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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

News from the Animal Kingdom: Some Animals Can Display Grief for the Dead

Posted by on Wed, Nov 4, 2009 at 9:29 AM

Here is how gorillas grieve:

Gorillas are known to hold wakes for dead friends, something that some zoos have formalized in a ceremony when one of their gorillas passes away. Donna Fernandes, now president of the Buffalo Zoo, tells the story of being at Boston's Franklin Park Zoo ten years ago during the wake for a female gorilla, Babs, who had died of cancer. She describes seeing the gorilla's longtime mate say good-bye: "He was howling and banging his chest,... and he picked up a piece of her favorite food — celery — and put it in her hand and tried to get her to wake up. I was weeping, it was so emotional." Later, the scene at Babs's December funeral was similarly moving. As reported by local news, gorilla family members "one by one ... filed into" the room where "Babs's body lay," approaching their "beloved leader" and "gently sniffing the body."

Here is how elephants express their grief:

[These] are the actions of the members of an elephant family... after a group member had been shot: "Teresia and Trista became frantic and knelt down and tried to lift her up. They worked their tusks under her back and under her head. At one point they succeeded in lifting her into a sitting position but her body flopped back down. Her family tried everything to rouse her, kicking and tusking her, and Tullulah even went off and collected a trunkful of grass and tried to stuff it in her mouth."

Finally, wolves:

[A] wolf pack after the loss of the low-ranking omega female wolf, Motaki, to a mountain lion. The pack lost their spirit and their playfulness. They no longer howled as a group, but rather they "sang alone in a slow mournful cry." They were depressed — tails and heads held low and walking softly and slowly — when they came upon the place where Motaki was killed. They inspected the area and pinned their ears back and dropped their tails, a gesture that usually means submission. It took about six weeks for the pack to return to normal. The Dutchers also tell of a wolf pack in Canada in which one pack member died and the others wandered about in a figure eight as if searching for her. They also howled long and mournfully.

As for humans, some of us can completely contain our emotions and turn the grief into a dark, inner sea that's wide and deep. We know the depths of death. No crying, no smelling, no stomping about—just the silent sea of grief.

 

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Baconcat 1
The wolf pack part made me a little emotional.

Three Wolf Mourn.
Posted by Baconcat on November 4, 2009 at 9:31 AM
Julie in Eugene 2
Charles reads these passages and sees only dumb animal nature (smelling and stomping about). But I would bet that many people read them and see humanity.
Posted by Julie in Eugene on November 4, 2009 at 9:33 AM
reverend dr dj riz 3
i know you don't like it charles..but you really should cry more.
Posted by reverend dr dj riz on November 4, 2009 at 9:34 AM
Belly 4
This is the only decent thing Charles has ever written.
Posted by Belly on November 4, 2009 at 9:41 AM
5
Charles, don't forget crows. And large marine mammals.
Posted by jen on November 4, 2009 at 9:51 AM
Crazy Cat Guy's Husband 6
@5 Charles is frightened by crows.
Posted by Crazy Cat Guy's Husband on November 4, 2009 at 9:54 AM
Matt from Denver 7
And those who cry don't "know the depths of death" ?? What a crock.
Posted by Matt from Denver on November 4, 2009 at 9:56 AM
Sir Vic 8
@5 I passed upon a crow funeral/wake about 2 weeks ago. I could tell instantly what was happening, and so I looked around a little bit to see their fallen friend on the ground. I stopped briefly, looked up at the throng in the tree and then down at the deceased, and then moved along.

It's best to be respectful of these scenes, but not get involved. You wouldn't want strangers crashing your grandma's funeral, would you?
Posted by Sir Vic on November 4, 2009 at 10:03 AM
Confluence 9
You sure put up with a lot of shit, Charles. Hang tough.
Posted by Confluence on November 4, 2009 at 10:07 AM
nicholaus 10
This is a beautiful post.
Posted by nicholaus on November 4, 2009 at 10:12 AM
eric (the other one) 11
Household animals know when one of their own has passed. Dogs definitely grieve in their way: I've had one who refused to play for a week, sitting by the bed of the lost companion looking forlorn. Humans who think all animals are just dumb bundles of instinct are kidding themselves.
Posted by eric (the other one) on November 4, 2009 at 10:47 AM
12
@11- Yup, I've seen it too.
Posted by dwight moody on November 4, 2009 at 10:49 AM
meowmeowkitty 13
I am definitely giving up eating gorilla.
Posted by meowmeowkitty on November 4, 2009 at 10:57 AM
lark 14
Charles,
I saw a photo of two gorillas embraced about a year or so ago:

http://www.foxnews.com/images/344586/0_6…

Initially, I thought it a platonic/empathetic embrace and way cool. I cut out the picture from the newspaper and placed it on my desk. However, it turns out to be a photo of gorillas having rare face to face sex. I still think it cool. Thought you might like it.
Posted by lark on November 4, 2009 at 11:05 AM
15
The NYT published a tragic cover story in the magazine about 3 years ago about how elephants packs are collectively going insane because their parents are being poached so regularly. It's a heartbreaking but worthwhile read.
Posted by mitten on November 4, 2009 at 11:18 AM
16
Re: Crow funerals.

Two birds got zapped on a transformer in my neighborhood landing at the bottom of the telephone pole. Later, in the early evening, a long stream of crows coming from the NW off the sound alit in a huge redwood across the street - hundreds of them. Once the final bird arrived, they all ceased cawing and were completely and utterly silent for 3 minutes. (I tracked it on my phone.) Then, without audible communication (to me anyway), they peeled off in a stream of crow, heading the same direction inland they'd been going before stopping to pay respect to their fallen idrin/sistren.

It was an emotional scene that felt honored to witness.
Posted by oxyala trio http://epc.buffalo.edu/authors/bernstein/shadowtime/wb-thesis.html on November 4, 2009 at 11:18 AM
17
" As for humans, some of us can completely contain our emotions and turn the grief into a dark, inner sea that's wide and deep. We know the depths of death. No crying, no smelling, no stomping about—just the silent sea of grief."

Kind of a leap, don't you think? Can't animals have a silent sea of grief? We don't see it because it isn't manifested externally.
Posted by Gloria on November 4, 2009 at 11:24 AM
Vince 18
There was a nature program about chimps in the wild. I remember watching it years ago. It was the story about a family of chimps and one was the matriarch. She had a son. He was still too young to fend for himself very well when one day she dropped dead in a stream. He screamed and pulled at her body for hours. Then he sat on the bank and sobbed for days, wailing and rocking and starring at the body until he too died right next to her from a broken heart.
Posted by Vince on November 4, 2009 at 11:52 AM
Rotten666 19
That was nice Charles.
Posted by Rotten666 on November 4, 2009 at 12:17 PM
McGee 20
Now for a video of a chimp making a live frog suck his dick.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PI4xVeRju…
Posted by McGee on November 4, 2009 at 12:27 PM
Timrrr 21
@2:

Julie, you see these things and think animals are acting like humans.

Charles reads them and thinks beings are beings are beings...

...and that Humans are differentiated only in their ability to secret away non-being within their souls (Consciousnesses is indeed the fruit of the knowledge of good and evil.)

"The fault lies not in your sight but in your philosophy"
Posted by Timrrr on November 4, 2009 at 12:57 PM
Julie in Eugene 22
@21. Charles has repeatedly expressed a disdain for animals. Therefore, he takes these descriptions of their grieving processes and sees them simply as more evidence that they are dumb, brutish beings. Whereas others might see these processes as evidence that they are more "conscious" than we are often willing to recognize.
Posted by Julie in Eugene on November 4, 2009 at 1:12 PM
Timrrr 23
Julie,

Calling an animal "conscious" is an insult to animals.
Posted by Timrrr on November 4, 2009 at 1:31 PM
24
julie, i want to give charles some credit here. i thinks he's come around from prior bias toward sarte's ill-informed stance of animals being bio-bots. he's embracing a more modern, science-based view of animal emotion. even if he is throwing in a few charles-style non-sequitters in the process.
Posted by ellarosa on November 4, 2009 at 1:32 PM
Timrrr 25
What you're (mistakenly) attributing to consciousness isn't.

You've got the right idea, but you're drawing the dividing lines in all the wrong places.
Posted by Timrrr on November 4, 2009 at 1:34 PM
Timrrr 26
Emotional intelligence is not a product of consciousness.

You're standing on your head declaring that the apple falls upwards.
Posted by Timrrr on November 4, 2009 at 1:40 PM
Timrrr 27
Consciousness is the Guy Who Does the Talking -- and the guy who does the talking will always tell you he's the one making all the decisions.

He lies.
Posted by Timrrr on November 4, 2009 at 3:02 PM
28
Many humans are uncomfortable with the grieving process. Out of their discomfort they ridicule the honest feelings of others, in this case animals. It would be far better to spend time dealing with their issues, but alas that is not the easy route.
Posted by The Pet Chatter on November 8, 2009 at 7:07 AM

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