http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2013/01/10/sl-letter-of-the-day-someone-missed-the-cougar-meme Comments On: SL Letter of the Day: Someone Missed the Cougar Meme by Dan Savage en-us Copyright 2013 The Stranger. All rights reserved. This RSS file is offered to individuals, The Stranger readers, and non-commercial organizations only. Any commercial websites wishing to use this RSS file, please contact The Stranger. webmaster@thestranger.com (The Stranger Webmaster) Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:00:01 -0700 Wed, 19 Jun 2013 19:15:00 -0700 Foundation http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Posted by Learned Hand]]> Sun, 13 Jan 2013 17:29:23 -0800 The Stranger
Previously only moderately jealous daughter has unresolved issues with her oversharing hot mother.

The oversharing hot mother is fed up with the jealous daughter's jealousy (over nothing much, probably) and tries not to overshare too much those days, at the expense of the truth. Not the smartest move, but quite understandable.

So my advice to the daughter would be :
1) run far far away from the super hot manipulative asshole.
2) get yourself in therapy, and find a way to live peacefully your life without the shadow of Mom all over your sex life.
3) and don't ever knowingly date Mom's leftovers - which is exactly what super hot guy is at this point.


Posted by sissoucat]]> Sat, 12 Jan 2013 08:04:55 -0800 The Stranger Posted by very bad homo]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 13:44:28 -0800 The Stranger
Who gives a fuck? It stops with Dan. The problem is with the issuer, not the recipient.
Posted by oh no don't show me gorgeous bodies]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 12:27:17 -0800 The Stranger
And as a corollary: Just because you disagree with someone or just because someone lies to you doesn't mean your reaction is necessary.
Posted by psbirch]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 11:25:33 -0800 The Stranger
Posted by seeker6079]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 11:17:55 -0800 The Stranger Posted by lolorhone]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 11:14:40 -0800 The Stranger

Posted by IPJ]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 11:09:08 -0800 The Stranger
I'm guessing maybe he remembered the angry-at-mom sex as being super hot?


Posted by IPJ]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 11:06:36 -0800 The Stranger
He was her brother's buddy and her FWB. I am not sure her mom knew that they were fuckbuddies.
I can assure you my parents would not have known if I had had sex with my brother's friend, esp. not at 18.


Posted by migrationist]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 11:02:42 -0800 The Stranger
Going after your kids friends is a major boundary issue, and not far from Woody Allen, great film-maker, and notorious pederast. Remember when he married his wife's adopted daughter? And then he had the nerve to sign a letter to the court stating that Roman Polanski should not be deported to the US to serve his term for the drugging and raping of a 13 y/o. Off topic, yes, but those themes run together in my mind, because I know some idiot is going to defend Woody Allen, and for the record, I love his films, and hate his creepy as judgment.
Posted by scratchmaster joe]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 10:34:46 -0800 The Stranger
But this shouldn't be taken very seriously, either. Best advice is to forget it and move on. Okay, maybe tease mom a little for being ridiculous. But no big blow-ups.

And send Dan pics AND get the guy's permission for Dan to share them on Slog, please.
Posted by Puty]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 10:11:01 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Timothy]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 09:26:18 -0800 The Stranger
Posted by Mike_in_Houston]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 08:02:55 -0800 The Stranger Posted by xjuan]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 07:49:02 -0800 The Stranger Posted by dchari]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 07:35:33 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Megaera]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 07:03:26 -0800 The Stranger Posted by seeker6079]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 06:09:22 -0800 The Stranger
I hope to never meet this woman, and I also hope to pick up her mother at the bar.
Posted by OOF POOF]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 06:03:13 -0800 The Stranger Posted by RNBSN]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 05:58:42 -0800 The Stranger
The issue is that parents should never EVER EVER hit on someone their children is or have ever been involved with. That not cool. Bizzarre Jerry Springer shit right there.
Posted by Moonmaid]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 05:39:47 -0800 The Stranger
Dr Sean - What, the trend going back at least as far as Henry II isn't good enough for you? We don't really need to count all the notable men alive today with wives young enough to be their (grand)daughters, do we?
Posted by vennominon]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 05:10:32 -0800 The Stranger Posted by migrationist]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 04:38:08 -0800 The Stranger Posted by GusII]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 03:01:17 -0800 The Stranger Posted by Functional Atheist]]> Fri, 11 Jan 2013 02:09:53 -0800 The Stranger