie Nichols
jnichols@itawamba.k12.ms.us

School Board Member Harold Martin
hmartin@itawamba.k12.ms.us

School Board Member Clara Brown
cbrown@network-one.com

School Board Member Tony Wallace
twallace@nexband.com

Let's keep it respectful, Sloggers, but let's keep it up. And join the Facebook group "Let Constance Take Her Girlfriend to Prom" if you haven't already. And make a tax-deductible donation to support Constance's ACLU LGBT Project team by clicking here if you haven't already.

 

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Cook 1
Just wondering, but do any of the school board members support an inclusive prom? Out of the seven names listed, i'd think at least one of them disagree with this decision.
Posted by Cook on March 22, 2010 at 12:46 PM
2
I just love how Constance wants HER prom and the right to attend HER prom. She doesn't want some non-school sponsored private prom and turned down the offer from Ellen to throw one.
I wish all 18 year olds (and up!) were so mature and held on so strongly to their values. Constance is the first, but she will not be the last.
Posted by sammielu on March 22, 2010 at 12:54 PM
The Amazing Jim 3
Why is it som important to make a young wiman feel so unwelcome? Do these people feel a sense of accomplishment or bravery by ostricizing this girl?
Posted by The Amazing Jim http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?id=100000076496291&ref=profile on March 22, 2010 at 12:55 PM
4
Fingers crossed that the judge makes the sensible decision, and sentences the school board to a round of swirlies into the bargain.
Posted by blah on March 22, 2010 at 1:11 PM
Joe Szilagyi 5
@3 Zealots stick to their guns on principle, regardless of how many lives are destroyed in the process. If they back down now it's a perceived refutation of their own "Christian" morals or whatever they believe. So they'll fight to the bitter end, and when the courts eventually discard them (or fine the holy hell out of them) they will rage and wail that THEY were oppressed for THEIR beliefs. Like we haven't seen this end game before, repeatedly...

Constance will have her day--or well-deserved settlement with justice. The hatemongers will be marginalized just a bit more again, as they've been for decades now. Every little brick in the wall of a better tomorrow...
Posted by Joe Szilagyi http://twitter.com/joeszi on March 22, 2010 at 1:11 PM
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@3 I'm betting homophobia is pervasive enough in Fulton that really no one thought that this would explode. I'm willing to bet this happens far more often than we know.
Posted by bluefawx on March 22, 2010 at 1:23 PM
Heather 7
http://www.forgoodreason.org/james_randi…

A little off topic, but James Randi (a.k.a. The Amazing Randi has come out at the age of 81.

Randi is a magician and leader of the skeptic movement. He is also the sponsor of the James Randi 1 Million Dollar Paranormal Challenge. During the 1980s he and Johnny Carson helped expose Uri Geller as a fraud on The Tonight Show.
Posted by Heather on March 22, 2010 at 1:56 PM
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#6

If not for Constance - and there are few like her - this whole ball of shit would not have been noticed.

In the South I bet you are correct - a pervasive problem in many high schools - never challenged.

Did Dan take his BF to he prom? Just wondering if he is more of a late blooming activist, I did not care for the prom stuff but used to do the football team on the bus .... yes, a male cheerleader.

Three cheers for Constance, god what a grounded young woman.
Posted by Ace, number One (for a reason) on March 22, 2010 at 1:57 PM
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Email addresses not working:

School Board Member Eddie Hood
a082315@allstate.com

School Board Member Jackie Nichols
jnichols@itawamba.k12.ms.us

School Board Member Harold Martin
hmartin@itawamba.k12.ms.us

I looked at the website for the school district and these are the addresses posted, but they are bouncing back. The link to Allstate agent Eddie Hood's address appears to have been removed.
Posted by rubus on March 22, 2010 at 2:17 PM
beckysharp 10

8: Did Dan take his BF to he prom?

I thought he went to an all-boys' seminary school. Did the "celibate" supervisors allow them to have dances with girls, seeing as some of the students were destined for the priesthood?

I went to a non-religious all-girls' school; we weren't allowed boys at our dances and parties because a few years before us some boys in attendance brought liquor, got drunk and smashed some school windows. The Headmistress was Not Amused at the unseemly behaviour. Hence the ban on Persons with Penises. Not really an issue, since they weren't members of the school.

I'm just amazed that a school would ban one of its own students from a function.

Posted by beckysharp on March 22, 2010 at 2:19 PM
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An e-mail is nice, but snail mail makes a better statement. Its just too easy to delete an e-mail but a letter ends up sitting on your desk and must, at the very least, go into the trash.

The school address is:

11900 Old Highway 25
Fulton MS 38843
Posted by MikeB on March 22, 2010 at 2:31 PM
12
"We are in the business of school and education our children," Hood said.


Right up there with "Is our children learning?"
Posted by katemonster on March 22, 2010 at 3:00 PM
13
You are all not seeing the big picture. Constance maybe fightening for a prom which only happens once a year, but what about an education that is being denied to an individual at the same school. Education seems more important to me than a prom. Her story is all about her, she does not care about anyone else, she just wants the money and the fame. Both of which will soon fade away with time. True friends will stick with her and she will stick with her true friends instead of abdoning them at there time of need as she has done with this one student at the same school.
Constance has become a stuck up individaul every since the media started getting her on different shows, she has already spent money that should of been saved for her education. It seems like just a game to her and a way out of FultonCounty, Mississippi. Constance needs to wake up and realize that reality will be facing her down soon enough and that things will all blow over.

Sure she came out and wants to take a girl to the prom, but it is not technically a school district problem. The seniors pay for there prom. I am glad that you all want to make donations to this cause, but once again the education of a transgender, gay or lesbian individual is more important than a prom.
Posted by deb20010 on March 22, 2010 at 3:51 PM
beckysharp 14
@ 13

Yeah, taking your date to prom, sitting wherever you like on a bus - these are little things. Thanks for helping us see the big picture.
Posted by beckysharp on March 22, 2010 at 4:11 PM
Heather 15
@13 You are totally missing the point. That you think she is "stuck up" is of zero relevance. What is important is that a young lesbian is being denied the right to attend an event that everyone else is welcome to attend. The school board would like to make this just another quiet little episode in rural America and for everybody to stay in their place and not rock the boat. Constance has a lot of courage and if all the support she is getting makes her more self confident and a little headstrong then that is a good result. If the school board is forced to back down that will be even better.
Posted by Heather on March 22, 2010 at 5:44 PM
Free Lunch 16
Man, @13 - talk about the importance of education. Did you learn to write in Fulton County? If so, sounds like they're failing at that, too.
Posted by Free Lunch on March 22, 2010 at 6:39 PM

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