Especially important, IMHO, to emphasize that it's temporary, since someone new to Gaydom might harbor the natural insecurities that could leave him feeling rejected when it's over. If you let him know that it's going to end before it even starts, he'll know not to take it personally when you're done. And yes, do make extra effort to remain friends afterward. Campsite rule!
> so long as you three are friends-with-benefiting-it-up, you would like to be informed about any other sexual contacts he might have.
He should tell them if he is having sex with other people (though they'd be wise to presume that is the case) -- and the GGGs should likewise tell him if either of them has sex with anyone else.
@2 - I love you troll - please stop hating yourself for being gay and taking it out on a group of strangers. It's very transparent and really, all you're doing is making yourself miserable.
"Campfire rules"! Dan, it's time to replay the "campfire rules" column of a few years ago. I've followed that advice with my young friend the hockey player and it's been great!
maybe you guys could all get married?
oh, nevermind.....
He should tell them if he is having sex with other people (though they'd be wise to presume that is the case) -- and the GGGs should likewise tell him if either of them has sex with anyone else.
I really suspect separatism is the only answer.
Wonder how this played out for the letter writer in the past three years.
@2 - I love you troll - please stop hating yourself for being gay and taking it out on a group of strangers. It's very transparent and really, all you're doing is making yourself miserable.
really, now....