Slog - Comments on Case Reports from the Field http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field You ask: I think my girlfriend is faking her orgasms. Is there any way, scientifically, to figure out if an orgasm is real or not? I write: Sweaty feet are a good place to start. Having an orgasm, at least to your autonomic nervous system, is akin to being chased by a lion or getting into a drunken bar fight. For men and women, the medical school mnemonic (you'd be horrified to find out how most medical students pass their tests) for sex is "point and shoot," because it's the parasympathetic nervous system—the feed-and-breed regulator—that handles arousal, getting all... Copyright 2008 Wed, 14 Nov 2007 09:30:47 -0800 Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:56:08 -0800 http://www.movabletype.org/?v=3.34 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Comment by Greg Vaginal contractions can be done consciously, though it would take a pretty skilled woman to be able to mimic those of an orgasm convincingly.

]]> Greg http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849408 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849408 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 09:53:15 -0800 Comment by Chris in Tampa The cold tongue thing is how I always tell.

]]> Chris in Tampa http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849416 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849416 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 09:59:07 -0800 Comment by kid icarus Thanks again, Science!

]]> kid icarus http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849432 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849432 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 10:07:30 -0800 Comment by Will in Seattle Have to agree on behind the knees sweat.

]]> Will in Seattle http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849436 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849436 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 10:10:40 -0800 Comment by Emma Leigh "Lesbians appear to be the population for female orgasms, with both the largest prevalence as well as the most high risk behaviors." Um, what? Did someone steal some of the words out of that sentence?

]]> Emma Leigh http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849462 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849462 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 10:24:54 -0800 Comment by mj If you need a scientist to figure out if your girlfriend is having an orgasm maybe an honest open talk is long over due!

Women can fake orgasm and unless you’re checking her heart rate after sex which would be really weird you’re not going to know. Actually her heart can really get going and you still don’t know if she did or not ,maybe she just got excited but did not orgasm.
Sweat behind the knees, cold tongues and vaginal contractions DO NOT happen after every orgasm and every orgasm can be very different. It's all a bunch of baloney.
Just ask and if she says no that is her problem for not being honest.
The bummer is that for some bizarre reason women can feel guilty for not having an orgasm so it's easier to lie than to tell the truth.

]]> mj http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849510 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849510 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 11:08:44 -0800 Comment by Fnarf I can tell by the way she says "God, you are a fucking FREAK, get away from me, I'm calling the cops".

]]> Fnarf http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849522 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849522 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 11:18:46 -0800 Comment by in my experience "sex flush," the chest turning red, although not for everyone.

toes wrinkling up, although that's pretty easy to fake

]]> in my experience http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849524 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849524 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 11:19:58 -0800 Comment by mj Fnarf, don't you know anything about women? Haven't you read ANY Louie Lamour books? When a women says " Get the Fuck away from me" she is really saying " Baby, come get me I'm all yours!!
I suggest the next time a woman says that to you just grab her real close to you and hold her real tight. Maybe she will just fall into your arms.
Of course you could always get arrested too but I will help with the bail if need be!

]]> mj http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849554 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849554 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 11:37:06 -0800 Comment by Fnarf Oh, great, I'm already in trouble for all these dead puppies, and now you want me up on rape charges too?

]]> Fnarf http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849574 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849574 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 11:54:37 -0800 Comment by anonn My college roommate's boyfriend always checked her chest to see if it turned red after they had sex.

]]> anonn http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849684 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849684 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:05:58 -0800 Comment by Will in Seattle @8, 11 - yes, that is also a sign.

]]> Will in Seattle http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849725 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849725 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:36:02 -0800 Comment by mj The best sign is this...

That was great with a big smile on her face!
Otherwise you just don't know!
Come on guys we used to joke about curling toes in high school and if you are that interested in the mysterious signs why don't you just ask her? You don't ask because you're afraid of the answer so you look for all these silly signs and sit back and think " I'm Good"
It kind of cracks me up that all these guys are letting us know what all telling signs are too.

Oh God... I'm late for church... gotta run!

]]> mj http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849744 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849744 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 13:55:26 -0800 Comment by Aislinn Last weekend I was in bed with a friend and her ex (completely innocent - we were taking a nap), and the ex started telling stories about when they were together and this night they had sex in a friend's house, and realized afterwards that the door has been open and the friend's young brothers were "asleep" across the hall. He kept referring to her "three o's," as if it was the crowning achievement of his life. He said it enough times that I finally whispered to her, "Three? Really?" and she made a face and shook her head no. Years later, he's still totally psyched about something that never happened.

I'm noisy during sex, and sometimes people may think it happened when it didn't, but I will never "fake" it or lie if asked. If a person needs to be lied to about something like that, are they really someone you should be sleeping with?

]]> Aislinn http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849834 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c849834 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 15:01:26 -0800 Comment by Jason Petersen Goosebumps are irrelevant: Here's why.

You posit that goosebumps are perhaps necessary. I don't get goosebumps, so therefore it's not necessary.

Are they sufficient? My gf gets goosebumps sometimes, but it's not always at the moment of importance; furthermore, a draft of cold air can easily induce goosebumps, which do not then lead to orgasm.

Therefore they are not sufficient.

From this we can deduce that goosebumps are not strongly linked to orgasm in the general case.

]]> Jason Petersen http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c850037 http://slog.thestranger.com/2007/11/case_reports_from_the_field#c850037 Science Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:56:08 -0800