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      <![CDATA[@77: It's not just rape culture, it's literal rape.
        
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      <![CDATA[It may very well be true that those boys would have been decent people if it weren't for how society has treated them, but there's a limit to how far that goes.  Plenty of abusive parents were abused as children; that's obviously a terrible thing, and it's possible that they wouldn't be abusive if they hadn't been abused, but that doesn't mean they can do whatever they want.  While teenage boys may not fully understand the consequences of their actions, they do realize--or should realize, at least--that rape is bad.  It's not like that's a very difficult concept.
        
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      <![CDATA[Bullshit, Charles.  I spend many hours a week around the "impressionable youths" you speak of, and they do know the difference between right and wrong.  The issue is that they're not expected to live up to it.  I go to my weekly sporting events, and the kids looking for some good direction and attention inevitably show up, and, sometimes, frequently even, the teenagers are like "fuck this" and "bitch that," and, when they're called out on that behavior, apologize and straighten up.  I go over to lead sporting, discussion, and academic groups at the local rec center, and they act all bad until they're told to behave.  They know it's wrong, but the culture they live in accepts it.  It's not that they're "children," it's that grown folks in their community act a fool, and they emulate that.  To a certain extent, that does remove them from responsibility, but not totally, since they respond when called out on it.  They KNOW they shouldn't be behaving like that, but they see adults in their community acting like that, so they emulate, until they're set straight, in line with what they know is right.  While I don't normally agree with religious stuff, the Catholic idea that the "age of reason" lies somewhere around 7 seems pretty accurate to me.  That seems to be the age where one develops a healthy level of respect and empathy for other people.  Sure, young kids aren't fully in control of their emotions.  Sure, culture has an impact on people.  But to say that a 16-year-old doesn't get that rape is wrong is just an excuse for bad behavior.  If I (a female who looks to be about mid-20's) can get 14- to 16-year-old male kids who have grown up in unthinkably terrible circumstances to stop *cursing* (a small breach of social protocol) in a casual environment with just a sharp admonition, then surely they understand their actions have consequences.
        
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      <![CDATA[@74, letting them experience the consequences of their actions isn't "rape culture", you moron. Prison is justice. What happens to them their is chance, and they are the ones who rolled the dice. Cry me a river.
        
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      <![CDATA[I meant @73 in my previous comment, not @71.
        
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      <![CDATA[@71 The one kid's unabridged words linked above are not a whole, discrete narrative, and they are not being treated as a whole, discrete narrative in the 'court of public opinion'. To the public they are and have always been one part of the larger narrative of the alleged rape, because that is the way they were first presented. That narrative is very much abridged, piecemeal, cobbled together and full of hearsay (hearsay through a community of drunk teenagers). It may be that what happened is exactly what appears to have happened, or it may be that there is unexpected stuff in the gaps. I want justice, but because of this I continue to feel queasy about vigilantism. Go ahead and think of me as a sleazy conservative if you want, but my larger issue is the way progressive movements ultimately get undermined by the blowback if and when these kinds of stories come unstuck. Rape culture is real and needs to be challenged and dismantled, but there is more going on in this picture.
        
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      <![CDATA[@72: " sent to an adult prison to find out how fun rape is on the flip side"<br>
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Rape as justice is pretty much the definition of rape culture. You're no better than these kids, go fuck yourself.
        
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      <![CDATA[@71: The narrative has been the kids' unabridged words.<br>
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"Thanks for the insults."<br>
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Thanks for defending rape culture.
        
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      <![CDATA[I think they should be tried as adults, sent to an adult prison to find out how fun rape is on the flip side, AND publicly shamed for life. The girl will be scarred for life through no fault of their own. They should be doubly scarred, with only themselves to blame. I don't care if they're 16 or 18.
        
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      <![CDATA[@62 I don't defend rape culture, and I don't want to stand up for any of those kids. But the narrative that's been assembled in the media out of a collage of piecemeal footage and hearsay is being taken at face value everywhere I look, with no thought at all given to what is or may be unknown, and there are many gaps. I want rape culture to change, and I see it as ultimately counter-productive if mass reactivity overtakes the processes of justice. The danger here is something like what happened with recovered memory syndrome, where the lack of patience and discernment in reacting to apparent instances creates the risk of the phenomenon as a whole, as well as individual valid cases, being unfairly discredited. Thanks for the insults.
        
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      <![CDATA[@63 - this is a national story that's been all over the news - the Times has been reporting it, for Christ's sake. Charles got the video from CNN. Giving a shit about national news is not "getting off" on rape. Slog isn't exclusively a Seattle blog - it's always covered national news.
        
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      <![CDATA[@67: His usual capitalism/marxism shtick is generally less tasteless and exploitative, it's at a much lesser expense.
        
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      <![CDATA[67: Only someone as dumb as MisterG could go on a crusade about how people are too intolerant of rape and still come across as more boring and tiresome than scandalous.  Not to mention redundant: how many more times do you think he'll repeat the same dolphin-rape joke before he finally figures out that nobody's outraged or impressed?
        
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      <![CDATA[Man, you guys got trolled HARD.
        
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      <![CDATA[@56: I thought you said it pretty well.<br />
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@60: Exactly.
        
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      <![CDATA[Was there a story about dolphins, the gang rapists of the sea? Are there dolphins in India?
        
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      <![CDATA[So Mr G hasn't read today's morning news.....
        
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      <![CDATA[So the Stranger's "reporting" now consists of scouring the Internet for stories about rape. Either there's nothing happening in Seattle, or "progressives" really get off on rape.
        
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      <![CDATA[@61: "I have a serious problem with the way these guys are getting tried, convicted and sentenced by media - and the sentence is likely global and permanent. "<br>
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Good. We're not a court of law, you incredible idiot. The evidence of their ill-act was not a photoshop or cgi stand-in. They were horrible people on camera, and they are being treated like horrible people. Their example should resonate, the court of public opinion has nothing to do with "the media".
        
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      <![CDATA[As disgusting as the events *apparently* were, I have a serious problem with the way these guys are getting tried, convicted and sentenced by media - and the sentence is likely global and permanent. <br />
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Supposedly there is - or was - a plethora of documentary evidence of what happened, but so much of that evidence is hearsay and/or vanished that a proper trial is desperately needed to sort the facts from the bullshit. Even the guy in the video - what he says is stupid and vile, but who knows if he is talking about what he saw happen, what he thinks happened, what he heard happened or if he's just making shit up to troll - and he CLEARLY likes to troll. Most of us should be able to remember how controversial rumours spread like wildfire in teen communities, and few people in those communities know anything about the value of fact-checking, evidence or discretion. <br />
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It is all too easy for me to imagine a girl being carried from a room and some joker (like the one in the video above) saying 'ha ha they're going to rape her', after which the story takes on a life of its own. Sure, it doesn't LOOK like that's what happened, but there's enough nebulous possibility there that no one's eternal reputation should be staked on nth-hand accounts assembled in the media - and ESPECIALLY no kid's.
        
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      <![CDATA[If the girl is old enough to be blamed and shamed for the rape, so are the boys.
        
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    <pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2013 23:51:08 -0800</pubDate>
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      <![CDATA[Sealing records is for drug offenses and stealing and vandalism and other dumb shit people do when they're teenagers. If you're 16, you may not realize that shoplifting beers is wrong, so that shouldn't follow you the rest of your life, but you do know gang rape is wrong.<br />
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Also, for people arguing against public shaming: there are several reasons why it's the perfect option here. This isn't one person doing something wrong (or a group of teenagers doing something wrong), this is an example of a whole town doing something wrong by protecting them. They are the ones who need to be publicly shamed - to send them a signal that this behavior is not acceptable at all. Because honestly, something like this (athlete/rapists being protected because of a fucked up value system that values hometown wins over the well being of women) happens every couple years, and while I haven't done any scientific studies showing where it happens the most, I seem to remember the word "Ohio" coming up a lot with these types of cases. Can we make small football towns in Ohio synonymous with athlete/rapists the way Arizona is with racism until this goes away?<br />
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Also, in terms of ruining their lives forever, have they shown any signs of repentance? Because if they haven't, then go ahead and ruin their lives forever. These guys are shitbags. If they repent, and only if they repent, can we talk about forgiveness. And for people worrying about their ability to find work: they can ALWAYS get a job in the future: if someone who is known as a member of a self-described "rape crew" in a nationally-publicized case truly repents of their behavior later on, they can almost definitely get a job as a speaker educating other men about rape and domestic violence. But that would depend on them, wouldn't it?
        
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    <pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2013 20:25:11 -0800</pubDate>
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      <![CDATA[So your point is that "kids" can't do anything calculated to be vicious? Just incidental viciousness? I call bullshit on that. <br />
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But you're right - it does come from something. Ellen's character in Hard Candy (a fictional movie) I assumed was just Doogie Howser smart and extremely twisted - twisted by what they never delve into - and not a complete improbability, especially in a movie fer christsake. But these guys were twisted by something.  <br />
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We do not know where they came from, just what they have done.  And it speaks volumes.
        
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      <![CDATA[48 said it better; should have read some comments before responding to the article.
        
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      <![CDATA[Wrong.  Sure; the human brain doesn't finish developing until the early twenties.  But Charles writes as if the psychological switch from "helpless minor" into "fully functional adult" occurs on one's 18th birthday, just as suddenly as the legal switch.  It doesn't.<br />
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Eighteen was chosen as the "adult" age because our legal system needed to have one consistent age and 18 was good enough; not because 18 is where some type of magical developmental milestone suddenly occurs.  The brain develops gradually just like other parts of the body.  <br />
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Sixteen-year-olds may not be adults yet, legally or developmentally, but they're most of the way there.  They're far enough along that they should at least be able to tell that gang-rape is wrong.  They're far enough along that they bear responsibility when they commit acts like this.  Being 16 is an excuse for mild idiocy, not for being a violent fucking sociopath.<br />
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I'm all for trying minors as minors in our legal system, but this piece makes them out to be purely the suggestible victims of their own surroundings: that is not the case.  Whatever social repercussions they face are appropriate whether they've reached legal adulthood or are "only" 8/9ths of the way there. <br />
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This isn't the same as a five-year-old who shoots his friend with his dad's gun while playing cops and robbers.  Try them as minors if that's the best course for our legal system to take (they haven't crossed that legal border yet, after all).  But don't write about them as if they're too young and naive to know that gang-rape is a serious, violent act.  This wasn't due to their lack of two more years of growing up: this was their own doing.
        
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