Savage Love Savage Love Letter of the Day
posted by January 21 at 12:34 PMon
I’d like to pass on my 2 cents worth for NFLOF, the man whose father was being scammed by Russian mail-order brides. After my second son was born my wife didn’t even pretend to be interested is sex. What had been a poor sex life turned into a nonexistent sex life. After we divorced, I took your advice and started seeing hookers. I got laid, regained confidence, learned what I wanted in a partner.
I also met some delightful women: smart, funny, horny, bi, into BDSM, lots of stuff I never had the opportunity to explore before. Most aren’t crack addicts. Many are well educated. One is an MD finishing her residency in Psychiatry. Another has a PhD in literature. I developed friendships with a few, enjoyed the bodies of the others. You do have to pay, but dating isn’t cheap either.
I second your advice to NFLOF: find his dad a good hooker or two or three. The internet has completely changed the profession. You aren’t driving around a seedy neighborhood after dark. You can see what she looks like, read a little about her, exchange e-mails first. There are women out there who specifically like to see older guys. Many will meet for a get acquainted cup of coffee before to make sure there’s a fit. You can talk, screw, fondle, lick and get licked,caress, cuddle. You have to keep the limitations of the the relationship firmly in mind, but it can be a great way to enjoy a woman with no adverse consequences.
Doing It In Denver
I have nothing to add. Well said, DIID.