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<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child</link>
<description>...save a life. Foster child denied shot at new liver A Central Florida foster child needs a life-saving liver, but doctors have taken him off a transplant list because they fear he cannot recover from surgery without a stable home. A disabled foster child whose liver is failing has been removed from a Central Florida hospital&apos;s organ-transplant waiting list because hospital administrators fear the state&apos;s shaky child-welfare system cannot ensure he has a permanent home in which to recover. Shands Hospital in Gainesville removed the boy, 15, from a waiting list for organ recipients after administrators determined the boy&apos;s unstable...</description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:18:45 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Mr. Poe</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Let him die. Who cares.</p>]]></description>
<author>Mr. Poe</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069092</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069092</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:25:55 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by douglas</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>wow, that's some cutthroat administration. </p>]]></description>
<author>douglas</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069104</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069104</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:28:46 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Gloria</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Christ, that's cold.</p>]]></description>
<author>Gloria</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069122</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069122</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:34:27 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Mike</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Crist for Vice President!</p>]]></description>
<author>Mike</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069130</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069130</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:36:03 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Balt-O-Matt</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>No words.</p>]]></description>
<author>Balt-O-Matt</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069140</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069140</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:38:34 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Jubilation T. Cornball</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Poe....naughty.</p>]]></description>
<author>Jubilation T. Cornball</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069143</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069143</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:39:49 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by mj</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>That is so sad.</p>]]></description>
<author>mj</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069149</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069149</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:40:55 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Reality</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Livers are scarce - they're making the right decision. Cold as it is.</p>]]></description>
<author>Reality</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069166</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069166</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:44:42 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Mike in MO</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>un-be-fucking-lievable. </p>

<p>Every asshole who believes that gays shouldn't be allowed to adopt should be required to explain to this kid why it is his best interest to keep him in foster care than let some filthy homos adopt him.</p>]]></description>
<author>Mike in MO</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069167</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069167</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:45:05 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Kalakalot</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Florida has quite possibly the most dysfunctional foster care system in the country. My relative was a guardian ad litem (a person who represents the child's -- as opposed to the parents' or the state's -- interests) in Florida courts for years, and her stories were horrifying: abusive foster families, incompetent social workers, and zero accountability on the part of the state. Punishing a sick child for what is essentially the state's shortcoming (i.e. not having found the child a stable home) sounds par for the course to me.  </p>]]></description>
<author>Kalakalot</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069174</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069174</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:46:23 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by elenchos</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Can I add this to my list of reasons why I get impatient with vindictive dead-enders who are helping to give McCain the chance to pack the Supreme Court with more conservative ghouls?  Because it won't just be women dying of back alley abortions or soldiers dying in Iraq.</p>]]></description>
<author>elenchos</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069179</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069179</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:47:22 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by schnoodle</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>My heart hurts.</p>]]></description>
<author>schnoodle</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069193</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069193</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:51:54 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by reverend dr dj riz</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>#9 and of course i'm amending that to..<br />
'every asshole who believes that gays shouldn't be allowed to adopt should be required to explain to this kid why it is his best interest to let him die than let some filthy homos adopt him.'</p>]]></description>
<author>reverend dr dj riz</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069194</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069194</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:52:30 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Dave Coffman</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>One positive benefit of global warming is that Florida will soon be flooded over.</p>]]></description>
<author>Dave Coffman</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069208</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069208</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:57:38 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Mr. Poe</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>#1 isn't me, asked Amy to delete, but then I found out who posted it, is funny to me now, it stays.</p>]]></description>
<author>Mr. Poe</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069213</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069213</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:00:02 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by elswinger</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>I have been stuck in a nursing home since November and had never had to deal with Medicaid or Medicare until now. (I am learning how to walk again after a long illness).</p>

<p>Last week Medicare slashed the amount for physical therapy to 18 hours a year.  Then yesterday Bush cut 15% out of the Medicare budget.  And McCain has put forth a budget that slashes Medicare and Medicaid by 85%.</p>

<p>I have been working for the past 25 years and only in the last two have I ever requires government assistance.  The hoops I have had to jump through have been humiliating.</p>

<p>I have a lot of sympathy for this boy but he may be better off dead than to go what I have gone through since last August.</p>

<p>The irony is that if he tried to kill himself, or wound up in prison, the government will do anything they have to to keep him alive.</p>]]></description>
<author>elswinger</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069218</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069218</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:00:50 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by COMTE</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>What is WRONG with you people?  </p>

<p>Don't you realize that, by denying a kidney to this filthy little urchin - who would most likely only squander this gift by growing up to be a crack-addled repeat-offender like his skanky welfare-scamming mom - it means a good, God-fearing child of decent upbringing will be the rightful recipient of that kidney instead?</p>

<p>Next, you bleeding hearts will be demanding that these snot-nosed guttersnipes be treated exactly the same as decently brought-up children, by allowing them to sit in the same classrooms, or drink from the same water fountains, or ride in the front of the school bus, or God only knows what else!</p>]]></description>
<author>COMTE</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069242</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069242</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:07:46 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Epimetheus</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Well, of course #8 is correct, but I wonder, what percentage of 15 year old's with behavior problems are ever adopted, and in states that do allow same sex couples to adopt, what percentage of them adopt disabled 15 year olds? </p>]]></description>
<author>Epimetheus</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069255</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069255</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:11:24 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by clarity</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>I think all of the pro-lifers who have ever been arrested for protesting an abortion clinic in Florida should be contacted about adopting this child.  After all, adoption is the only option for an ill-planned pregnancy right?</p>]]></description>
<author>clarity</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069259</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069259</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:12:17 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by umvue</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Most unfortunate.  Reasonable decision given the circumstances.  I'm wary about linking such cases with the pro same-sex marriage movement though.  Are we going to volunteer teh Gay to adopt the ultra special-needs children?</p>]]></description>
<author>umvue</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069260</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069260</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:12:47 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by clarity</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@ 20 No. It's not really a reasonable decision, the state should have to find a place for the child and soon he will be old enough to be assigned a case manager to help him out.  </p>

<p>But you're right about not volunteering gays to take all ultra-special needs kids.  These children should be adopted by those who can take the challenge.  And those who don't want women to have the right to choose.  If you are going to oppose abortion you should be required to be trained to take on at least 3 of them.  After all, if you want to imposew your beliefs on others you'd better be prepared to deal with the consequences.</p>]]></description>
<author>clarity</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069293</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069293</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:21:35 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by NapoleonXIV</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>On the bright side, the kid'll probably be able to provide a heart, two corneas, kidneys and other miscellaneous and sundry parts to needy, yet more worthy recipients from stable homes...</p>]]></description>
<author>NapoleonXIV</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069294</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069294</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:21:44 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Vince</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>On the whole I think keeping this child free of pain until his death might actually be the best course. As much as we think his life is being squandered, he probably would have a life tormented by the health care(less) system and his health. </p>]]></description>
<author>Vince</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069336</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069336</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:34:07 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by umvue</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@21  My "reasonable decision" was qualified, as was your statement.  What the state should do is, apparently, not what the state is going to do.  Perhaps should do and will do will merge as the result of public outcry upon publication of this story.  Perhaps not.</p>]]></description>
<author>umvue</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069338</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069338</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:35:04 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by clarity</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@24 we could hope!</p>]]></description>
<author>clarity</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069348</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069348</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:39:02 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Dan Savage</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Many, many gay couples do adopt special needs children. The point, though, is that Florida needs more qualified adopted parents, not less, and the policy of barring adoptions by gay and lesbian couples in Florida means children spend more time in foster care than they might otherwise. And the longer you're in the system, the more damage the system does.</p>

<p>We can't know if this child would have been adopted by a same-sex couple, if Florida allowed it. But we can't know that he wouldn't have been, if Florida allowed it. All we know for sure is that this kid is being sentenced to death because he's in foster care and, again, Florida would rather keep kids in foster care than allow same-sex couples to adopt. Who cares if kids are damaged or die as a result?</p>]]></description>
<author>Dan Savage</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069386</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069386</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 14:58:03 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by umvue</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@26  Right.  Well, almost.  I appreciate the sentiment behind "... this kid is being sentenced to death..." but it's hyperbole as he could easily die as A#1 on the list.  The evidence is that same-sex (or different sex) adoption is good for kids.  Period.  This is where the emphasis should remain, in my opinion, as I'm not sure what the antis will make of any kind of posturing behind special-needs kids.  Need data.</p>]]></description>
<author>umvue</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069465</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069465</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:38:46 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Will in Seattle</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@8, sadly, is correct, but not for that reason.  The reality is that rejection is an issue, as well as anti-rejection meds, and children in non-stable homes are more likely not to successfully accept the donated liver.</p>

<p>The risk factors increase substantially for a foster kid who hasn't been placed.</p>

<p>Amusing aside: one of the undead players on WoW is named "terryschiavo" ... he's in the Squirrelly Wrath guild.</p>]]></description>
<author>Will in Seattle</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069467</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069467</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:39:27 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by douglas</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>priorities are definitely fucked up in this case.</p>

<p>@14 i wouldn't say global warming has much of a silver lining here, when florida floods over all those floridans will be refugees heading north, no doubt bringing their bullshit with them. </p>]]></description>
<author>douglas</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069472</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069472</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:40:25 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by NapoleonXIV</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@29:  That's why we need to start building a great big wall <i>now</i>.</p>]]></description>
<author>NapoleonXIV</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069499</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069499</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:49:18 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by Michelle in OH</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Dan, it's even a tiny bit worse than you think: it isn't just gay couples that can't adopt in Florida -- gay *singles* can't either. Their law says that a person is ineligible to be an adoptive parent if he/she is "a homosexual." </p>]]></description>
<author>Michelle in OH</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069514</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069514</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:57:33 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by CP</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>Shouldn't the Department of Defense get involved in helping teens like this? If they sign a contract to serve when they finish high school? He'll need a good liver in the heat of a Humvee in Iraq... 2011, he'll have stumps for legs and be in a new hospital, Walter Reed...</p>

<p>I believe the children are our future... soldiers.</p>]]></description>
<author>CP</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069740</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069740</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 18:00:57 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by dawicksta</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>@19 - what you said</p>]]></description>
<author>dawicksta</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069763</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069763</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 18:20:30 -0800</pubDate>
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<title>Comment by ellarosa</title>
<description><![CDATA[<p>mr. poe, contributing his so valuable insights, as per usual.  first, and least on the scene, also per usual.</p>]]></description>
<author>ellarosa</author>
<link>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069814</link>
<guid>http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/07/adopt_a_foster_child#c1069814</guid>
<category>News</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 19:16:19 -0800</pubDate>
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