Comments on Speaking Gigs

Not to get in a "suck Dan's D" contest, but I hope you do realize what a positive impact you have on a great number of people. I know it is easy to lose sight of this in the daily grind of traffic, petty disagreements, etc.

You're the best Dan Savage!!!!

Dogs get car sick?

He takes a dog prone to carsickness in the car?

Hmm.

The writer should know that if he's got That Voice, there's no need to worry about "coming out." Everybody already knows. : )

Oh please. In high school my girlfriend's step uncle was a small and effeminate man who was a florist. But he was definitely straight. I could tell by the way he looked at her. He just wanted to eat her fiery red bush.

I have been reading Dan's column since I was about ten years old. I used to sneak copies of it while from the local alt-weekly in Denver while my mom taught a night class at the community college. I learned so much from Savage Love, not only in the way of "fetish-how-to" but also in terms of a general paradigm that embraced sexuality. For this reason, Dan Savage ranks among the top non-parental influences in my like. Thanks Dan!

that is so nice.

Aw, that is sweet. Dan, you are a great influence. You taught me all there is to know about GGG.

Hey, Dan, so if talking to gay kids at local colleges gives you the warm fuzzies, why won't you do so at local high schools. Several of my students at a local school contacted you over the past year to talk to a group of GLTBQ and gay-friendly kids, but never heard as much as a response from you despite several inquiries. What gives?

Hey, Adam...

I must have missed those emails. I would be happy to speak to kids at local high schools. Send me an email--but you have to keep after me. Arranging the college gigs are easier because, well, I don't arrange them. Someone books me, reminds me, nags me. I don't have to book myself. I'm disorganized.

Dan, you were awesome at WWU. Your talk was one of the best things I've seen there all year--my friends and I were surprised it was free.

And I've been reading your column for ages, too. You definitely helped me become more comfortable with sexuality in general. I had a pretty conservative upbringing, and your column normalized sex for me. And its just damn fun to read. Thanks.

I must have missed those emails. i remember those emails. they were about projects they wanted to do or advice you had to give, and you posted them on slog and made fun of them while everyone ragged on how stupid the kids were.

Yay Dan! Youre super cool! Now you know again how much we all heart you!

And you guys? My friends were at the speech that Dan gave to these wonderful young people (most of whom have never even SEEN a gay man before you guys, which makes it all the more touching that Dan would travel so far), but that he said some really interesting stuff about how blogs are signalling the death of print journalism.

So yay! to slog too! For signalling the death of print journalism!

@ 11: No, those emails were from kids asking me to do their homework for them--those emails come in every day, usually with a line at the end letting me know that their report is due in two days and I need to get back to them right away. Those emails I ignore (except for the one or two I've posted on Slog).

@ 12: Yes, Sam. I am a bad, bad man.

Years and years ago, my first boyfriend had an absolutely indescribable voice. It was a study in contrasts... very high, but somehow deep, very gay, but not necessarily effeminate. It was lyrical and unique and beautiful, and without a doubt, the most pleasant speaking voice I ever heard emitted by a human. He was young and semi-closeted, and he hated his voice. I didn't then (nor now) have a voice fetish, but his voice was certainly one of the things I loved about him. I made this clear to him, but he was hammered from all sides by folks and influences that said otherwise. He eventually found his way to a speech therapist, and wonder of wonders, one day he called me and I barely recognized him. Total transformation. He was 1,000 times happier and more confident with his new voice, which, I suppose is all that matters. Still, I think the world crushed something beautiful and I miss it dearly.

shoulda flown.

@14: Aww. That's so sad.

Also, Dan, please come to University of Toronto!

That story is super-cute and heartwarming!

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