Apparently I’m an Asshat
The woman who runs DesktopDetective probably doesn’t know it, but “asshat” is one of our favorite words here at The Stranger, having first come to our attention as a suggested descriptor for President Bush.
Now, apparently, I’m an asshat for writing the following paragraph in this story about Kyle Huff:
A woman who wanted to be identified only as Michelle, and who runs the local blog desktopdetective.blogspot.com, said she has talked to three different young people who believe they may have seen Kyle at a few raves and electronic-music parties over the past three months. She could not immediately make those people available to The Stranger, however. More compellingly, a post dated February 1 from kylehuff23@hotmail.com was found on the guest book of a local woman’s website after the killings. The message asks for information about upcoming parties. “Hey, I’ve never been to a rave in Seattle,” it reads. “Was wondering if anyone could tell me when one is coming up.” Kim Dietemann, who operated the site, contacted the police about the message.
Michelle appears to be mad that I didn’t just take her word that three different young people had seen Kyle Huff at parties in the last few months. Sorry, Michelle, but it would have been pretty sloppy journalism for me to have just taken the word of an anonymous blogger, and not to have asked to speak directly to the people who you say saw Huff. As for needing to hear from them within two hours—like I told you, my deadline was coming up in two hours, and if I was going to get their stories into my story for this week’s Stranger, I needed to hear from them before my deadline. But I think you’re exaggerating how demanding I was. As I also told you, I would be happy to talk to these people for a future story if they’re not ready to talk yet.
Eli I told you that they would talk with you. Just give them a little time to grieve and move on - they still have memorials to attend.
I told you who they were. You are a professional writer and I'm sure you understand that presentation is nine tenths of presumption. You could have worded that to convey that they were not ready to talk yet because they were grieving and that there would be a follow up story with them, but instead you conveyed it as to give a perception that I was unable to produce them because they didn't exist. Everyone I know, and those who have contacted me, all interpreted your words the same way.
They are still willing to talk with you - but not right now. They are being disparaged in various forums on the net - all because 'certain' people do not want anyone to admit that he had been at other parties - it's all about business. If that nonsens keeps up they may not want to talk with anyone other than the Detectives.
I'm still fascinated by the fact that when I said I support their idea of PLUR you didn't even know what PLUR was.
Asshat is my favorite word too - I guess we have something in common.