Sex Kinky Sluts vs. Feminists
Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Village Voice piece about kinky, slutty sex is stirring ire in the feminist blogosphere. I agree with Pandagon that what women need sexually is a complete range of options. But my experience with women who identify as feminists is that they don’t like me slapping boys around and pegging them any more than they like women acting out rape fantasies. “False consciousness” is the term I’ve generally had assigned to me, which means “You think you know what you want, but you’re deluded. We’re going to tell you how your sexuality should look.”
Which is why, while I actively support just about everything that feminists identify as political goals, I do not call myself a feminist.
For the record, as a male, I think women should keep giving blowjobs.