Comments on DIY, Portland

What could the "ethics" of DIY sex be, besides try to do it when no one is watching? Guess I have to listen.

Is "Leviethan" supposed to be "Leviathan," or is it a clever name for a collaboration between two guys named Levi (not me) and Ethan?

Are you saying Bradley is like Derek Lamb, the Stephen Merchant character in Extras, whom Ricky Gervais's character discovers wanking at his desk, having become incontrollably aroused by one of those pens that has a lady do a striptease when you tilt it upside down?

Huh. Looks like it probably is the latter. Or at least there's a Levi involved.

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I can orgasm doing Kegel exercises...I don't even need to use my diaphragm.

trust it to Portland to one up us on DIY sex...

Good show, Dan, and I liked the point you made about how male sexuality is policed in our culture. But I think you stumbled a bit on the question of why women don't talk about masturbation as much as men do, and came across sounding disingenuous. Women are "shy" about this subject because we have been harshly policed--fear of female sexuality runs deep in many cultures, Christian cultures not the least so. I'm sure that you know this, and I wonder why you were so disinclined to be upfront about it.

I think it's wonderful that you are speaking up about how restrictive the role of the "straight man" is -- but you seem to take such a harsh view of straight women whenever you discuss this issue. The path to a sexually healthy culture, it seems to me, is not to point the finger at women for screwing men up. Puritanical attitudes are the problem, and while they are perpetuated by both women and men, they primarily serve men -- traditional men and their traditional families, yes, but men, and the male-dominant structures of power.

Women have been strongly socialized to police sexuality, but also to provide it (the madonna/whore thing), while men are socialized to enjoy it and encouraged to consume it. Even within the boundaries imposed by their female partners, men have much more freedom to enjoy their sexuality than women do (porn is made for them, sexualized images of women are everywhere, strip clubs, etc.). Our culture makes it very easy for men to be sexual creatures and still be respected. Women have to proceed with caution.

That's why women don't talk about masturbation -- we're not supposed to like sex, sex is for men to enjoy. And it's very, very sad, for all of us. I don't think you would be betraying straight men by pointing this out.

Hi,

Yes, my first name is Levi, my middle name is Ethan. Hence Leviethan. Sounds like the monster, but it's just my name.

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