Homo First they Came for the Straight Men…
Last month, Details paid back-handed tribute to a new generation of “plate-scraping… padded” starlets (check out some of Details “fatties” here). This month, they take on the scourge of “heterophobia”—”disdain for the heterosexual lifestyle.”
The hetero male lifestyle, anyway. American maleness, Details laments, has been hijacked by the gays, who make straight men feel inadequate, clueless, sloppy, and—worst—”lumbering.”
Straight guys are subconsciously embracing a kind of vulgar mediocrity—a wobbly drive down Minivan Lane in pleated khakis and a rumpled T-shirt. Call it the media-enabled Straight Guy Inferiority Complex.
Or call it the Declining Newsstand Sales Desperation Tactic.
Straight men have also been conditioned to strive for the prototypical “gay bodyā€¯—the gym-sculpted, plucked, waxed, and otherwise ultra-groomed physique (which is, ironically, out of fashion among more and more gays). If a product can be made to seem “hotā€¯ with gay men, it can go mainstream and still retain an edge. Outside of, say, sports equipment, gay males often determine what straight males will eventually buy.
Poor, poor straight men: Always being forced to consume whatever’s “edgy” and yet “mainstream.” And yet where, exactly, do they get their ideas about what to “eventually buy” … if not, say, fashion rags like Details Magazine?
The gays are even making straight men feel bad about sex.
Dan Renzi, a journalist and blogger (and former MTV Real World gay guy), believes that straight guys “are jealous that gay sex includes blow jobs by default.ā€¯ And Andrew Sullivan, the political and gay-issues commentator who blogs on Time.com, points out another reason straight guys think they’ve got it worse: “The most common gay envy I get from straight guys is simply that single gay guys can have sex and not expect to be called the next day.ā€¯
I can’t say I blame Details (whose past incarnations have included slyly gay, openly gay, and not-gay-at-all) for trying to shock. It’s competing, after all, with magazines Stuff and FHM. Personally, though, I’m sticking to Esquire.
I prefer Vanity Fair myself. But they do raise a good point, the whole ab thing is more of a guy liking guy thing, whereas most women actually prefer thin wiry men with thick ... um ... appendages.