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      <title>Comments On: Queen For a Day
    
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      <![CDATA[The Partridge Family tackled this back in the early 70's when David became queen and Laurie became King (or something like that)
        
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      <![CDATA[@12<br />
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I am glad to hear some find this kind of thing "old." aka - what's the big deal. . .
        
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      <![CDATA[@2:<br />
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so by your definition, anyone that falls outside of your set of opinions that are appropriate behaviors, traits and appearances of "genders" = bad example for others.  nice. Have many friends, do ya? <br />
        
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      <![CDATA[My university elected a male as our snow ball queen (snow ball is the big dance here).  The rules were "fixed" next year.
        
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      <![CDATA[@2<br />
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so a boy's mother wouldn't be an appropriate role model for him even if she is a highly accomplished CEO, world champion kick-boxer, whatever, because she is "female"?
        
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agreed.  <br />
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Although sex (body parts) and gender (social construction and perhaps brain structure are different)
        
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agreed.  <br />
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Although sex (body parts) and gender (social construction and perhaps brain structure are different)
        
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      <![CDATA[Please. My high school did this 10 years ago. Though it was in Toronto.
        
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      <![CDATA[It's heartwarming when you hear about kids being loved and accepted for who they are.  It gives me hope for the future.
        
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      <![CDATA[2, can you define exactly what the "appropriate gender roles" entail?  Other than having a penis or a vagina, what is the limiting factors in what a man or woman can do, and still remain within your idea of an "appropriate gender role"?  Is a woman working, while the husband stays home with the kids inappropriate?
        
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      <![CDATA[Nobody loves a hater. Except other haters.
        
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      <![CDATA[Yes keep up hope.  This story about the LA high school is an example of something said in a NYT op ed today  -- "' Minds are very hard things to open, and the best way to open the mind is through the heart.'...Thus persuasion may be most effective when built on human interactions.  Gay rights were probably advanced largely by the public's growing awareness of friends and family members who were gay."
        
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      <![CDATA[L.A.<br />
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      <![CDATA[Eh. just bored by it. Amused that it was by class election, though.
        
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      <![CDATA[Lemme guess, this is an attack on High School tradition, and now prom queens all over the country are less-prom-queeny because of it.
        
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      <![CDATA[Yeah, 2, because high schoolers are ideal role models at everything!
        
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      <![CDATA[Awww, that was so sweet. <br />
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I love his statement <i>"I just wish to be myself"</i><br />
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Isn't that what we all want, and should strive for?<br />
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Good for him!
        
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      <![CDATA[who needs appropriate gender role models, anyway
        
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      <![CDATA[Men or boys, gay or straight with more freedom to just be themselves is a soooo a good thing.<br />
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That he was voted by his peers makes me feel good.  It says to me young generations "get it" much better than the older ones.<br />
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And. . . I'll say (because i have this compulsion to do so) that some boys do want to be (or are) girls - and that's okay too.<br />
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YMMV, as they say.
        
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