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There's no such thing as bisexuals. Either you suck cock or you don't suck cock. There ain't no inbetween.

Posted by Diceman | February 1, 2008 12:42 PM
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There is such thing as bisexual... it's the stepping stone from straight to gay. I know, I claimed the ever famous "bi" quote years ago. Now I look back and realize it was just a step for myself to come to terms with being gay, and self-identity.

Posted by Homo Will | February 1, 2008 12:46 PM
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that's bullshit, diceman. it may be easier for you to understand, but it doesn't make it real. among my friends, all in our mid to late twenties, pretty much every guy has had sex with both girls and guys. whether you label yourself as straight, gay, or bisexual, does it really matter if you are will to mess around with both sexes?

Posted by konstantConsumer | February 1, 2008 12:47 PM
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Hot! Thanks for sharing the link Dan.

Posted by Justin | February 1, 2008 1:00 PM
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uh, those guys in that study were college cheerleaders who had played HS football. I'm not saying anything, but....

Posted by thewalrus | February 1, 2008 1:01 PM
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Another useful study might be a Slog poll in which only straight guys could vote on whether they're gay, kinda gay or not gay.

Posted by Lloyd Clydesdale | February 1, 2008 1:14 PM
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That would be an emphatic not gay for me.

Posted by Chalupa | February 1, 2008 1:26 PM
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how could one identify as straight if they are sucking cock habitually. actions speak louder than words on this one.

Posted by Bellevue Ave | February 1, 2008 1:28 PM
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@2- I identified as gay before identifying as bi. By your logic i proved gay is a stepping stone to bi. It takes quite an ego to decide your personal experience disproves the orientation of other people.

Posted by mykill | February 1, 2008 1:31 PM
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You definitely need a college degree to prove that there are plenty of guys who are straight identified but love to get fucked by guys once in a while. Well, the degree isn't so important as the spending four years in a college setting being a big whore.

Posted by Gitai | February 1, 2008 1:36 PM
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@9 I do have a quite an ego. And my logic works for me, thanks.

Posted by Homo Will | February 1, 2008 1:39 PM
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i fucked the shit out of a sean cody "star" last weekend and he deffinitely wasnt straight/straight-identified.

Posted by Paul | February 1, 2008 2:00 PM
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What a load of crap.

"I think there have been studies done that show that most people are actually bisexual"

He *thinks* there have been? What a retarded quote.

If you engage in gay sex, and enjoy it, YOU ARE NOT STRAIGHT. BY DEFINITION. Just because they call themselves straight to fulfill some societal expectation doesn't make it so.

This is like saying that Larry Craig enjoys gay sex now and then, but he's straight and always has been, because, you know, he says so. Puhlease.

Posted by w7ngman | February 1, 2008 2:00 PM
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People buy used underwear? Holy Crap! Here's that old joke again: "I'm Bi-sexual I like both men and boys".

Posted by Sargon Bighorn | February 1, 2008 2:16 PM
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They really ought to change the name of their site. The boy on the left is a Twink, but the one on the right definitely isn't!

Posted by Anna | February 1, 2008 2:16 PM
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here is where the twisted logic comes in.

larry craig has a wife, has never admitted to being even gay or bi, and for all intents and purposes seems to be straight. does anyone believe that he is straight or even bi? his actions count for a lot more.

Posted by Bellevue Ave | February 1, 2008 2:22 PM
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Is it just me, or are most of Dan's posts lately surging with sexual energy? I know he is a sex columnist but I think his visit to the porn convention in Vegas must have flipped his horny switch.

Posted by michael strangeways | February 1, 2008 3:07 PM
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I'm seeing Generation Y willing to do a wide array of things previously considered out of bounds...if the price is right. Don't know if that's good or bad. It just is.

Posted by Bauhaus | February 1, 2008 3:27 PM
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@10 lol

But would you be doing the fucking or getting the fucked.

I just find it hard to believe that straight guys would casually be into anal once or twice given how much it (purportedly) hurts

Posted by Non | February 1, 2008 3:29 PM
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Oh, Michael. That sex convention in Vegas was so deeply, deeply unsexy. It must be something else.

Posted by Dan Savage | February 1, 2008 3:56 PM
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Come on, Dan, don't fall for the pornaganda. Yeah, right, the guys in the gay porn are straight-- just like the girls in the teen porn are really 18 and virgins and are dying for an older guy to shoot a load in their mouth after a lesbian three-way. It's a marketing campaign, pure and simple. Obviously gay guys are turned on by the idea of straight guys getting fucked or whatever, hence porn producers make films featuring "straight" guys.

Posted by Mr Me | February 1, 2008 5:37 PM
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I just find it hard to believe that straight guys would casually be into anal once or twice given how much it (purportedly) hurts

Am I the only one who doesn't get the whole anal-sex-is-painful thing? I mean, it just isn't. I suppose if you don't use any lube at all or something it might be kind of painful - but that goes for any kind of penetrative sex. I can't see any reason why people of either gender or orientation wouldn't try it at least a couple times.

I also have to put my vote in for sexuality being more fluid and less rigidly defined. I would say that the majority of my friends, no matter which way they identify, have had sex at least once with someone who isn't their normal preference. I see it even more frequently with my younger sister and her friends.

Personally, I'm in the category of "if it feels good, go for it". I assume that puts me in the mid-range bisexual area, though I think I'm going to take on the Torchwood designation of omnisexual. It sounds far cooler. Plus it can be shortened to "omni," which is just sweet.

Posted by wench | February 1, 2008 11:15 PM
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This is just another one of those wierd fads. Basically it's just some closeted dudes who are burned out from the 'struggle' and instead of admitting they are gay, they want a new term. These are the frat boy types who hate "fags" and who they see as effeminate "queers" (because they can't hide it). So they want to remain in the closet, yet have gay sex on the DL. It's what gay Black men have been doing for years.

Posted by Brent | February 2, 2008 1:08 AM
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Aren't you all tired of people trying to impose their ideas about sexuality on you? Isn't that the kind of crap that makes growing up and coming out hellish for gay men? So why the fuck are you trying to dictate the terms of sexual orientation for these guys? The hypocrisy is mind-boggling.

Posted by Greg | February 2, 2008 10:05 AM
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Why must we all put ourselves and everyone else in a box? Who the hell cares what anyone else identifies as? Bottom line is we're all human regardlelss if you like sucking dick or eating pussy or both. There are more important things to be discussed!

Posted by George | February 7, 2008 11:06 AM
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:) i chuckled at a couple of the comments in here...there's straight guys who strip in gay clubs, some straight guys shoot gay porn, and work as gay escorts... whether they're bi or not, gawd knows??! I do it for the money...lol... kriss & jeff, what a cute couple, eh?! ;) twinkundie's is a cool idea, they're really not twinks when they've put their heads together to create a niche like they have.. good entrepreneurial skills bois, I've heard there's a ton of dudes into all thst... i'd try selling mine, but i go commando:)

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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:28 PM
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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:28 PM
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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:29 PM
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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:29 PM
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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:29 PM
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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:30 PM
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hmm, does it work both ways?
So let me see, I've been gay all my life, but if suddenly I sleep with a girl, I become straight???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:30 PM
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or is everybody gay by default, and have to work to become "straiht"???

Posted by k | February 8, 2008 3:32 PM
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Is that BI, Buy ($) or BOUGHT sexuality from these guys?

Posted by tdude | February 8, 2008 10:11 PM

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