http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2008/11/21/komo_s_marlee_ginter_might_be Comments On: KOMO's Marlee Ginter Might Be [a Damn Fine Journalist]... by Dan Savage en-us Copyright 2009 The Stranger. All rights reserved. This RSS file is offered to individuals, The Stranger readers, and non-commercial organizations only. Any commercial websites wishing to use this RSS file, please contact The Stranger. webmaster@thestranger.com (The Stranger Webmaster) Tue, 24 Nov 2009 00:00:01 -0800 Tue, 24 Nov 2009 02:45:00 -0800 Foundation http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Posted by Peter888]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2009 09:39:33 -0800 The Stranger
A2) There are various ways a dolphin has of showing that she or he is interested in sex.

Males are probably the easiest to detect. They will swim around, sporting an erection (anywhere between 10 to 14 inches long for a Bottle-nose), and will have no bones about swimming up to you and placing their member within reach of your hand. If you are in the water, they may rub it along any part of your body, or wrap it around your wrist or ankle. (Dolphin males have a prehensile penis. They can wrap it around objects, and carry them as such.) Their belly will also be pinkish in colour, which also denotes sexual excitement.

Females can be a little harder. The most obvious way a female dolphin has of displaying her sexual interest is the pink-belly effect. Their genitals become very pink and swollen, making the genital region very prominent. They may be restless, or they may be acting as normal. If you are out of the water, they may swim up to you and roll belly up, exposing themselves to you, coupled with pelvic thrusts. If you are in the water, they may press their genitals up against yours, nibble your fingers, nuzzle your crotch, or do pelvic thrusts against you.

Each dolphins way of expressing sexual readiness varies, so the longer you know the dolphin, the better you will detect when they are sexually active.

Q3) What do I do if a dolphin wants to mate with me?

A3) Accept, if possible! I will go through the steps involved with males and females...

The Male:

When a male dolphin is interested in you, about the only thing you can do, if you are male, is to masturbate him. (Unfortunately, I cannot speak for the female of the human species... it seems women just don't like dolphins enough... so I cannot say for sure if it is safe to mate with them. I would suspect not, due to a dolphins size, but then again, I cannot say for a woman.) WARNING! In the considerations of safety, you should NEVER let a male dolphin attempt anal sex with you. The Bottle-nose dolphin member is around 12 inches, very muscular, and the thrusting and the force of ejaculation (A male can come as far as 14 feet) would cause serious internal injuries, resulting in peritonitus and possible death. Unless you are the masochistic type, you will have a hard time explaining your predicament to the doctors in the emergency ward....

A male dolphin's member is roughly S-shaped, tapered at the end. If you are in the water with them, it is best to support the dolphin on his side, just under the water, with one hand, and handle him with the other. Male dolphins, I find, tend to prefer the base of the penis to be gently massaged and squeezed, as well as gently rubbed along it's length. It feels very much like the rest of the dolphin (ie. smooth and rubbery to the touch, but firmer). It doesn't take long for the male to ejaculate, around 40 seconds to a minute, and this is usually accompanied by either shuddering just prior to ejaculating, and thrusting and tail-arching during ejaculation. The force of ejaculation can be powerful at times, so it is best to keep your face out of the line of fire, or keep his member underwater. You can attempt to lick and suck on the end of it while masturbating as well, but be warned, do not try to give full throat, and get the hell out of the way before he ejaculates! A male dolphin could snap your neck in an accidental thrust, and that would be the end of that relationship.

The Female:

Well, the females are again a little trickier. There are two courses of action with a female fin: Masturbation, or mating.

Masturbation: Female dolphins, once they show interest in you, can be supported in much the same way as the male, one hand under the fin, supporting her, the other doing the stimulating. The clitoris of the female is located at the top of the genital slit, and is a prominent lump when erect. You can rub this with your finger tips, or lick and suck it, but with the oral aspect, you might end up with a bruised nose as they thrust up into you. You can slide your hand gently into their genital opening, and feel around inside, rubbing gently. They feel warm and muscular inside, their labia like tough, squishy sponge when they are excited. Don't be surprised if they start to play with your hand inside them. They have very manipulative muscles, and can use them to carry and manipulate objects, including your hand. (They can do things that would make a regular human woman turn green with envy.) Their climax is coupled with stiffening, shuddering, sometimes a lot of thrusting, clinching of the vaginal muscles, and sometimes vocalisation.

Mating: This is harder. Obviously, being human, it is awkward, but not impossible to mate in open water. It is easier to have the dolphin in a shallow area (like the shallows just off the beach) around 1 1/2 to 2 feet deep. This is usually comfortable enough for both the dolphin and you. Gently, you should roll the dolphin on her side, so she is lying belly-towards you. You can prop yourself up on an elbow, and lie belly to belly against her. You may want to use the other arm to gently hold her close, and place the tip of your member against her genital slit. She will, if interested, arch her body up against you, taking you inside her body. There is usually a fair bit of wriggling and shifting, usually to get comfortable, both outside and inside. Once comfortable, though, females initiate a series of muscular vaginal contractions that rub the entire length of your member. They may also thrust rhythmically against you, so enjoy the experience while you can, since you will rarely last longer that a minute or two. Just prior to her climaxing, she will up the speed of her contractions and thrusts. It is interesting to note that the times I have mated with females, thay have timed their orgasm to mine. Whether they do this consciously or not, I do not know, but it is a great feeling to have two bodies shuddering against each other at the one time.

One thing to note. Whether you masturbate or mate a fin, male or female, always spend time with them afterwards. Cuddle them, rub them, talk to them and most importantly, and show them you love them. This is essential, as it helps to strengthen the bond between you. Like a way of saying that this wasn't just a one night fling. The dolphins appreciate it, and they will want your company more the next time you visit them.

Q4) What diseases can I get from dolphins? Can I give them any?

A4) I have had no experiences with Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's) with dolphins, so I couldn't rightfully say. I do know, however, that you can pass the Flu between you, along with other respiratory problems. (I got a cold when a dolphin sneezed on me once. It cleared up after a week or so.) You can also pass some skin irritations on to them, if you handle them with chaffed or broken skin. Just like with a human, it is best to BE CLEAN when you handle a dolphin. If you have cuts on your hands, avoid touching them unless you wash with a Betadine surgical scrub prior to handling. This is available from most Veterinary and Surgical suppliers. If you have some disease of some sort, avoid mating, for the dolphins sake. This is a little known area, more so because Zoophilia is considered illegal in many places (which I think is a load of crud, but the law's the law....)

Q5) Is their any way I can invite a dolphin to be masturbated?

A5) Well, yes. If they are hanging around, but not looking particularly excited, but you are, you can invite them with this way...

Male and Female dolphins can be invited by rolling them on their sides, again, but instead of going straight to the genital slit, rub along their bellies, between their pectoral fins, along the navel, and every once in a while, over the genital slit. If they are responsive, they will show the signs of excitement as described earlier, and you can proceed as usual. If, however, they are not responsive, they will swim away, or turn back upright. DO NOT force the issue with a dolphin! Trying to restrain them will only break their trust in you, and could cause you serious injury. Pat them, stroke them and talk to them lovingly, but do not try anything else. It is best, anyway, to let the dolphin tell you when they are ready. It is far more pleasant, and more fulfilling anyway. And more special.

Q6) Where can I find a dolphin to mate with?

A6) Aquariums are a bad choice, for many reasons. Too public, the dolphins are not in their natural habitat, night visits are impossible, etc etc... some may have external enclosures, which may be accesable, but that is no guarantee. Best thing sometimes is to find a beach or a cove that the dolphins frequent. It takes time to develop a relationship with a dolphin to the point where they will let you mate with them (although some have been as quick as 3 days to acclimatize). Gaining their trust takes time, and you need to visit frequently. This is impossible for some people, I understand, but it is the best way. Sometimes you just need to be in the right place at the right time. I have been extremely lucky on two occasions with wild dolphins, and my current mate is a dolphin who lives in the harbour of my resident city.

Well, I hope this is of use to whoever is interested. One final note. You should love a dolphin, not because of the sexual relief they can provide, but because they are a unique animal, one of the few wild animals that seek the company of man by their own initiative. This is special. Do not abuse it.

About the Author

I first realized I was a Delphinic Zoophile when I was 12 years old, which is when I had my first sexual encounter with a dolphin. This is not that particular occasion, since my first lover was brutally killed in an act of sensless violence that I will never forgive, or forget. She continues to live in my memories, though...

I volunteer with dolphins whenever I get the opportunity. They are special to me, highly intelligent, empathic creatures that are dear to my heart, and are a healing aspect in my life. So it was that I met this particular dolphin, a female bottle nose dolphin, 7 years old, who is residing at my home cities coastal harbour/aquarium.

She is a beautiful dolphin, inquisitive and playful, and more used to human contact than her other, older pod mates. I answer any questions the general public have about dolphins, and spend most of my free time with them, studying and talking with them. I learned through continued contact that each dolphin has a very particular personality and habits, traits useful for differentiating between the fins who are sometimes hard to distinguish on visual markings alone.

In order to avoid the bustle tourists, I usually visit the dolphins at night, illegally I must add, since I am considered to be trespassing. But it is the only time I do not have to be distracted by tourists or the staff. I do not expect to have sex with the dolphins every time I visit them; I am not that sort of person. I spend time with them because they are a relaxing and stabilizing source of peace in an otherwise hectic and unbalanced lifestyle. So it came as a pleasant surprise when this 7-year-old dolphin began to engage in sex-play with me.

I was quite happily swimming around with the dolphins when she suddenly decided to grab my foot with her genital slit. Dolphins have very muscular vaginal orifices, and can use these muscles to manipulate objects and carry them. I stayed still for a while, to see if she was just playing, but she continued to masturbate against my foot, and in the light of the torch I sometimes carry, I could see that her slit had become very pink and had swelled as well. She was aroused!

So, I started to back-paddle with my hands towards a small beached area, partially submerged in the water. A couple of times she pulled me forward into the deeper water, but eventually I got my self to the shallows. I dislodged my foot (Being careful not to pull too hard), and took her gently by a pectoral fin and rubbed her belly just to aclimatize her, I guess. She immediately rolled belly up and started doing pelvic thrusts against the palm of my hand. It was unmistakebly erotic, and by now I was fully aroused.

I stripped off my shorts, and gently pulled her into the shallows until she was lying on her side, her belly facing towards me, half submerged in the water. I nestled myself belly to belly against her, and pressed my member against her genital slit. She immediately arched her body against mine, and took me inside her body, initiating a quick series of muscular contractions with her vaginal muscles. I wrapped my left arm around her body and just held her close while she manipulated me inside her body, until I climaxed barely 2 minutes later. Surprisingly, her body also shuddered against mine, and we spent the next 5 or so minutes just lying together in the shallows, holding each other, enjoying our company and revelling in the fact that we had shared something special together, something very few people can claim to have done.
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Posted by pox]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:24:41 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Morpheus]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 11:54:42 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Jack Wolf]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 11:52:25 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Rocky]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 11:49:22 -0800 The Stranger
According to Ms. Ginter she is the one who pitched the story. Someone from KOMO was reading America Unzipped and mentioned us in the newsroom and Marlee told me she thought it would be an interesting story. She told me she was going to focus on our non profit status. I really had no issues with that (and still don't). However she did lie to me (said she interviewed Brian Alexander for the piece) and she did lie by omission(Never mentioned this was for Problem Solvers....I'm still curious what the problem is).

She totally manipulated Brian and my quotes and garbled most of the facts. (such as our members being able to deduct dues...wrong....me being the "owner" ....wrong). I am not surprised she didn't apologize to Brian Alexander. When I wrote her and told her that I was unhappy with story she replied that she was "stunned" that I didn't like it. She actually thought I'd appreciate the story. sigh

And KOMO pulled the piece in less than 11 hours. Makes you wonder.

As for all this brouhaha...well it got me an hour long radio interview with Schram and Carlson (very fun and positive) and it got us a lot of attention, new members and some donations. All in all, not bad.

Oh, and honestly, I'm not crazy about the "sucking goats" blog...but I do appreciate all the other blogs.

Thanks to all of you who support us and the sex positive community (oh, and an fyi, we don't take taxpayers money we are just exempt from paying federal income tax on our tiny profit.)

Allena Gabosch
Executive Director
Posted by Allena]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 08:19:32 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Rufus]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 02:36:35 -0800 The Stranger Posted by The Stranger]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 02:34:50 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Dupree]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 02:30:44 -0800 The Stranger Posted by wtf?]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 23:39:24 -0800 The Stranger
It's great - one of the things that the internet does is it makes it really easy to call people out on bullshit. Before internet, only KOMO had the power to broadcast its crap to the thousands. WITH internet, Dan can "broadcast" via a simple itty bitty blog, a response to the bullshit. And he can get a ton of regular people to help out. And we can do it for FREE.

People still aren't used to this, but it is totally rad.
Posted by onion]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 22:00:58 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Matt from Denver]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 21:55:45 -0800 The Stranger
But I do not work as a journalist because of stories like the one she produced. I work in it for the better. All stations have done a lot of great things for the community and also a lot of controversial and even slanted stories. But I have come to learn over my many years that you cannot satisfy everyone. Voice your concerns, protest, write letters if you feel a story is not represented well. And never stop until you hear back. But to degrade, humiliate, or demonize a person you do not even know is just as wrong as the story Marlee produced.

Her rude interruptions during a story do bother me and her aggressive style is a bit over the top. But I hear she is a nice person and a great coworker to work with.
Posted by Michael]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 21:40:27 -0800 The Stranger Posted by strange]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 19:25:16 -0800 The Stranger
Geri22 @113 I'd like to know how you did YOUR research? Do you perhaps work at KOMO? How could you know who decided the story should be done otherwise?

Besides, my "favorite" Ginter story is when she went around to local convenience stores and accused them of selling "crack pipes" "close to local schools", when they were obviously bongs/pipes for pot use.

She wants to be a hard hitting journalist, asking tough questions, but really she just interrupts people a lot and isn't willing to do the research which is the root of the issue here. She didn't do her job as a journalist.

And also those terrible fake contacts make her look like some horror movie zombie.

Posted by goats smoke pot too]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 19:10:55 -0800 The Stranger
Blessings.
Posted by Balt-O-Matt]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 18:29:46 -0800 The Stranger
classy? journalist? professional?

none of these words describe that annoying turd eating, goat suckin ginter.
Posted by mike]]> Sun, 23 Nov 2008 17:03:30 -0800 The Stranger
This is a pretty one sided fight. In fact this is not a fight at all. It is a public harassment. Dan just keeps attacking and she goes on with her work. I've been watching her on the news, and I think she is doing a nice job. Seattle news need more reporters like her.

Dan keeps demanding an apology. I suspect he is just looking for some way to justify the harm which he has caused. He wants to claim that Ms. Ginter started this. She did not, nor has she participated in it. She simply filed a news report that Dan Savage did not like, and then moved on to her next assignment. Ms. Ginter is obviously a classy professional. It is admirable that she has not bowed to the depths of Dan Savage. It is obvious who's the journalist and who's the immature bully screaming for attention.


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